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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, I've tweeked my profile a bit. I'd really appreciate it if people could take a look at it and tell me what they think please. Especially women and couples, as that's who I want to meet.
Thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NO im actually on about no likes or dislikes on the profile just a boring samey ad
or is this just a plug to get you noticed about another thread you have up for chams  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I've tweeked my profile a bit. I'd really appreciate it if people could take a look at it and tell me what they think please. Especially women and couples, as that's who I want to meet.
Thanks
Tallguy "
Your bit on your written profile that states " you can string a sentence together which is a rarity on here I'm sure you agree" no we don't agree, there are plenty on here that can hold a conversation,so unfortunately you are certainly not a rarity on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"NO im actually on about no likes or dislikes on the profile just a boring samey ad
or is this just a plug to get you noticed about another thread you have up for chams "
Not at all. Surely my likes etc are covered in what I've ticked? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If that's tweaked................
It says nothing about you apart from your chams visit. More effort needed"
It tells you what sort of person I am. What would you suggest adding? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok, I've tweeked my profile a bit. I'd really appreciate it if people could take a look at it and tell me what they think please. Especially women and couples, as that's who I want to meet.
Thanks
Tallguy
I apologise if I've caused any offence.
Your bit on your written profile that states " you can string a sentence together which is a rarity on here I'm sure you agree" no we don't agree, there are plenty on here that can hold a conversation,so unfortunately you are certainly not a rarity on here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If that's tweaked................
It says nothing about you apart from your chams visit. More effort needed
It tells you what sort of person I am. What would you suggest adding?"
Beyond saying you can string a sentence (which most people are capable of) it doesn't say much. What type of person are you?
What type of woman/couple do you want to meet?
What do you want to get out of it and what will they get out of it?
Forum search 'profile advice' and there's loads of useful hints n tips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NO im actually on about no likes or dislikes on the profile just a boring samey ad
or is this just a plug to get you noticed about another thread you have up for chams
Not at all. Surely my likes etc are covered in what I've ticked?"
it says nothing about you thou
just you are respectful polite and face pics available
are you like that at chams? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"NO im actually on about no likes or dislikes on the profile just a boring samey ad
or is this just a plug to get you noticed about another thread you have up for chams
Not at all. Surely my likes etc are covered in what I've ticked?
it says nothing about you thou
I've only been once, so not really sure what I'm like. Im friendly, chatted to a couple and had some fun with a woman. But that's it, it was tues lunch time and very quiet
just you are respectful polite and face pics available
are you like that at chams? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think"
It does though, if people don't like it then they're not going to want to meet me.
Do you go Chams by the way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think"
hes not happy or he wouldnt be posting every week almost asking about his profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think
hes not happy or he wouldnt be posting every week almost asking about his profile"
Just trying to give myself the best chance. Do you think it's worth putting on there that I can't accom due to being single Dad? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think
It does though, if people don't like it then they're not going to want to meet me.
Do you go Chams by the way?"
If they don't like it and it's a true reflection of you then it means they probably aren't going to like you either! So either work it out for yourself or just concentrate on the people that DO like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The simplest way to put this without offending.......
It's your profile, write what you like on it.
You won't please everyone.
We can't write it for you, you've gotta work it out for yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think
hes not happy or he wouldnt be posting every week almost asking about his profile"
Ok perhaps I should have left out the happy bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think
It does though, if people don't like it then they're not going to want to meet me.
Do you go Chams by the way?
If they don't like it and it's a true reflection of you then it means they probably aren't going to like you either! So either work it out for yourself or just concentrate on the people that DO like it"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think
It does though, if people don't like it then they're not going to want to meet me.
Do you go Chams by the way?
Do you like it?
If they don't like it and it's a true reflection of you then it means they probably aren't going to like you either! So either work it out for yourself or just concentrate on the people that DO like it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think
hes not happy or he wouldnt be posting every week almost asking about his profile
Just trying to give myself the best chance. Do you think it's worth putting on there that I can't accom due to being single Dad?"
Only if it's true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op. If your happy with your profile and think it's a true reflection of you, leave it.
