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"What's the best approach for 2 singles that met on the site to occasionally play as a couple? " Honesty | |||
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"Set up an honest couples profile?" If you set up a couple profile, admin may well change the fem single profile to a couple profile too and leave the male one as single. They changed my single profile to a couple one although it is the one I now use to meet single fems and I cannot get it changed back. I have decided to leave it as is and hope the single fems I want to meet know I am not doing it to titillate my bf as he won't be there. You will have to jumps through a lot of hoops to prove you are a real couple to people on here though, much more so that in the real world. Our kids, friends and work colleagues see us as a couple, as does the lender who is giving us a joint mortgagee, but some people on here still think we are not a real couple because we meat on here. | |||
"Set up an honest couples profile? If you set up a couple profile, admin may well change the fem single profile to a couple profile too and leave the male one as single. They changed my single profile to a couple one although it is the one I now use to meet single fems and I cannot get it changed back. I have decided to leave it as is and hope the single fems I want to meet know I am not doing it to titillate my bf as he won't be there. You will have to jumps through a lot of hoops to prove you are a real couple to people on here though, much more so that in the real world. Our kids, friends and work colleagues see us as a couple, as does the lender who is giving us a joint mortgagee, but some people on here still think we are not a real couple because we meat on here." A confusing mix of multiple profiles does make people suspicious. Why not have 1 couples profile, that says you also meet separately? OP are you 2 actually a couple now, or 2 fwb/fb who also want to meet couples? In our mind there is a big difference between the 2. | |||
"What's the best approach for 2 singles that met on the site to occasionally play as a couple? " attend clubs as a couple, or set up a couples profile.  | |||
"Set up an honest couples profile? If you set up a couple profile, admin may well change the fem single profile to a couple profile too and leave the male one as single. They changed my single profile to a couple one although it is the one I now use to meet single fems and I cannot get it changed back. I have decided to leave it as is and hope the single fems I want to meet know I am not doing it to titillate my bf as he won't be there. You will have to jumps through a lot of hoops to prove you are a real couple to people on here though, much more so that in the real world. Our kids, friends and work colleagues see us as a couple, as does the lender who is giving us a joint mortgagee, but some people on here still think we are not a real couple because we meat on here. A confusing mix of multiple profiles does make people suspicious. Why not have 1 couples profile, that says you also meet separately? OP are you 2 actually a couple now, or 2 fwb/fb who also want to meet couples? In our mind there is a big difference between the 2." I would have preferred this to be a single profile as my bf does not generally access it nor I his single one. Also, the verifications I have on it, both before him and since, relate to me, rather than us. In our situation, we are a couple, but we are still individuals. I also know that when I was meeting women singly, many, many of the so called single women on the site had a man who would suddenly pops up to watch or keep her safe. In other words it is actually a couple trying to meet a single woman. Now I am stuck with two couple profiles and having to say that I meet as a single woman when I meet women and my bf is not involved, unless it is sorted through our couple profile. I can imagine that many single women wanting to meet a single woman don't want to bother with this. So by changing the profile to a couple, it has meant my chances of meeting a single woman on my own have been severely diminished, oh well, out of my hands ..... of course, the other thing that is a pain about being seen as a couple is that single guys prefer to talk to the man in clubs. How many don't even give me the respect to ask me if they can join in, prefer to ask my bf or, if he is off playing with another guy, ask a male friend I am talking to. I know, I know. Its a rant ... | |||
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"What's the best approach for 2 singles that met on the site to occasionally play as a couple? " Make a couple profile. Don't mention your relationship details/ background unless you want to. It's no-one else's business. | |||
".... We've had no issues with myself being changed to a couple, probably because of what my profile text says." | |||
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"What's the best approach for 2 singles that met on the site to occasionally play as a couple? Make a couple profile. Don't mention your relationship details/ background unless you want to. It's no-one else's business. " This.
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