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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"That's interesting. I think Id like to connect first and can't imagine doing that with an 18 year old!"
I wouldn't have a one on one meet with an 18 year old, but happy to entertain them at a GB or party. I prefer older for a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd go to 18 if he was attractive "
I have gone to 18 and he had a better outlook and maturity than many older men. And his skills were also excellent. Of course like anything all 18 year olds won't be the same and neither will older men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need to chat to people before i decide. If he can't hold a conversation on webcam or doesn't keep up with the chat, then it's a no. But i doubt very much any 18 year old is going to rock my world in bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and they can't look too young! I've noticed a few baby-faced '25 year olds' on here and when you get talking to them, they tell you they're actually 18 etc and they're looking to meet 'cougars'.
Any hot/mature/manly-looking 18 year olds, feel free to make contact! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?"
I don't have a problem with the age of women men enjoy. I guess there's a bit of 'nudge nudge wink wink' that goes on when you see an older guy with a young woman, but nowhere near the reaction people have when its a young man with an older woman. |
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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago
Nether regions of the back of beyond |
"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?"
My excuse is that it was a moment of madness lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?"
Possibly due to the fact that it's often ever young guy's fantasy to pull an older woman. Not so much the other way around? |
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"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?"
Why when talking about rape do you straight away think of women being raped and not men?
Why if a man hits a woman it's assault but if a woman hits a man its funny?
Backwards sexism, equal rights goes both ways.
Shit just got real  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?
Why when talking about rape do you straight away think of women being raped and not men?
Why if a man hits a woman it's assault but if a woman hits a man its funny?
Backwards sexism, equal rights goes both ways.
Shit just got real "
I don't think many women with a brain would find it funny if a man was raped by a woman or a woman hit a man. Stop generalising. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?
Why when talking about rape do you straight away think of women being raped and not men?
Why if a man hits a woman it's assault but if a woman hits a man its funny?
Backwards sexism, equal rights goes both ways.
Shit just got real "
Gone a bit off track there... stick to the thread as no one mentioned rape scenarios that I can see  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?
Why when talking about rape do you straight away think of women being raped and not men?
Why if a man hits a woman it's assault but if a woman hits a man its funny?
Backwards sexism, equal rights goes both ways.
Shit just got real "
Blimey, bit intense that!  |
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"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?
Why when talking about rape do you straight away think of women being raped and not men?
Why if a man hits a woman it's assault but if a woman hits a man its funny?
Backwards sexism, equal rights goes both ways.
Shit just got real
I don't think many women with a brain would find it funny if a man was raped by a woman or a woman hit a man. Stop generalising. "
Why do you assume I'm just talking about women?
I never said anybody finds rape funny, just that when rape comes up the average person immediately thinks of a woman being raped.
I'm talking about society in general.
As for the physical abuse there's been lots of social experiments into it where they have two actors.
One male, one female one assaulting the other.
When the male is assaulting the female people get involved straight away.
When it's the other way round they rarely got involved, some people actually laughing at the scene. |
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"Interesting to see you ladies will go for an 18 yr old(especially the ones my age)! Why does it seem to be more acceptable for a lady to go younger, but not always the men?
Why when talking about rape do you straight away think of women being raped and not men?
Why if a man hits a woman it's assault but if a woman hits a man its funny?
Backwards sexism, equal rights goes both ways.
Shit just got real
Gone a bit off track there... stick to the thread as no one mentioned rape scenarios that I can see "
The question was raised as to why older women and younger guys is fine but not vice versa.
You assume it's because a guy can't be taken advantage of and he's happy for a shag but an older guy is a sexual predator praying on vulnerable young women.
Backwards sexism, I used an extreme to emphasise my point. |
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Lady's lady's please. It's the same for men. You can't say different age groups act the same. Yes younger you tend to find a lot more immature but I have met women in there 40's that was immature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To bring the thread back to the original question....
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If the connection is there then I would go to late teens. I ha e chatted to a guy on here who is 19 and I will meet him at some point I think.
Currently my youngest has 23 to my current age of 47. It's all down to the personality. I don,t have kids so I guess there is no reference point for it feeling wrong.
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
I played with an 18 yr old female recently and she was more mature, more experienced and more fulfilling than many of the meets I've had on here.
She's certainly made me rethink my usual age preferences.
I tend to play with males that are usually 5-10 years younger than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why when talking about rape do you straight away think of women being raped and not men?
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Because in the uk a woman cannot rape a man, it required a penis for it to be rape. Otherwise it's just sexual assault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When in a club/pub its normally younger and older Women who talk to me but hardly ever Women the same age, But I find it hard to talk to Women 18-21,
On here it normally older Women I look for
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tend to not go younger than 28 though does anyone actually have there real age on here? As long as there mannly looking and theres an attraction and there mature in there outlook and experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under 21 I wouldn't be comfortable with. Although the few 21 year old chaps I've met have ... Ahem... Peaked too soon! "
I always thought being young meant they could get it back up pretty quick after "peaking too soon"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was 10 i used to help the milkman with his dekiveries. I used to deliver milk and colkect monies.
