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not had much luck on here.. any tips
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taylor......what did you learn from reading all the replies yesterday when you asked the same question?
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clearly nothing!!! 
just waiting for a pity shag rather than putting the effort in.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Judging by your current status, I take it that you're expecting others to come to you. You're gonna be waiting a long time i'm afraid.
We single guys massively outnumber the ladies and many ladies get in the region of around 100 messages PER DAY. They don't have time to come looking for you.
You need to be pro-active. Get in touch with people. Send messages, but also make your profile stand out.
Currently it's doing nothing for you.
You also need to be more patient. Most single guys here don't get their first meet until they've been here for around 6 months. Some have better success, others somewhat less.
Posting a new thread every day bemoaning your lack of progress (especially after only three weeks of being here) is unlikely to draw people to your door. It's more likely to put people off. |
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
Newcastle |
There really should be a separate section on forums for 'profile help...what am I doing wrong' threads.
Then people could have them in one place and at least have the notion of reading what people say on other threads of the same type... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You posted the same thread a day ago.....lol dude, wtf??"
See the comment from _rightonsteve
"Taylor......what did you learn from reading all the replies yesterday when you asked the same question?"
Clearly the answer is 'not a lot' |
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I thought you wanted to be penetrated. I'm not one to stand out, And my heads full of doubts. I feel pain and distress everyday though all I want to give is pleasure. I let go and all I want is to feel your body tense. I crave to take control. I crave to be used.
conner copy and paste..  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"There really should be a separate section on forums for 'profile help...what am I doing wrong' threads.
Then people could have them in one place and at least have the notion of reading what people say on other threads of the same type..."
You mean like a Support and Advice forum?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There really should be a separate section on forums for 'profile help...what am I doing wrong' threads.
Then people could have them in one place and at least have the notion of reading what people say on other threads of the same type...
You mean like a Support and Advice forum? "
What a good idea  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"There really should be a separate section on forums for 'profile help...what am I doing wrong' threads.
Then people could have them in one place and at least have the notion of reading what people say on other threads of the same type...
You mean like a Support and Advice forum?
What a good idea "
And heres one I prepared earlier funnily enough... |
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By *eshzMan
over a year ago
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Hi OP,
Good evening, I will try to be diplomatic as possible in my suggestions. Hopefully if you take them on-board you should be in a better position then you are now. OK here it goes:
1. Re-write your entire profile... it doesn't say anything about you as an individual... at the moment you come across as a "dickhead" who just wants a fuck. This might not be your intention I am sure... but the profile write-up is not helping you here. Read about 30-40 profiles of male/female/couples and you will I am surely find ones that are interesting to read and you can see a pattern. Copy the style of writing and ask for feedback once you've done it. It doesn't have to be perfect the first time around... just have a crack at it and see how it goes.
2. You have both face and torso picture which is good...and should help you in your search... you're not bad looking.
3. You just joined 3 weeks... this is a swinging site not rent-a-fuck site, get to know people and let the scenario develop as you go along.
4. Go to your local swinging club and fab social events and mix around...even if you don;t get any play... you are bound to make friends which will help you as you go along
Hope this helps OP. All the best bud . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder if he will ask exactly the same question, receive exactly the same advice and take exactly the same action tomorrow?
I can't see a single solitary word that's changed in the profile.
In fairness he has has changed the wording of the question in the thread........
Is there a prize for three in a row? |
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"Ques n tips "
. Your are lucky that you are young and have some good pictures . Another lady has referred to you as being cute so your pictures are attractive to some . However you would be best to re write your entire profile as the current one says nothing about you . Do you have any hobbies and interests. ?.What type if work do you do. ? What is your favourite drink?. What football team do you support ?. The list is endless . A well written profile is your main marketing tool and it may take hours to write a good one. Are you able to explain why ladies should select you over other members of the site ?. This is the type of question you have to ask yourself if you expect members to contact you ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Taylor...im older 44. I'd be happy to meet you but alas there a great big stretch of water between us...i think your profile is fine. You remind me of sid vicious...its early days. Good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taylor...im older 44. I'd be happy to meet you but alas there a great big stretch of water between us...i think your profile is fine. You remind me of sid vicious...its early days. Good luck. "
Op your post worked. |
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