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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unicorns, single fems, do you exist???
We have met a single fem with another couple before and had a great time.
Seems they are out there but hard to pin down for a meet. So many sexy single fems on here would just like to meet one in the flesh. Apply within  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unicorns, single fems, do you exist???
We have met a single fem with another couple before and had a great time.
Seems they are out there but hard to pin down for a meet. So many sexy single fems on here would just like to meet one in the flesh. Apply within x"
nope, we are a figment of your imagination. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "
How many have you asked for that statistic?
I am on here to meet couples predominantly, then other women, and then men. I can pull on a night out if all I want is some NSA sex with a single guy, its harder to do that with a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "
I don't think that's true.
Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
I don't think that's true.
Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."
 yep. I meet couples. But as it says in my profile, I will not do it to fulfil your fantasies, I am only interested in my own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unicorns, single fems, do you exist???
We have met a single fem with another couple before and had a great time.
Seems they are out there but hard to pin down for a meet. So many sexy single fems on here would just like to meet one in the flesh. Apply within x"
They exist but online is probably not the best place to meet them
And if you are relying on the site then you have to realise that they are the most sought after and lest common demographic on here and work hard to maximise your chances |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men. "
Not our experience at all and we have lots of single female friends...We just didn't meet them exclusively through here, usually parties, socials and clubs because they can meet you in person and see what your dynamic is, and we can see theirs... |
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
I don't think that's true.
Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."
don't forget the ones that just want you to be their performing monkey for the guy to have a girl on girl show, in my experience they are the only two types of couple that exists on fab
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
Near enough |
"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
I don't think that's true.
Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."
been on here and other sites for a while and noticed this happens A LOT!!
I went to a club on Friday and found that being able to speak to both parts of a couple was much less hassle than trying to establish any kind of conversation on here, and it was less 'aggressive' than some of the messages I get on here.
TBH I'd love to explore my bi side and I would have to do that through a club now where I know I am face to face with a couple right from the start. Then everyone is on the same page as well from the start with no 'you're not what we were expecting' or 'well he didn't tell me you've got massive tits' (that couple had a massive row and she thumped him)
But I'm definitely not here to be used and abused, I want something out of it too...after all I'm human, why should I be treated like a tool  |
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Genuine single fem here that prefers playing with couples definately fully 3 way. All the couples I play with have been people I've built a rapport with first. Had some great times  Not into soley fem-fem with the guy watching at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
Not our experience at all and we have lots of single female friends...We just didn't meet them exclusively through here, usually parties, socials and clubs because they can meet you in person and see what your dynamic is, and we can see theirs..."
Janey and her unicorns exist lol...we met regularly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
Not our experience at all and we have lots of single female friends...We just didn't meet them exclusively through here, usually parties, socials and clubs because they can meet you in person and see what your dynamic is, and we can see theirs...
Janey and her unicorns exist lol...we met regularly lol "
*mwah*!!
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By *ixie69Woman
over a year ago
leicester |
"Genuine single fem here that prefers playing with couples definately fully 3 way. All the couples I play with have been people I've built a rapport with first. Had some great times Not into soley fem-fem with the guy watching at all."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a single very bi fem it's harder to meet couples unless u attend clubs which is where I meet most of the people I play with...that and at parties...attend several parties where we have more single fems than couples occasionally lol
Just all about how you approach them or more importantly how you respond to those brave enough to be the first to message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a single female who goes to clubs alone. I find the couples dynamic difficult sometimes, maybe one of them will fancy me, but not the other, or vice versa... So I often default to single guys as they are easier to suss out, despite being very bi...  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"What do single woman want from a couple? I'd never be in this setup so just curious."
Is it not kinda obvious?
I'm very bi, and like sex with both men and women... so either being part of a couple, or being the single fem work well for me, but then I also enjoy meeting either solo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am part of a couple , but have this profile to meet other girls I won't meet other couples from here as I don't want to be treated as someone mentioned earlier as a sex toy. And am not into putting on a show for the make half of the couple. That said I would meet alone a couple I had already met as part of a couples meet.
