"Get a female swing partner am I less likely to appeal on my own?"
Yes less likely, but your profile is better than many single guys, and you've already had a couple of meets so you're doing ok so far |
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"Get a female swing partner am I less likely to appeal on my own?"
You will appeal to some couples I'm sure, but statistically you will always do better as a couple |
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"Your profile seems okay... Just have patience. "
I agree with this. I'm not sure there is much more you can do to appeal to couples specifically except to have patience and write messages that show you read their profile. Good luck!
-Courtney |
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"How could I make my profile better if it's ok? That's not being funny it's being genuine  "
Maybe a little more about specifically what you can offer a couple in a meet, and then get out there, maybe attend a social at a club or an arranged Fab social, they are held regularly in Manchester, Leeds, Sheffield, Newcastle and various other places, good luck |
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"How could I make my profile better if it's ok? That's not being funny it's being genuine
Maybe a little more about specifically what you can offer a couple in a meet, and then get out there, maybe attend a social at a club or an arranged Fab social, they are held regularly in Manchester, Leeds, Sheffield, Newcastle and various other places, good luck"
thank you very much  |
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We're no experts by a long way however....
There's a few grammar and spelling errors in your profile which can make a difference to some. But the content isn't bad.
Pics look ok and tasteful. We'd say take the plunge and visit a club or two or socials going on.
Maybe look for friendly couples or females to meet at a club. If you go for it don't hang with the crowd put yourself out there, approach people you are interested in and address both of the couple. If I don't get on with a guy he stands no chance with my Mrs
There's a couple of festivals going on soon. Swingfields and the Vanilla alternative's festival of fun. Both worth a look.
From what we have seen those that get involved in the social side of things get known and are much more successful.
Hope that helps you out |
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"We're no experts by a long way however....
There's a few grammar and spelling errors in your profile which can make a difference to some. But the content isn't bad.
Pics look ok and tasteful. We'd say take the plunge and visit a club or two or socials going on.
Maybe look for friendly couples or females to meet at a club. If you go for it don't hang with the crowd put yourself out there, approach people you are interested in and address both of the couple. If I don't get on with a guy he stands no chance with my Mrs
There's a couple of festivals going on soon. Swingfields and the Vanilla alternative's festival of fun. Both worth a look.
From what we have seen those that get involved in the social side of things get known and are much more successful.
Hope that helps you out"
thanks mate I'll check my profile now for the spelling mistakes |
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Boooooo you've hidden the cock pics  I always like to see one, just so you have a idea of size etc (don't believe those that say "if you seen one, you've seen them all"!!! It's so not true!!)
I'd also perhaps lose a few of the body builder pics, as they might make a male in the couple feel intimidated by how good your six pack is or think that's all you care about.
Otherwise a really nice profile and if you want help at your next pud quiz, give me a shout, I love puddings
Lisa |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Keep an eye out for the York Social. There's just been one so next one will be in a couple of months. There's a fair few people from Leeds go, and I dragged a single guy along last time to introduce him to the scene.
Also, this might sound silly, but look for couples who are looking for single guys. You'd be surprised how many men get that wrong. |
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"we're well out of your age range so you might want to ignore this  but personally I don't think you need the bit about never being truly happy.
Good luck Thank I've taken it out x"
Thanks ha |
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A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men. |
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"A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men."
really I can't pretend to be something I'm not surely they'd be a surprise when I turned up
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"A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men. really I can't pretend to be something I'm not surely they'd be a surprise when I turned up"
Was being faceitious |
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"A lot of men in couples will not want their woman being fucked by a big muscular man. We have had same problem when meeting other cpls. Pretend to be skinny, or target only those who actively advertise for muscular men. really I can't pretend to be something I'm not surely they'd be a surprise when I turned up"
Oh I don't know we've had people claim to be a certain age and be quite another when they turn up |
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I would also put your profile into paragraphs as it's easier to read.
I would lose the name "gymfit" as it sounds like you're a bit of a narcasist, which can put people off.
Check your spelling of Physical too. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Seems to be a lot about what you want rather than what you offer on your profile.
Also most people are not interested in being used as guinea pigs so that you can find out what you want or like.
They prefer to meet people who enjoy what they enjoy not be experiment number 27A in the quest for a perfect partner.
Forget what you want think about what you can offer.
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"Seems to be a lot about what you want rather than what you offer on your profile.
Also most people are not interested in being used as guinea pigs so that you can find out what you want or like.
They prefer to meet people who enjoy what they enjoy not be experiment number 27A in the quest for a perfect partner.
Forget what you want think about what you can offer.
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didn't mean it to sound this way just being honest  |
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"Thanks guys any advice on a user name then?"
Thought your current one was pretty accurate to be honest.
You're never going to be a fit for everyone. Just got to be who you are and be brave enough to put yourself out there. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Your profile text and pics look fine to me.
Patience is often needed on here and a bit of luck. I think its often a case of messaging the right people at the right time, not just what you say in a message.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you'll do relitively well just in general, profile is well written, pictures are good if anything a little pose-ish but you have a beautiful body and by the looks of it a great personality, just be patient, read profiles and email those that either suit your profile or vise versa and the main thing.. Have lots of fun! |
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"I think you'll do relitively well just in general, profile is well written, pictures are good if anything a little pose-ish but you have a beautiful body and by the looks of it a great personality, just be patient, read profiles and email those that either suit your profile or vise versa and the main thing.. Have lots of fun! "
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