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Well, for anyone who remembers me asking advice on rejection...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I did it.
Just sorted out 100+ messages and politely replied to reject people. I am well proud of myself, can't believe i did it lol.
Got a few guys i wanna chat with when i'm more awake so not replied to them yet. But everyone else is done and it wasn't too hard once i got into it, and despite me chatting at the same time.
Taking a break helped me not get so stressy about my inbox as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When people take the time to write a long personalised message to us we always reply even if it is a 'thanks but no thanks', if we're simply not interested we just say no or delete as get so many |
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"I just replied to those who were in my ranges and had pics or sent them, which is all i asked for. Everyone else yeah i deleted them."
I think that's what most people do to be fair. The problem arises when people ignore your profile requirements and send long messages. They then feel entitled to a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just replied to those who were in my ranges and had pics or sent them, which is all i asked for. Everyone else yeah i deleted them.
I think that's what most people do to be fair. The problem arises when people ignore your profile requirements and send long messages. They then feel entitled to a reply."
Yeah it makes sense to do that. Think one guy didn't know why i'd replied to him haha.
Actually enjoyed my inbox last night, for the first time in ages.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for sharing this with us...my world certainly changed a little since  "
I'm proud of myself. Tackled something i felt was impossible a few weeks ago.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since I returned to fab I've taken the same stance... I try to reply.. if it's a completely inappropriate message (for example, a long what I would do to you message when I'm clearly not looking for men..) then perhaps I'll get a little sarcastic but overall I'm polite. :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for sharing this with us...my world certainly changed a little since
I'm proud of myself. Tackled something i felt was impossible a few weeks ago. "
I remember. Are you getting your mojo back?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for sharing this with us...my world certainly changed a little since
I'm proud of myself. Tackled something i felt was impossible a few weeks ago.
I remember. Are you getting your mojo back? "
Yeah, it's not as greedy as it was before but i'm happy with that too. it's good to take a break. Half my regulars have left though and i was only 'gone' for 5 weeks.  |
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