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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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apart from the obvious username mistake due to initially not taking this site overly serious
What would you suggest I do to help enhance my profile and make it so women actually want to reply rather than "delete" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make your profile longer to say something about you, what you like, what you can offer and maybe a bit of humor to show you can be fun.
You user-name would put us of also to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Only tend to send face pics to those I plan to meet and message off my own back.
Like to have some form of privacy if everything else is on show
But thanks  |
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"apart from the obvious username mistake due to initially not taking this site overly serious
What would you suggest I do to help enhance my profile and make it so women actually want to reply rather than "delete""
You really need to write more in your profile and do you really want to have sex with 99yr olds?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Make your profile longer to say something about you, what you like, what you can offer and maybe a bit of humor to show you can be fun.
You user-name would put us of also to be honest."
Yeah to be honest that was always going to be my downfall but surely through messages and pictures alike someone's perception would be proved wrong? |
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Get more public photos up, keep the no cock pictures.
You have no profile text?
Write about yourself, what you have to offer, what you're looking for.
Keep it fun though, yes some people are here for NSA sex but many enjoy the social side too. You need to show you're a person that people would like to meet without the end goal of sex.
Good luck pal. |
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"apart from the obvious username mistake due to initially not taking this site overly serious
What would you suggest I do to help enhance my profile and make it so women actually want to reply rather than "delete"
You really need to write more in your profile and do you really want to have sex with 99yr olds?? "
He hasn't wrote anything on his profile! That's what fab automatically puts on!
Plus OP you have no visible pics other than a tiny avatar pic, I didn't say face pics, ANY pics would be a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make your profile longer to say something about you, what you like, what you can offer and maybe a bit of humor to show you can be fun.
You user-name would put us of also to be honest.
Yeah to be honest that was always going to be my downfall but surely through messages and pictures alike someone's perception would be proved wrong?"
First thing we do when we get a message of someone we have never spoke to before is view his profile, we can get put of before even reading the message, I don't think we the only ones either. |
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"Make your profile longer to say something about you, what you like, what you can offer and maybe a bit of humor to show you can be fun.
You user-name would put us of also to be honest.
Yeah to be honest that was always going to be my downfall but surely through messages and pictures alike someone's perception would be proved wrong?"
You can change your username. Perception is all we can go on here, so if you have an interesting profile and some nice pics, that would certainly help to give some indication of what kind of man you are.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change them pics. Maybe a open shirt with undies on. Black n white pics look nice. Write about what you can offer, likes, dislikes, what your looking for, type of play you seek. If you like a social meet first like dinner?? Or if you just want a fast play? Do you go clubs?
There is nothing on there threw pics or profile that is interesting at all.
Hope this helps you find what your looming for  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Profile has been updated thoughts please
Quite allot better, we would be more tempted now if it wasn't for the user-name  "
Haha says the couple whose age range won't let me PM to send face pic lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile has been updated thoughts please
Quite allot better, we would be more tempted now if it wasn't for the user-name
Haha says the couple whose age range won't let me PM to send face pic lol"
Well, we only seek peeps in Leicester anyway, but just was saying, for your info, we would find your profile more appealing now than before it was what we was seeking (minus the user-name) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd put some weight on if I were you. You look terribly malnourished! "
Think youl find perfectly nourished. Benefits of Competitive running. And a balanced diet.
Nice to see your overly concerned to post such a narrow minded comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd put some weight on if I were you. You look terribly malnourished!
Think youl find perfectly nourished. Benefits of Competitive running. And a balanced diet.
Nice to see your overly concerned to post such a narrow minded comment "
Was my constructive criticism. You asked for it, I gave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's def a case of jealousy. Who wouldn't want to be trim and have a good healthy lifestyle. "
LoL not me (Tony) I enjoy cakes, sweets, pizza and everything else that is unhealthy.
As long as I'm not large I'm happy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think it's def a case of jealousy. Who wouldn't want to be trim and have a good healthy lifestyle.
LoL not me (Tony) I enjoy cakes, sweets, pizza and everything else that is unhealthy.
As long as I'm not large I'm happy."
Don't we all craving cheesecake 
Care to play naked chef? |
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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago
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Nice pics...great body..but seriously I wouldn't even answer a message from someone with your username.
Yesterday we turned someone down for a meet who we fancied, was local and available purely on basis of username....basically his username made him sound like an arrogant dick...am afraid yours does too! 
You obviously aren't a dickhead so start again with another names. .runningman? Perfectly nourished? ..few suggestions for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's def a case of jealousy. Who wouldn't want to be trim and have a good healthy lifestyle.
LoL not me (Tony) I enjoy cakes, sweets, pizza and everything else that is unhealthy.
