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By *elsim OP Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
Has anyone bumped into someone they know from outside in a swingers club, or similar?
What's the etiquette?
What happened - good or bad?
nb we aren't after lurid fantasies, just expert advice! |
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Not happened to me yet, but happened to Mr once with a friend of the family.
The way we see it we're all here for the same reason, so you have two choices - pretend it didn't happen and never mention it, or play if there's a mutual attraction.
And yes, he did  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of us has a colleague at work who is also on here. He knows, we know. No drama about it, we're all adults and know not to go shouting it from the rooftops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once saw another Mum and Dad from my daughter's school up at Eurekas one Saturday night. Politely smiled and said hello. Guessing they'd not go shouting off about it in the playground. Although don't care a shit if they did Tbh. |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
south staffs |
"One of us has a colleague at work who is also on here. He knows, we know. No drama about it, we're all adults and know not to go shouting it from the rooftops"
Exactly this ! We met a friend at a club, just said Hi and enjoy and carried on. We don't play as we are not "wish list compatible" but do chat about it when we see them.
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As a taxi driver, i pick up a fair few folk. picked up a couple from their home, to take them to a club, a few months ago, nothing exciting aside from them booking a return journey that they never showed for, which peeved me a bit. Ex wife changes the little uns childminder, i go to pick them up from said new childminders house and think hmmm why do i know this address  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to us on a number of occasions, no big deal as all there for similar reasons, usually have a laugh and a chat about it and carry on. We have never been let down by any of these,but i guess there must be exceptions to this.  |
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By *on4aliCouple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
Yep, happened a couple of times. First one we literally bumped in to them at the bar, followed by a smile, hi and quick chat. Second one we spotted them first and said hi when they came past. All have never mentioned it outside, as it should be if that's you're wish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone bumped into someone they know from outside in a swingers club, or similar?
What's the etiquette?
What happened - good or bad?
nb we aren't after lurid fantasies, just expert advice!"
just say hi etc have a chat just like if you met a work colleague
If they dart behind a bin or try and hide their face respect their privacy and say nothing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex customer and an ex colleague are now birth members of the site....after I introduced them to swinging. Never had problem, don't ever foresee one as we would all be in the same situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes was delivery guy for where Ginger works. She had fantasised about him so was happily surprised to receive a message on fab from him. Me personally there's been a few couple of people but none I'd have played with even if I had been able to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woman from work who i thought was a bit square is on here and goes to clubs. Saw her at work and she just said didnt realise your tits was that big lisa . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a couple of people I know from normal life on here. I give them a wide birth. I prefer total discretion and would be mortified if they knew I was here. |
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We were in a club one night, had been in there an hour or so, in the tub, larking about with a couple of people etc.
We are standing at the bar when a guy walks over and says to the Mrs, " I always thought you were fit, just didn't realise how fit " . Mrs went bright red and explained it was a friend of a family member.
Mrs later said she had always heard the guy was well hung, so she fucked him to find out  |
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