FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Don't even read messages?
Don't even read messages?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Mostly look at pics and profile, if i don't fancy someone i won't look at their message and delete it. Might reply saying they aren't what i want if the message was polite. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"
I think it might be because they get a thousand a day :/
If it doesn't stand out I don't think you would get a reply...
I got a feeling that you wanted females to answer this but couldn't help to reply 
No offence attended with the whole stand out thing... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"
How do you know they haven't read the message? They might read,then mark as unread before deleting. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If it's a one word message saying hi from a black silhouette then they get deleted
If fancy a fuck or nice tits are in the first line that goes too "
Pretty much this plus if from a cock pic avatar they go too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Nearly all woman on here get inundated with mail from men and most mail contains a cock pic. A friend of mine on here had over six hundred messages in her inbox.... how the hell are you going to get through all them?
If you want a response mate I recommend you have a good think about what you want then as best you can articulate yourself and put it into your profile. Also it is important to spend time writing a message, check your spelling and grammar and if your going to attach a pic use something suggestive instead of a usual cliche.
It can be frustrating, have you thought about going to a club?
G  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Because they want you to bend over backwards, do a hand stand and somersault through hoops of fire before your 'worthy' of a reply 
You should already know this man! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Because they want you to bend over backwards, do a hand stand and somersault through hoops of fire before your 'worthy' of a reply
You should already know this man! "
I don't ask for the hand stand bit,that's just taking it too far. 
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Because they want you to bend over backwards, do a hand stand and somersault through hoops of fire before your 'worthy' of a reply
You should already know this man! "
how very unfair considering mostr men want us to become a superhuman pretzal that says ooh and ahh in all the right places for him, when we meet.. 
howver you are obviously a man of very few words..you havent even bothered to write a profile at all..are we all supposed to swoon over your torso pic?
maybe i should bend you over and give you a good spanking....hehehe
the reason is too many messages and those that still msg after ive placed in my profile..please give me a break...cant be bothered to read..neither can i x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I always look at a profile before I reply to a message. What puts me off..
pictures full of cock shots. one is good but I dont need to see ur penis from every angle and in colour then b&w. A penis is a penis and they all look the same.
no pictures at all
one liner profiles, saying things along the line of "well endowed looking for NSA"
"will fill this in later"
if the profile does nt interest me because the owner cant be bothered to even fill it in or be original, then I wont reply to a message.
thats just me everyones different
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Seems the op has improved his profile! Well done.
Now all he needs is a willing lady to reply, just don't send one saying nice tits let me slide my cock between them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Seems the op has improved his profile! Well done.
Now all he needs is a willing lady to reply, just don't send one saying nice tits let me slide my cock between them "
Thanks for the feedback on the profile update and no I won't follow that tact haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"
They look at your name, avatar, photos and profile and decide they aren't interested so there's no point in reading the message.
They may also be able to tell from the preview, first few words, that they're not interested.
If they don't fancy you, there's unlikely to be anything you can say that will change that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Mostly look at pics and profile, if i don't fancy someone i won't look at their message and delete it. Might reply saying they aren't what i want if the message was polite."
this |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"
I look at the profile first and if it doesn't interest me, i delete the message. Also, if the beginning of the message is poorly written, i delete it. Or if it starts like a porno, i delete it. If a message you send is deleted or read or unanswered, take it as a no and move on. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Mostly look at pics and profile, if i don't fancy someone i won't look at their message and delete it. Might reply saying they aren't what i want if the message was polite."
This  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Nof just females and suppose most folk do same if a message say from as happens straight bloke wanting my cock i rarely open it.
Same if folk hundreds of mile away asking for meet etc it aint going to happen.
I do reply to some of the above though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why is it that some females you send don't even read messages?"
I look at profiles before deciding on whether to read the message.
If the profile doesn't match what I'm looking for I delete the message.
If a face pic is sent that looks glum, again I'll delete.
Plenty reasons people don't read messages, and as far as I'm aware we aren't obliged to read them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Avatar pics that make me go 