Have been with my partner for nearly 2years now and would like to get her into swinging, meeting other men would be idea, would like to hear from anyone who could tell me how I would go about telling her this any help would be great |
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Watch threesome porn and asked if she's ever thought about anything like that.
Have a few drinks and work the talk into fantasies, find out what hers are and bring up yours.
Say "I want you to be the meat in a cock sandwich" next time she asks what kind of sandwich you want  |
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"Have been with my partner for nearly 2years now and would like to get her into swinging, meeting other men would be idea, would like to hear from anyone who could tell me how I would go about telling her this any help would be great"
Does she know you have been meeting people from here? |
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"Have been with my partner for nearly 2years now and would like to get her into swinging, meeting other men would be idea, would like to hear from anyone who could tell me how I would go about telling her this any help would be great
Does she know you have been meeting people from here?"
I thought about that but he's been with her 2 years and that's meet is from a little over 2 years ago so I'm making am educated guess as there's no meets afterward that he stopped meeting people when they got together. |
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"Have been with my partner for nearly 2years now and would like to get her into swinging, meeting other men would be idea, would like to hear from anyone who could tell me how I would go about telling her this any help would be great"
You entitle this "sharing her" that makes me feel uncomfortable when anyone uses that phrase.
Chat to her openly and honestly about your fantasies, if you find that difficult both write them down or do that mojo thing on line. If she says no accept it and unless her fantasy is to be shared rather than enjoy sex with another man of her own volition that's great but if I was approached from that angle it would be a great big fat NEVER. |
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Tie her up.. blindfold her and choose a trustworthy guy to join you.. get him to come to hotel room and give her a sensual massage with you instructing him.. then he can leave you both to your fin... a great trust builder.. erotic and see if you want to take it further next Time... from a woman that knows  |
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"Tie her up.. blindfold her and choose a trustworthy guy to join you.. get him to come to hotel room and give her a sensual massage with you instructing him.. then he can leave you both to your fin... a great trust builder.. erotic and see if you want to take it further next Time... from a woman that knows "
But as far as we know he hasn't even broached the subject  |
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"Have been with my partner for nearly 2years now and would like to get her into swinging, meeting other men would be idea, would like to hear from anyone who could tell me how I would go about telling her this any help would be great
Does she know you have been meeting people from here?
I thought about that but he's been with her 2 years and that's meet is from a little over 2 years ago so I'm making am educated guess as there's no meets afterward that he stopped meeting people when they got together. "
Great diversion from the higher moral ground .... was just about to sigh, no again ..... |
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"Watch threesome porn and asked if she's ever thought about anything like that.
Have a few drinks and work the talk into fantasies, find out what hers are and bring up yours.
Say "I want you to be the meat in a cock sandwich" next time she asks what kind of sandwich you want "
Lets hope she doesnt say "fuck off you can have cheese and thats it!" |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Invite someone to dinner and after your girlfriend has cooked and waited on you and your friend all evening announce to her that she is tthe supper.
We are sure you will get a favourable reply. |
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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago
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with us .. a good friend of mine ..(jo) ..was visiting and time for bed came ... he looked longingly ..so i asked could he join us ..... super fab night followed ... years later he still calls.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"watch cuckhold porn with her get ideas into her head"
that's not a bad ider I'm trying to brake the news to my gf aswell but what if we don't watch that much porn how do I go here watch this  |
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there is only one way to go about finding out if your partner will enjoy any form of swinging and that is talking to her or him. You might find that putting one of the adult cannels on might gets the conversation started or saying "I'd love to share some new sexual experiences with you" or showing her or him an erotic novel....loads of things can spark the conversation but the conversation MUST be had. There is no tricking them, accidentally introducing them to a "friend" or surprising them if you really want an open sex life you really need to be able to talk in the first instance. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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We just started talking it through, my wife was surprised when I first mentioned it, but then about a month later she suggested that we go to a club and we went from there.
Listening to podcasts like "Life on the swing set" really helped us, and without it I doubt we would be here. I would suggest episode 200 for you starting off. Good luck.  |
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"watch cuckhold porn with her get ideas into her head that's not a bad ider I'm trying to brake the news to my gf aswell but what if we don't watch that much porn how do I go here watch this "
Just my (mr) opinion here, but I wouldn't suggest watching any form of porn to try and cajole a partner into trying swinging. What you find a turn on, or half agree to in a moment of lust, might not materialise in the cold light of day.
I don't really want to go into how we got involved in swinging on here, but it was me who approached the topic, and no porn was used! |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"It often seems to me that lots of people assume that everyone will want to swing and its just a case of persuading them or approaching them in the right way. This simply isn't true. "
Or there are some magic words to make the most die hard monogamist change their mind! |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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What surprises us is that having been with your partner for nearly 2 years you know so little about her you do not know how to broach any subject with her.
Before even thinking about swinging learn how to communicate with your partner. |
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I was going to add, without knowing the depth and openness of your conversations about sex at the moment it's hard to give any meaningful advice.
Do you talk to each other about fantasies and likes/dislikes already? |
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