Op the one thing that would concern me with your profile is that you list yourself as bi curious, and though I don't go much on labels I would be concerned I was either going to be some sort of experiment to test how curious you are in which case it could be very uncomfortable for me or that is was more for his benefit than yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a single very bi fem it's harder to meet couples unless u attend clubs which is where I meet most of the people I play with...that and at parties...attend several parties where we have more single fems than couples occasionally lol
Just all about how you approach them or more importantly how you respond to those brave enough to be the first to message "
I agree with this...we only started swinging 2 months ago and have met and played with single females but we only go to clubs for meets. It works well for us |
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
There are loads of lovely single women on the site...It seems to me that there is also a broad range of what they are looking for...Much like single men and couples.
Hardly unicorn world either way! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
im a single bi female..yes i meet couples, yes i meet single men, yes i go to clubs and go to parties on my own..
do i play with everyone no, but am i busy ..yes...
ive had lovely experiences..the odd time waster and fake..but i just let them ramble on, and, they soon show themselves and go away.. do i respond to 'hi babe' fancy my cock?' messages..err no.
i have been treated with the utmost respect on here and at clubs by both couples and guys, maybe, that's cos i ask what they want and what they like and i only choose to play with those that suit me. getting to know a couples dynamic is the key and with anyone..its the connection at a social level that secures playful interaction.
we are out there, but don't expect a meet spontaneously within hours, we are usually booked, as couples have kids..and guys have mates and golf...lol...have a bit of patience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do single woman want from a couple? I'd never be in this setup so just curious.
Is it not kinda obvious?
I'm very bi, and like sex with both men and women... so either being part of a couple, or being the single fem work well for me, but then I also enjoy meeting either solo."
From what I've observed on the forum no its not obvious. I see more of why single fems won't meet couples. The birthday treat thing I totally get why that would be off-putting of course. Being Really honest I see more on the forum about why anybody wont meet anybody lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
I don't think that's true.
Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
I don't think that's true.
Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want. "
I had that I was looking for couples but most spoke to me as if it was their right that I do as they say .....or they were men pretending to be couples I gave up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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loads of them but so many once you chat produce a fella - we have met some lovely ladies though and we love to make her the centre of attention - certainly not a plaything |
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By *azLilyCouple
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Lily here. I also meet alone but I won't meet men or couples due to extremely forceful and manipulative couples that I met with my last time on fab (who as others have said, expect ,e to be a toy for their pleasure). As a result, I only meet women... And I won't even entertain the idea of the male half being there to watch, I'm not a performer! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Exactly what we are looking for, Mrs N wants to experience this for the first ever time. No performing seal routine and plenty of talk beforehand. Pretty sure we'll have a long wait but it'll be worth it. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"im a single bi female..yes i meet couples, yes i meet single men, yes i go to clubs and go to parties on my own..
do i play with everyone no, but am i busy ..yes...
ive had lovely experiences..the odd time waster and fake..but i just let them ramble on, and, they soon show
themselves and go away.. do i respond to 'hi babe' fancy my cock?' messages..err no.
i have been treated with the utmost respect on here and at clubs by both couples and guys, maybe, that's cos i ask what they want and what they like and i only choose to play with those that suit me. getting to know a couples dynamic is the key and with anyone..its the connection at a social level that secures playful interaction.
we are out there, but don't expect a meet spontaneously within hours, we are usually booked, as couples have kids..and guys have mates and golf...lol...have a bit of patience "
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
We are on here to meet bi fems who want to play with couples, and we have met some through here. Really don't think it is that much harder to meet them than anyone else, if you factor in all the things that have to be right.
1) Mutual attraction - three people have to fancy each other
2) Geography - distance is always a factor, unless you are very lucky
3) Safety - all three of you have to feel comfortable with each other. It's risky for singles to meet couples...but it's also risky for couples to meet singles
4) Timing - everyone is so busy, and matching available times is hard!
If you can tick all those boxes you are already being lucky way over the odds, so couple that with the fact that bi fems are definitely in the minority here, and also obviously in very high demand, and it's no wonder people may see them as elusive.
All the (frankly wonderful) FFM meets we have had though have been through Fab, rather than clubs, and really that is down to three things - patience, communication and honesty. Keep those three things in mind and Fab will work wonders for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single women on here are not actually swingers. They are just looking for nsa fun with single men.
I don't think that's true.
Most of the single women I chat to on here on occasion are looking for couples, but most of them find the couples extremely offputting. Most couples want to just treat you as a sex toy to enhance their own relationship which isn't what most single women want."
I was originally looking for couples as well as men but found the majority only wanted bi play with the woman. If I'm having sex with a couple it will be with both of them. |
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