As long as I'm not large I'm happy.
Don't we all craving cheesecake
Care to play naked chef? "
lol
Up until 4 year ago I was 133 lb, had been for years eating healthy, doing exorcise and so on but I always felt a bit lethargic.
I changed my diet to an "eat anything I want" and never looked back, I went up to 192 lb and now I have loads of energy, far happier not having to worry about what I eat.
And guess what, I might go co-op in a minute and buy a whole cheesecake just for myself "evil giggles" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nice pics...great body..but seriously I wouldn't even answer a message from someone with your username.
Yesterday we turned someone down for a meet who we fancied, was local and available purely on basis of username....basically his username made him sound like an arrogant dick...am afraid yours does too!
You obviously aren't a dickhead so start again with another names. .runningman? Perfectly nourished? ..few suggestions for you! "
Haha maybe forest hump? Thanks for the feedback
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd put some weight on if I were you. You look terribly malnourished!
Think youl find perfectly nourished. Benefits of Competitive running. And a balanced diet.
Nice to see your overly concerned to post such a narrow minded comment
Was my constructive criticism. You asked for it, I gave "
How is having a pop at someone's physique in anyway constructive? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think it's def a case of jealousy. Who wouldn't want to be trim and have a good healthy lifestyle.
LoL not me (Tony) I enjoy cakes, sweets, pizza and everything else that is unhealthy.
As long as I'm not large I'm happy.
Don't we all craving cheesecake
Care to play naked chef?
lol
Up until 4 year ago I was 133 lb, had been for years eating healthy, doing exorcise and so on but I always felt a bit lethargic.
I changed my diet to an "eat anything I want" and never looked back, I went up to 192 lb and now I have loads of energy, far happier not having to worry about what I eat.
And guess what, I might go co-op in a minute and buy a whole cheesecake just for myself "evil giggles" "
Pure evil! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd put some weight on if I were you. You look terribly malnourished!
Think youl find perfectly nourished. Benefits of Competitive running. And a balanced diet.
Nice to see your overly concerned to post such a narrow minded comment
Was my constructive criticism. You asked for it, I gave
How is having a pop at someone's physique in anyway constructive?"
Funny thing is my BMI is perfect so can't see what foot he has to stand on...
Not that he's probably seen his feet in a while
Sorry couldn't resist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The truth at the end of the day is just be whatever you are happy with, no matter if you slim, average, large or massive, as long as "you" are happy then sod what others think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"apart from the obvious username mistake due to initially not taking this site overly serious
What would you suggest I do to help enhance my profile and make it so women actually want to reply rather than "delete"
You really need to write more in your profile and do you really want to have sex with 99yr olds?? "
My god everyone knows by now that using 99 as the upper limit means you don't consider age an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice pics...great body..but seriously I wouldn't even answer a message from someone with your username.
Yesterday we turned someone down for a meet who we fancied, was local and available purely on basis of username....basically his username made him sound like an arrogant dick...am afraid yours does too!
You obviously aren't a dickhead so start again with another names. .runningman? Perfectly nourished? ..few suggestions for you! "
I find it hilarious that you turned someone you liked down based on something that was most likely thought up on the spot and seemed a good idea at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice pics...great body..but seriously I wouldn't even answer a message from someone with your username.
Yesterday we turned someone down for a meet who we fancied, was local and available purely on basis of username....basically his username made him sound like an arrogant dick...am afraid yours does too!
You obviously aren't a dickhead so start again with another names. .runningman? Perfectly nourished? ..few suggestions for you!
I find it hilarious that you turned someone you liked down based on something that was most likely thought up on the spot and seemed a good idea at the time."
Yes I thought the same there lol. |
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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago
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"Nice pics...great body..but seriously I wouldn't even answer a message from someone with your username.
Yesterday we turned someone down for a meet who we fancied, was local and available purely on basis of username....basically his username made him sound like an arrogant dick...am afraid yours does too!
You obviously aren't a dickhead so start again with another names. .runningman? Perfectly nourished? ..few suggestions for you!
I find it hilarious that you turned someone you liked down based on something that was most likely thought up on the spot and seemed a good idea at the time."
Fair enough if you think it'd a daft reason but lots of single men out there are not just me on this thread saying they judge usernames! Gotta stay one step ahead of the competition! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cam veri's are a waste of time in my opinion. I also judge people based on who they interact with, just being honest. I'd lose the cam veri. "
or just not do them in the first place...cam veri's IMO do not prove they are not timewasters...just that someone is attention seeking...I have someone I had been speaking to offline...who now only msg's when he is on cam...yep, was nice the first time..but now it is a tad tedious... |
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