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is honesty the best policy or lie through your teeth just to get a shag
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not quite sure i understand there?? I am always honest, i expect others to be too yet constantly i get messages from guys that i then find out have a long term girlfriend who doesnt know he is cheating?? Hence i changed my comment on my profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a waste of time been honest it's gets you nowere iv been honest and ppl just pull you to bits"
of course you will, you are cheating on your wife so you will find little compassion on here especially your pathetic reason. Cheating is not swinging and vice versa  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering why people can't be honest!
I am puzzled as to what sort of lie a man needs to be told to get him to shag ya?"
You just say "I'm tight as hell"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In life honesty is not always the best policy.
Sorry little old lady I mangled your cat with my truck and it squealed for 10 minutes convulsing in pain and bleeding from it's eyes is not quite what is wanted when a lie of it was over instantaneously would do.
In swinging we operate a 100% honesty policy with our profile and our answers, this doesn't mean we are nasty, a simple thanks but no thanks or mostly a "sorry but we do not feel we would be sexually compatible" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By being honest, I don't have to waste time and energy to remember what lies I have told etc...  "
Ditto ..................!! My memory wouldn't be that good enough lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been totally honest since I came on to FAB and have still to get a meet, but I will not change! But don't think it's my honesty that's the problem. LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lied once and lost the love of my life, not going to do it again. Oh, and by being honest since? Well, we are now the BEST of friends. So, no contest eh? |
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So from experience If I lie about my partner being aware of my exploits I find that far more women meet up with me and far less couples. If I am honest then far fewer ( make that none ) are willing to meet and less couples will as well. I still prefer to let the prospective partner know that my partner knows we are meeting as well. I have only had one girl try a follow up call at home and that got her a telling off from the other half. |
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"So from experience If I lie about my partner being aware of my exploits I find that far more women meet up with me and far less couples. If I am honest then far fewer ( make that none ) are willing to meet and less couples will as well. I still prefer to let the prospective partner know that my partner knows we are meeting as well. I have only had one girl try a follow up call at home and that got her a telling off from the other half. "
I'd also want to chat to your wife to ensure that she knows whats going on and would not appreciate a 'telling off' at all - that would lead to a 'thanks and bye' from me! Z |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"So from experience If I lie about my partner being aware of my exploits I find that far more women meet up with me and far less couples. If I am honest then far fewer ( make that none ) are willing to meet and less couples will as well. I still prefer to let the prospective partner know that my partner knows we are meeting as well. I have only had one girl try a follow up call at home and that got her a telling off from the other half. "
I know alot of people arent honest about having a partner as it will often mean less people wanting to meet them. I dislike those. Then there are some who do have it on their profile so then others can make an informed choice to wether to meet them or not. If being honest with prospective meets gets a person less meets then tough in my eyes.
I would also want a quick chat with your partner/wife to confirm that she was ok with the meet or deffo a bye from me.
I only can assume (and it is an assumtion) that the ones that do lie are clearly only wanting what they can get from the meet and not thinking of anyone else especially the partner at home.This is my opinion only.
Liers leave a bad taste in my mouth |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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You dont is the answer. Sometime you can tell in actions and things they say or dont say. Alot of time you cant so have to rely on them being honest.
My last comment was from someone else posting about telling prospective meets about the partner at home (if your question was directed at me?) xx |
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"if people say their honest how do u know their telling the truth ?"
Ahh, that sounds remarkably like the story of poor old Cassandra.
Apollo was completely in love with Cassandra. She spent a night at his temple where she was granted the gift of prophecy. However, when Cassandra later spurned Apollo's affection she was then cursed to never be believed by anybody.
She foresaw the fall of Troy, as well as her own very unpleasant demise, yet nobody believed a word she said.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honesty is something that most of us would like but don't get ..but most of all i like respect and that is a must and it works both ways "
I couldn't respect anyone who lied in thier profile no matter how small the lie.
Just seen the profile of what we think is a gorgeous couple, we would never meet them because thier profile says won't meet smokers, they have two verifications which state they all had fun playing but both are from people who are smokers. so a profile with lies in it, for us that's a "don't meet and avoid" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Liers leave a bad taste in my mouth
I thought you said you'd not meet someone who lied... did they eat asparagus before the meet?
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Or whole garlic cloves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i am afraid to say i have come to the conclusion that i dont believe a word anyone tells me until they prove me wrong any more on this site....long story and i wont bore you with teh details, but basically discovered a so called very good friend from here had lied to me yesterday, that i can take, but to also lie to his partner regarding another female he has been seeing not from this site..... in my book is unforgivable......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find most people are economical with the truth. Depends what things are important to you and if it matters.
As for me, I'm 5'10, 36GG, size 10, long blonde hair, just mind my nose when I turn sharply to the left..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lie thro your back teeth to get what you want
works for everyone else on here lol"
Everyone else ??
I would have to disagree .
Keep it real all the time but then you always have some doubters as proved with the above post . |
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