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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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My trimmed and conditioned beard attracts positive comments and no negative ones. My OH loves the feel on her neck. If I shave it off for the summer I will grow it again in the autumn.
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It's amazing how many men have got beards today and not just a fluffy stubble but full grown bush.
For me I hate having a beard as it doesn't suit me plus is so itchy when growing it annoys me.
So I am clean shaven and love the feel when I have had a fresh wet shave. |
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If it's a groomed beard keep it.
If you've just left its to grow trim it or take it off.
Beard over "designer stubble" anyday.
I'm regrowing mine at the minute but it's a mild pain to do it tidly so its doesn't look like a hobo beard.
I let it grow then trimmed down to 3 mil and tidied it up.
Then again with a 6 mil trim.
getting ready for the 9 mil trim now and will probably stop there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking to my hairdresser, who does loads of guys hair and beards, they're all getting them taken off, the trend is over and dying out fast. "
But why do people have to have beards just because it is "fashionable"...a lot of the guys I have seen with them just look stupid... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking to my hairdresser, who does loads of guys hair and beards, they're all getting them taken off, the trend is over and dying out fast. "
Thank god! |
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"Talking to my hairdresser, who does loads of guys hair and beards, they're all getting them taken off, the trend is over and dying out fast.
But why do people have to have beards just because it is "fashionable"...a lot of the guys I have seen with them just look stupid..."
I have one because everybody tells me it suits me and I have a baby face so as a 31 year old man getting ID'd for fags without it it gets irritating.
Plus I had it before it became fashion so I'm not removing it for the sake of non conformity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I simply go for that can't be bothered to shave look... Have done since 16, in this game most seem to like clean shaven... But I just can't do it!"
Stubble is cool...but the full on Abraham Lincolns give me the heebee jeebies... |
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"I simply go for that can't be bothered to shave look... Have done since 16, in this game most seem to like clean shaven... But I just can't do it!"
yep, that's my look as well, shaved everyday in the army, when i come out i decided fuck that, once a week from now on. Now it's mown once a week with an electric shaver.
Having said that, i just shaved a full beard off, that i'd been growing for a good few weeks.....it's growth seemed to be linked to the amount of protests received from angel  , but we had a meet last nite, so off it came......turns out it didn't have to, our friend would have been quite happy for me to have left it on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alot of beard hate in here. Im very bearded, very tattooed and I must say theres an awful lot of women who love it. Each to their own though but dont fear the beard ladies  |
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"That is the question, I have a rather MANLY beard at the moment and the misses and I are arguing over its survival!
Votes for and against please!  "
Keep the beard i know what its like to get rid of it and im sorry its gone now |
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"That is the question, I have a rather MANLY beard at the moment and the misses and I are arguing over its survival!
Votes for and against please!
Keep the beard i know what its like to get rid of it and im sorry its gone now "
It's not permanent.
I never had one till the Mrs told me to get one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas 
and ticklish "
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel "
Haha cheeky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel
Haha cheeky "
Who me? Never  |
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"I simply go for that can't be bothered to shave look... Have done since 16, in this game most seem to like clean shaven... But I just can't do it!
yep, that's my look as well, shaved everyday in the army, when i come out i decided fuck that, once a week from now on. Now it's mown once a week with an electric shaver.
Having said that, i just shaved a full beard off, that i'd been growing for a good few weeks.....it's growth seemed to be linked to the amount of protests received from angel , but we had a meet last nite, so off it came......turns out it didn't have to, our friend would have been quite happy for me to have left it on "
Same routine too, although I sometimes stretch it to two weeks, shave the sides off have a goatee for a week...
Then go nuts a shave my head and face completely! |
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"i've always found a nicely trimed beard can add extra stimulation when receiving oral."
That's so true!
Keep it. Just had mine shortened and tidied up at Murdock. Before it was a Brian Blessed look from Fllash Gordon, now much more civilised.
Great look on the right face. It's no more itchy than a blokes balls!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bloody hipsters, giving mustachioed-types like myself a bad name...
I've had face furniture since I was 18/19... and now fashionistas are ruining them.
Boo!"
You're always moaning Joe |
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"Bloody hipsters, giving mustachioed-types like myself a bad name...