It doesn't matter what others think
It does though, if people don't like it then they're not going to want to meet me.
Do you go Chams by the way?
Do you like it?
If they don't like it and it's a true reflection of you then it means they probably aren't going to like you either! So either work it out for yourself or just concentrate on the people that DO like it"
Honestly? No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,"
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though "
I don't accom and im single as i dont want strangers or numpties at mine
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a
meet though "
I work from home, so I'm available some weekdays.
I don't know why I'm explaining this to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a
meet though
I work from home, so I'm available some weekdays.
I don't know why I'm explaining this to you."
Your right you don't have to explain it to us, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
I don't accom and im single as i dont want strangers or numpties at mine
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you go to Chams though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though "
There are such things as babysitters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
I don't accom and im single as i dont want strangers or numpties at mine
you go to Chams though?"
No im xtasia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters "
No shit  |
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"If that's tweaked................
It says nothing about you apart from your chams visit. More effort needed
Do a forum search 'profile advice' and there's loads of useful hints n tips. "
This.
Also I don't agree with your comment 'can actually string a sentence together. A rarity on here, I'm sure you'll agree'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters
No shit "
So why mention about him travelling to meets then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters
No shit
So why mention about him travelling to meets then?"
Just putting it out there, you know, what some people (actually a lot of people ) maybe thinking...is that ok with you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters
No shit
So why mention about him travelling to meets then?
Just putting it out there, you know, what some people (actually a lot of people ) maybe thinking...is that ok with you? "
There are a lot of people on here with children. Do you question all of them as to how they manage to go to meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters
No shit
So why mention about him travelling to meets then?
Just putting it out there, you know, what some people (actually a lot of people ) maybe thinking...is that ok with you?
There are a lot of people on here with children. Do you question all of them as to how they manage to go to meets?"
We have children |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters
No shit
So why mention about him travelling to meets then?
Just putting it out there, you know, what some people (actually a lot of people ) maybe thinking...is that ok with you?
There are a lot of people on here with children. Do you question all of them as to how they manage to go to meets?"
Now now ladies! Let's keep on track... he was on about his profile not babysitting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters
No shit
So why mention about him travelling to meets then?
Just putting it out there, you know, what some people (actually a lot of people ) maybe thinking...is that ok with you?
There are a lot of people on here with children. Do you question all of them as to how they manage to go to meets?
Now now ladies! Let's keep on track... he was on about his profile not babysitting "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After taking on board all your opinions and criticisms, I've tweaked it again.
Last word should be "too" not "to"!  "
Ellipses as a rule are ... Not .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
Not full time enough to be happy to travel to a meet though
There are such things as babysitters
No shit
So why mention about him travelling to meets then?
Just putting it out there, you know, what some people (actually a lot of people ) maybe thinking...is that ok with you?
There are a lot of people on here with children. Do you question all of them as to how they manage to go to meets?
Now now ladies! Let's keep on track... he was on about his profile not babysitting "
Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,"
you asked if you should put it on your profile. My question was why does it stop you? Your response wasn't even going to bother answering that question would make us never meet you .
Any prospective meet would ask you why
And that response is rude and makes you out to be hiding something. If you had just said because you have them full time then that is an acceptable response |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
you asked if you should put it on your profile. My question was why does it stop you? Your response wasn't even going to bother answering that question would make us never meet you .
Any prospective meet would ask you why
And that response is rude and makes you out to be hiding something. If you had just said because you have them full time then that is an acceptable response "
I agree with this. If that is the tone you take in conversation - it hardly ties with the respectful, polite and intelligent bit on your profile. People are going to ask, and its better to be upfront and honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does being a single dad stop you from accomadating ?
as he could have the child fulltime
Thank you. I wasn't even going to bother answering,
you asked if you should put it on your profile. My question was why does it stop you? Your response wasn't even going to bother answering that question would make us never meet you .
Any prospective meet would ask you why
And that response is rude and makes you out to be hiding something. If you had just said because you have them full time then that is an acceptable response "
you said exactly what we was thinking |
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