This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing |
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
Socials are a good way to start for a bit of networking  |
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
maybe it's because you are attached, maybe it's because of your poor maths skills
If you've been let down review your own selection process  |
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
You'd be surprised, I have been let down on numerous occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
Are the people letting you down verified?? There in lies the problem!
I was fortunate enough to get a verification early. I updated my status regularly blatantly asking for a verification and nothing more and one local lady responded. It was something along the lines of "anyone want to meet for coffee today, I need a verification, my shout". We met for nothing more than 20 minutes a coffee and a verification. We did end up keeping in touch mind you and it went further the second time we met. |
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Found it ha ha. Believe it or not the below actually worked and it didn't even cost me lunch!
"Anyone in Edinburgh want to meet for lunch? I want to be verified so my shout, nothing more required!"
I was at a club on Monday but unfortunately didn't get anyone to verify me. Didn't really feel like it was the right thing to drop into a conversation at the time. Have been messaging one of the woman I bumped into so may ask her. |
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
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Go on cam with admin or moderator, or a verified pic with your name, its a start |
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That's bad logic. Everyone started with no verifications so therefore people meet people with no verifications.
When men can't get meets, they blame anything and everything they have no control over - age, height, lack of verifications, nose shape etc. It's an easy way out. Doesn't achieve anything though. Nothing positive anyway.
How about making sure your profile is top notch and what you say to people is good? That's how people get meets and verified if they don't go to clubs or socials. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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insanity is doing the same thing again and again, and expecting a different result...
so if you have been let down "again and again"..... isn't the common denominator you?????
so if the same thing is happening "again and again" then isn't it time to change what you are doing?
just a thought............. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
maybe cause you have a star shaped head ? # just saying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would stop moaning apart from the fact your cheating you have been on fab over a year without a meet.that says you aint going to be meeting anyone so no one will bother with you and just presume your a timewaster |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
There is no catch 22.
Every verified member started life on Fab the same way - unverified.
Every. Single. One.
Men. Women. TV/TS. And couples.
It's a cop out to claim there is and simply a means of deflecting the reason for a lack of a veri from something the profile owner can control.
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing
I'll try that thank you
Are the people letting you down verified?? There in lies the problem!
I was fortunate enough to get a verification early. I updated my status regularly blatantly asking for a verification and nothing more and one local lady responded. It was something along the lines of "anyone want to meet for coffee today, I need a verification, my shout". We met for nothing more than 20 minutes a coffee and a verification. We did end up keeping in touch mind you and it went further the second time we met."
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing h
I've verified my pic with admin
Go on cam with admin or moderator, or a verified pic with your name, its a start"
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"insanity is doing the same thing again and again, and expecting a different result...
so if you have been let down "again and again"..... isn't the common denominator you?????
so if the same thing is happening "again and again" then isn't it time to change what you are doing?
just a thought............."
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
. Verifications can be completely meaningless . If you have a well written profile with good pictures you will get meets ..However if your profile just states that you are male and seeking sex you may struggle. As there are plenty of fish in the sea , your profile needs to be exceptional in order to be sekected. Is yours ?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site is like a catch 22!
You can't get a meet without verifications but you can't get verified without a meet!
I've had a few meets planned and been let down each time!
Is anyone else experiencing this? Probably more guys than women I'm guessing "
Wait first you can't get meets but then you say you've planned a few meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The statistics in your profile are excellent though. 110% kudos for that.
haha "
Oh Dear !! Probably writing his profile in the toilet, so his wife doesnt see! |
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