I've had face furniture since I was 18/19... and now fashionistas are ruining them.
Boo!
You're always moaning Joe "
About hipsters, yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talking to my hairdresser, who does loads of guys hair and beards, they're all getting them taken off, the trend is over and dying out fast. "
I do hope so... Its been limiting play options for some months now x |
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"His beard is awful, all natural free from conditioning, combing or any kind of care. I will make him shave it. His face looks like a 70s bush! "
john: thats unfair and ive had beards for 14 years!! Not a hipster im a metal head hahaaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like mine...shaved it off for an interview...but had grown it back for the second one...now I am the only employee they have that has one...made me stand out...so it gets to stay... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep the beard. Had mine on and off for 2 years now and regretted shaving it off!
"His beard is awful, all natural free from conditioning, combing or any kind of care. I will make him shave it. His face looks like a 70s bush! "
This is the problem! Get it trimmed and shaped regularly, and conditioned regular. Makes hell of a difference once shampooed and conditioned! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel "
I'd love to ride your face. There I said it at last . Beards are really good when a guy gives oral. Extra tickles to make you go weaker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel
I'd love to ride your face. There I said it at last . Beards are really good when a guy gives oral. Extra tickles to make you go weaker. "
Finally, at last. You took your time saying it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel
I'd love to ride your face. There I said it at last . Beards are really good when a guy gives oral. Extra tickles to make you go weaker.
Finally, at last. You took your time saying it "
I know. But that's me all over...I take ages lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel
I'd love to ride your face. There I said it at last . Beards are really good when a guy gives oral. Extra tickles to make you go weaker.
Finally, at last. You took your time saying it I know. But that's me all over...I take ages lol"
Good thing im patient then isnt it. But as you're here my face is waiting |
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel
I'd love to ride your face. There I said it at last . Beards are really good when a guy gives oral. Extra tickles to make you go weaker.
Finally, at last. You took your time saying it I know. But that's me all over...I take ages lol"
Sounds like we should meet |
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"Well trimmed beard or stubble both look hot and are great in sensitive areas
and ticklish
Ill bare that in mind then, mines nice and soft. Have a free feel
I'd love to ride your face. There I said it at last . Beards are really good when a guy gives oral. Extra tickles to make you go weaker.
Finally, at last. You took your time saying it I know. But that's me all over...I take ages lol
Sounds like we should meet "
Love to take you 'up the emirates' lol you fellow gooner |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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My OH has a beard and has done since he left the army many years ago....he is not allowed to shave it off because I love it - it rubs me just right so it stays
We have ony had one woman say she didn't like it in our 19 months on here and at parties women flock round him stroking it and asking how it feels - he shows them because it would be rude not to
I say keep it if you like it and it suits you but if you aren't fussed then go with what the masses say  |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
Not a fan of the face fur, even though it really suits some people. Was seeing a fella years ago who had a beard, shaved it off & I didn't fancy him afterwards. He suited it. However clean shaved, well groomed, immaculate look will always be in & to heck with the current fashion.
Difficult to tell if the OP suits facial fur with no pic or comparison but I'd say shave it off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only hair between a lady's thighs should be a mans beard!!!!
Keep it "
Haha can we not turn this into a pubic hair debate! 
Love beards that are groomed, but not when it looks like birds could nest in them.  |
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"The only hair between a lady's thighs should be a mans beard!!!!
Keep it
Haha can we not turn this into a pubic hair debate!
Love beards that are groomed, but not when it looks like birds could nest in them. "
Thank you beard supporters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I notice full beards were back in fashion (again). Well since March I have been sporting a Goatee as much as a mark of personal achievement, I started my own business. But back in swingingg land it cannot stay as it does not go with sexy panties and stockings. So unless I want look like Boy George, cute as 'ze' (he/she) is, it will have to go! |
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After much debate I shaved it off a couple of weeks back before I hit the beach. Now have a nice all over tan and no white marks on my face. Proving very popular at the moment though I suspect if this weather keeps up like this much longer then I will be growing it back! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking to my hairdresser, who does loads of guys hair and beards, they're all getting them taken off, the trend is over and dying out fast. "
That's good news, a beard isn't a fad, it's for life. It'll be good to see all the flibbertigibbets moving on to the next fashion. |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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"Talking to my hairdresser, who does loads of guys hair and beards, they're all getting them taken off, the trend is over and dying out fast. "
We've definitely seen the trend dispersing up North, thank goodness, now I can wear beard with 'Lumbersexual Pride' and without being accused of following a trend. |
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"That is the question, I have a rather MANLY beard at the moment and the misses and I are arguing over its survival!
