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Wanted: FB or FWB... Is it so hard?
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
Seriously?
Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck buddy or friends with benefits?
Maybe I'm not that good in the sack or I'm boring as hell... Nope! none of those reasons 
Kind of exhausting if you ask me    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two simple problems for me.....
1) too far away
2) I am out of age range
Otherwise a perfect FWB. (Oh...and I already have two so my diary is a bit full....!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here. I been looking all my life for a fuck buddie, its hard to find one in London lol.
It might actually be a London thing!  "
Yes you would think it would be easy with over 8 million people in London and no one for us. |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
I had one that lived out of London so that didn't work.
I have another that is so busy with work and he lives locally to me.
And another I think I just lost out to another girl during the following weeks where he was ill, I had my period then I got ill.
 Now he's filled up his free time with her.
I just don't get it... worst than dating I tell you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's really difficult when you set out with that intention in mind. My best arrangement has come from meeting someone with no expectations, and then both deciding to meet again. And then again, and again and so on, till a friendship has developed organically rather than being forced from the beginning.
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think it's really difficult when you set out with that intention in mind. My best arrangement has come from meeting someone with no expectations, and then both deciding to meet again. And then again, and again and so on, till a friendship has developed organically rather than being forced from the beginning.
Good luck "
I thought I had built up a friendship with my latest fwb, but I guess not. Actually you know him Anna. Something about that Australian accent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's really difficult when you set out with that intention in mind. My best arrangement has come from meeting someone with no expectations, and then both deciding to meet again. And then again, and again and so on, till a friendship has developed organically rather than being forced from the beginning.
Good luck
I thought I had built up a friendship with my latest fwb, but I guess not. Actually you know him Anna. Something about that Australian accent "
Oh dear....yes I think I know who you mean!
Don't give up though, I've had so many things that seemed promising just fizzle out or disappear when real life got in the way over the years, but you can still have a lot of fun on the way to finding something else. |
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"I think it's really difficult when you set out with that intention in mind. My best arrangement has come from meeting someone with no expectations, and then both deciding to meet again. And then again, and again and so on, till a friendship has developed organically rather than being forced from the beginning.
Good luck "
Exactly this. You can't force it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's really difficult when you set out with that intention in mind. My best arrangement has come from meeting someone with no expectations, and then both deciding to meet again. And then again, and again and so on, till a friendship has developed organically rather than being forced from the beginning.
Good luck
Exactly this. You can't force it "
Another one who agrees with the above. If you meet and click, you're likely to both want to meet again. Take it a meet at a time and before you know it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember chatting to you previously - unfortunately I looked a little too similar to your ex! That's me, losing out
But no honestly, I'm sure it's just a matter of time. From reading your verifications it's fairly clear it's nothing to do with your skills. Nor is it your appearance.
Perhaps the long lists/explanation on your profile is off-putting to some, but upon reading - it doesn't come off as too picky or anything (just enthusiastic!).
Maybe you've got too great a libido to keep up with? C'mon fellow men, catch up! |
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I would suggest getting yourself out there and not forcing it .... It seems like you are doing the right thing. I was not looking when I met my bf .... On here to make sure no one got too close, as I have eve kids and a job and those are my priorities. Things happen, for a reason, when you are ready and in the right place at the right time, it will happen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you eliminate those in a relationship looking for a bit on the side, and those whose feelings come into play, you're looking at a small number of people.
Even when playing I've never been turned on by someone I didn't like as a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously?
Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck buddy or friends with benefits?
Maybe I'm not that good in the sack or I'm boring as hell... Nope! none of those reasons
Kind of exhausting if you ask me "
Stop looking
It will find u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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May be extend your preferences, not necessarily jumping into bed with them but by talking to different types of people you may find an exception that works for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here. I been looking all my life for a fuck buddie, its hard to find one in London lol."
When I was single and living in London I usually had at least 1 regular fuck buddy, they aren't hard to find. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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I think if you are looking for a fb/fwb relationship it can be tough because there will be very few people who fall into the category of fancy you (and you them) enough to sleep with you, but not so much that they want to be in a relationship with you.
Have you considered married men (preferably ones where the wife knows  )? As they are already in a relationship they are unlikely to want one with you, so then it's just a case of mutual attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here. I been looking all my life for a fuck buddie, its hard to find one in London lol.
When I was single and living in London I usually had at least 1 regular fuck buddy, they aren't hard to find. "
Yes that's good you had one. I gues many factors plays as well apart, like fate is the biggest. |
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"Seriously?
Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck buddy or friends with benefits?
Maybe I'm not that good in the sack or I'm boring as hell... Nope! none of those reasons
Kind of exhausting if you ask me
Stop looking
It will find u "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously?
Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck buddy or friends with benefits?
Maybe I'm not that good in the sack or I'm boring as hell... Nope! none of those reasons
Kind of exhausting if you ask me "
I thought I had found one back in November. At least he said we were, found out the hard way that obviously we were not. So if you find a man who you think could be the one, fb wise, that is, make sure before you commit yourself 100% like I did. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here. I been looking all my life for a fuck buddie, its hard to find one in London lol.
When I was single and living in London I usually had at least 1 regular fuck buddy, they aren't hard to find. "
london is about the least hard place to find fb's,or any permutation of that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's pretty difficult , I've been looking for one for ages and some just tend to fizzle out before they really get going, but the key thing is to be persistent and don't just settle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same here. I been looking all my life for a fuck buddie, its hard to find one in London lol.
When I was single and living in London I usually had at least 1 regular fuck buddy, they aren't hard to find.
london is about the least hard place to find fb's,or any permutation of that..."
Mind you. I don't live exactly in London, penge is on the outskirts of London and borders kent. |
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