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over a year ago
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Being attached will decrease your chances a huge amount. Kudos for you for being honest about it though. All you can do is 'sell' yourself to those that will meet attached men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being attached will decrease your chances a huge amount. Kudos for you for being honest about it though. All you can do is 'sell' yourself to those that will meet attached men."
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being attached will decrease your chances a huge amount. Kudos for you for being honest about it though. All you can do is 'sell' yourself to those that will meet attached men." Thanks
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing about your profile is appealing to the swinging community. Maybe a camera club? Or someone interested in shift patterns? Burn it. Start again." Just took that bit out thanks mate ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me " . You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me . You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line ." Thanks mate |
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me . You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line ."
no ones interested in someones hobbies and interests |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me . You have a face picture which is a good start and have the advantage of being young . However the profile tells the reader nothing about you apart from the fact that you are looking for sex . What are you hobbies and interests . On fab you really have to sell yourself just to get to the starting line .
no ones interested in someones hobbies and interests "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cons:
-You are attached (this is a straight NO for us)
-You seem like you are more interested in taking pics than in what each party can get out of a meet
-You don't distinguish yourself from any of the other million single (although, that is being generous to you) guys on here
-Not much about you or what you can bring to a meet.
-And, as I usually say, I personally like some humour from a guy's profile. Yours doesn't have any.
Sorry, but that is how I see your profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask yourself these questions:
Why should we meet you?
What makes you different from all the other guys on fab?
What have you got to offer me as a woman?
Answer these questions and you might be half way to understanding why your profile isn't working in your favour.
Swinging isn't just fucking, and constant validation seeking threads on the forums are not really helping your cause.
You're young enough to be a son to the vast majority on fab, you are cheating, presumably you cant accomodate, and you have to keep asking for advice when you've already had tons on other thread.
Possibly fab isn't for you, but you do have to work to get results here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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upload a few more public pics.
sort your profile text out ~ don't oversell yourself but don't under sell yourself either which is how I'm seeing it. A confident man is a sexy man.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me "
People tend to steer clear of cheaters.
But we guess you know that by now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me
People tend to steer clear of cheaters.
But we guess you know that by now."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me
People tend to steer clear of cheaters.
But we guess you know that by now."
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over a year ago
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me "
Ok, let's change this around a bit. What do you think the problem is?
You seem to be looking for a particular answer and are going to keep asking until you get it. What is it you're wanting to hear?
You're sounding desperate now and as if you're angling for sympathy shags. That'll put even more people off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like some advice for changing my profile or what I am doing wrong
No1 wants me
Ok, let's change this around a bit. What do you think the problem is?
You seem to be looking for a particular answer and are going to keep asking until you get it. What is it you're wanting to hear?
You're sounding desperate now and as if you're angling for sympathy shags. That'll put even more people off."
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