Votes for and against please! I wouldn't dream of growing one horrible unhygienic things don't take offence just my opinion "
Are you one of those people who think hair on genitalia is unhygienic too? |
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Have had a beard in one form or another for the last 14 years and had no problems with meets.
That said I look after mine and keep it fairly short and tidy - my friend just has uncontrolled face fur and has been single for the same length of time...
However - I do keep other places shaved so maybe it balances out! |
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"Have had a beard in one form or another for the last 14 years and had no problems with meets.
That said I look after mine and keep it fairly short and tidy - my friend just has uncontrolled face fur and has been single for the same length of time...
However - I do keep other places shaved so maybe it balances out! "
How old is he, does he smoke, is he tall? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of judgemental people commenting here. If you don't like a beard that's fine. Seems silly to start ranting about them.
They are way past the so called fad now. I know as I'm involved in the industry.
Also the 50's haircuts are trend? What about all the rocker billies that have had those and beards, are they following the so called trend.
Beards are more noticed but comparing the ratio of shaven men to full bearded men there are still probably billions more shaven men. Leave the beards to be bearded, it's different not a fashion. |
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"After much debate I shaved it off a couple of weeks back before I hit the beach. Now have a nice all over tan and no white marks on my face. Proving very popular at the moment though I suspect if this weather keeps up like this much longer then I will be growing it back!"
The beard is making a comeback. Started growing it 6 days ago and will keep it better groomed and moisturised.
I may even be longest in the shower! |
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Whatever makes you feel good! For me personally I don't like them (a little stubble is fine) but as long as you're happy with the way you look that's all that matters! I'm sure you and your wife can meet half way somehow? X |
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Well, having a beard got us into all this. I went a few days without shaving and mentioned that I ought to have a shave. N said that it was like having a different man - and this kind of gave me licence to behave in a far more outrageous manner - I became an alter-ego, if you will. I even acquired an alter-ego name - Alex (my middle name).
So, wind on a few weeks and my real identity and alter-ego are merging. But, I don't think we'd have ever made the first step without Alex being on the scene.
So, for us, a beard got us involved in the first place. I'm currently sporting 3 days of stubble but it'll go tomorrow morning.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have one because everybody tells me it suits me and I have a baby face so as a 31 year old man getting ID'd for fags without it it gets irritating.
Plus I had it before it became fashion so I'm not removing it for the sake of non conformity "
It does suit you. And well said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite glad the trend is on its way out, I've had a full beard for at least 10 years and I'm quite bored of people thinking I've grown it recently to be in fashion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask yourself this.
Do you want to look like a prepubescent boy or not?
Seriously, for all the people put off by the beard, there are an equal amount turned on by the beard... Do whatever you feel like, it's your face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love beards, like looove them, aslong as there looked after ofcourse.
There a great muff tickler and great for pulling the hubbys face down to where I want it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am for beards myself.
Why don't you compromise by varying the length throughout the year? Longer during the winter, shorter if not smooth during the summer and long stubble the rest of the year?
Also keeps the shaving ritual varied haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the whole I prefer no beard but can live with a very short well trimmed one! Longer than that and it's a no from me! Xx
Oh dear. Change your mind after watching 300?"
Nope! |
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"That is the question, I have a rather MANLY beard at the moment and the misses and I are arguing over its survival!
Votes for and against please! "
If soft and trimmed go for it. But then again, you have to listen to your lady it might look good on your but stubby and uncomfortable when playing with you lady it's definitely a no no. |
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"That is the question, I have a rather MANLY beard at the moment and the misses and I are arguing over its survival!
Votes for and against please! "
Against they were so 2015 |
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"On the whole I prefer no beard but can live with a very short well trimmed one! Longer than that and it's a no from me! Xx
Oh dear. Change your mind after watching 300?
Nope! "
But that was due to the acting rather than the beards |
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