 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
With an ex i found letting him take the lead at first was the way to go. Like he tell me what he wanted, even while doing it sometimes. He wanted something unusual though so i didn't know anything about it much, i also used to watch porn to do with his fetish to give me ideas. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Wife decided she wants to me to dominate like some advice from similar couples"
Each of you sit down separately and write one or two scenarios you'd like to experience then swap and see what common ground there is to discuss, also we used an on line questionnaire (sorry i can't remember what it was called but mojo was in the title). Watching some of the stuff on xhamster can kick start your imagination too.
Safe words etc are important too. I had a bit of a panic recently and it was good to know that A knew to stop immediately when I said so.
You will find that some people will scoff rather than offer help and advice.......take no notice.
Hope things go well  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