One day i knocked on the door and it opened by a lady wearing a see througgh nightie. At 10 i was at nipple height, i assume she thought it was the milkman. It was an eye opener.
I know thats not what the op meant but hey ho it triggered happy memories
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many years younger would you go without feeling like it's just wrong?"
For me personally it would have to be 20\21. I would stretch to 19 if the maturity is there. Years do make a difference I find most times.
Someone made a comment about 24 yo's not being there ages with young faces, and now I get why I've got to be more patient now Lol. |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
south staffs |
"Anyway, let's get back to banging hot 18 year olds!"
He hee, a woman after my own heart !!
Age is not the concern, in my mind. It is the maturity of the individual, the personality, of course, and the willingness to go for it, to learn and explore. The good young ones are few, but ever so good. 
Jane x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies of this thread I commend you... Keep banging 18 year olds . I'm jealous.... The only time a 18 year old speaks to me is to ask for a cigarette or directions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm actively monitoring this thread, haha. (Face piccies are private, before you ask!)
All that's been said mostly re-affirms my views - it's just nice to see a woman asking this thread, rather than a man's profile. The replies are weirdly more mature-minded... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have an age limit thing on profile but,,, have met younger depends on the mail they send and the person some more mature than others. youngest met since we been doing this is 25 , and we have been doing this 16/17 yrs. think in the end its who u get on with. |
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By *issyBWoman
over a year ago
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I say 21 as they are classed as being over the threshold of adulthood. My preference is 25-35 at the moment. Although like someone has already said, there are a lot who lie about their age on here. It's down to confidence, personality and sexual agility at the end of the day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under 21 I wouldn't be comfortable with. Although the few 21 year old chaps I've met have ... Ahem... Peaked too soon!
I always thought being young meant they could get it back up pretty quick after "peaking too soon"
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Not when they leave the house as if it was on fire! Poor things. (It wasn't on fire before you ask). |
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By *te tMan
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"Oh and they can't look too young! I've noticed a few baby-faced '25 year olds' on here and when you get talking to them, they tell you they're actually 18 etc and they're looking to meet 'cougars'.
Any hot/mature/manly-looking 18 year olds, feel free to make contact!"
You seem right up my street  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had two meets with 25 year olds recently...they were great and knew better how to please me than the guys older who "thought" they knew ha ha..
Almost feel like setting my upper age limit to 30 ha ha
I am 45 btw as profile hidden lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had two meets with 25 year olds recently...they were great and knew better how to please me than the guys older who "thought" they knew ha ha..
Almost feel like setting my upper age limit to 30 ha ha
I am 45 btw as profile hidden lol
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Have our prayers been answered |
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By *icjMan
over a year ago
Bethnal Green |
"He was 22 and I was 76 waste of a Sunday, as someone said popped like a cork lol"
Hi Shirley.. i can't contact you to ask would you meet bi male who can play straight? after all no other male is involved if its 1-2-1? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently met an older woman who was 42. Took a lot of time for her to come around to the idea but now she can't get enough! "
Lol! The first few times younger men got hold of me I was surprised and replied saying " you know how old I am?" Now, I love it....dependent on personality of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv always preferred older women! I find younger girls like to play games. Older women know whey want, what they like which makes a good session less tentative!
I wish older women would at least speak to a man without asking about age, it feels like a qualifying question that trumps everything. I think if you need to ask for an age somethings isn't right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive pretty much always liked older women but now i find myself liking even older women, around 50/60 i think it had something to do with that program my granny the escort |
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"How many years younger would you go without feeling like it's just wrong?"
Mine turned 26 last week!! I was worried that 13 years was too big a gap as I have a nearly 14 yr old son & that it may not be as good as I hoped but he proved me very wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been as low as 20 although not often or for a while. I had a 22 year old playmate for a year too... We were out in public akit and I never even noticed a raised eyebrow. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally prefer a woman older than myself, just find the encounters I've had with older women are so much better, although I haven't got a problem meeting women younger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always think it depends on the person, levels of maturity are not linked to physical age. So my ages are flexible for that reason. Attitude is what is more important to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always think it depends on the person, levels of maturity are not linked to physical age. So my ages are flexible for that reason. Attitude is what is more important to me. "
...will Marmite sway the way?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always think it depends on the person, levels of maturity are not linked to physical age. So my ages are flexible for that reason. Attitude is what is more important to me.
...will Marmite sway the way?
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It might help! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From this topic im glad to hear there are some of you who have the philosophy of "Its more the Maturity of the guy instead of his age".
As I dont see myself as a young guy and am better friends with older guys at work than guys my age.
I love you all! |
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lol
would the moral thing be in question if the younger side is over 30 and making the first move?