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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if this is wrong to ask, just say, no need to jump at me? Anyone out there having an affair and willing to talk to me about it? "
On here or privately? Your age range message restrictions prevented a private response from me . . . |
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"if this is wrong to ask, just say, no need to jump at me? Anyone out there having an affair and willing to talk to me about it? "
Is this from a prurient point of _iew or an informational point of _iew?
It's not wrong to ask - but you might get ignored or blocked as a consequence. |
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"if this is wrong to ask, just say, no need to jump at me? Anyone out there having an affair and willing to talk to me about it? "
I'll talk but I'm out of your age range. Inbox me privately if you wish.
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If your really happy to talk please message me privately as I don't want to annoy those that don't want to talk. If you want to message would like to know how often you saw them, spoke to them, how you contacted them, did you have to pretend to be someone else, how did you make excuses to see them stuff like that? |
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"From personal experience it's okay to have them but try very hard to avoid feelings someone will always get hurt "
I agree with this, don't let them or yourself think that it's anything but w bit of fun on the side, also codes are a good idea I.e I'm just chilling with my hubby, so they know not to message you. That's just an example most people would probably use more discrete codes but you get the picture. And as for how often, as often as you like just make sure you set some rules like no marking and keep it on your own terms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married and for the last little while I've been fantasising about having an affair with an ex-girlfriend.
She wasn't wife material, but she was filthy in the bedroom. She wanted sex more than me, and that's saying something.
Anyway, I haven't seen her in years, but I'm always tempted to email her to get the ball rolling.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Views depend on the sex of the op I asked the question once and got slated "
Was it a few months ago?
I've noticed a change in the forum now where people prefer others to be honest and don't slate them for it any more, it's got less judgmental on here lately. Same thing for the bareback topics as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Views depend on the sex of the op I asked the question once and got slated
Was it a few months ago?
I've noticed a change in the forum now where people prefer others to be honest and don't slate them for it any more, it's got less judgmental on here lately. Same thing for the bareback topics as well."
no was about 2 weeks ago I got slated by certain members for being married |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if this is wrong to ask, just say, no need to jump at me? Anyone out there having an affair and willing to talk to me about it? "
Yes I once met a married woman for sex, was fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Views depend on the sex of the op I asked the question once and got slated
Was it a few months ago?
I've noticed a change in the forum now where people prefer others to be honest and don't slate them for it any more, it's got less judgmental on here lately. Same thing for the bareback topics as well.
no was about 2 weeks ago I got slated by certain members for being married"
Oh right. Weird.
Followed your green arrow and can see unfortunately the first reply is saying to sort stuff with your wife. Think they set the theme for the topic after that, a few people were alright about it i noticed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Views depend on the sex of the op I asked the question once and got slated
Was it a few months ago?
I've noticed a change in the forum now where people prefer others to be honest and don't slate them for it any more, it's got less judgmental on here lately. Same thing for the bareback topics as well.
no was about 2 weeks ago I got slated by certain members for being married
Oh right. Weird.
Followed your green arrow and can see unfortunately the first reply is saying to sort stuff with your wife. Think they set the theme for the topic after that, a few people were alright about it i noticed."
yeah a few were  but did get a few hostile replies |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"if this is wrong to ask, just say, no need to jump at me? Anyone out there having an affair and willing to talk to me about it? "
i have had a few flings and happy to talk to you about it . Pm me ,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had an affair with a married man for 10 years. I actually went through two different wives. I was friends with hiss first wife so with him working long hours and me in 6th form it was pretty easy to arrange to meet him. My name was changed on his mobile to a work mates and because I knew his hours of work I knew when I was able to text him. I got to see him a lot even if it was just going to see my friend. Their relationship ended he was on his own for a while still seeing me then he met another woman got married. He went on his honeymoon day after he got back was sleeping with me. He disappeared about 5 years ago until last year when he contacts me to say he is leaving his wife.. I tell him I am happy and moved on next day he's sorting things out with her again. To have an affair you have to be strong and not let your feelings and emotions get the better of you. But it's hard saying that because there must be something there to start it in the first place. In my case I was the only one that landed up getting hurt. Even when his wife found out about us the first time she took him back and continued to play happy families while he was still in contact with me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP yes.
Have been involved in many adulterous affairs, partly because I'm non-committal so the men expect nothing more from me than sex. Suits me.
I've been hurt once (when I was much younger) and had it also when a guy has left his wife and turned up with his kids on my doorstep.
You have to think - would you ever really trust a man who can't be truthful to his partner - and can you actually respect a guy who chooses to be in a relationship, with someone who probably doesn't have the same sexual drive/preferences as them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP yes.
Have been involved in many adulterous affairs, partly because I'm non-committal so the men expect nothing more from me than sex. Suits me.
I've been hurt once (when I was much younger) and had it also when a guy has left his wife and turned up with his kids on my doorstep.
You have to think - would you ever really trust a man who can't be truthful to his partner - and can you actually respect a guy who chooses to be in a relationship, with someone who probably doesn't have the same sexual drive/preferences as them?"
Isnt she asking about herself having the extra marital affair? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't agree with affairs, if you're bored in a relationship you should discuss openly about the prospect of seeing other people, you never know your partner may also be bored and harbour desires of the same.
Without trust in a relationship you don't have much left tbh, I know as I've been on both sides of the fence and hence not in those relationships anymore.
RG and I have complete trust, she knows if she fancies someone she has blessing to peruse him and bed him if she desires, all I ask is she tells me the details. I also have the freedom to peruse other sexual partners so it works both ways. |
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By *oody39Man
over a year ago
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It sounds to me by reading some of these replies people are confusing a fuck buddy with having an affair?
Maybe its just me but I thought an affair was loving someone other than your partner but for whatever reasons you are unable to be with them in a normal.... whatever that is relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did and believe it or not it was the catalyst that sorted my relationship out.
The proof; we are now married and into each other like we never were before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It sounds to me by reading some of these replies people are confusing a fuck buddy with having an affair?
Maybe its just me but I thought an affair was loving someone other than your partner but for whatever reasons you are unable to be with them in a normal.... whatever that is relationship"
This is what mine was, I told her I loved her she said she loved me! We broke up and said hopefully in another life  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I think the OP is just collecting stories. I gave her a very good understanding, and seen as she has neither replied or re-visited this thread - it should probably be in the fantasy section.
Bearing in mind she has only been on here for 3 months, with only 1 veri by cam .. I might suggest that people should probably keep their secrets to themselves I'd think.. ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't agree with affairs, if you're bored in a relationship you should discuss openly about the prospect of seeing other people, you never know your partner may also be bored and harbour desires of the same.
Without trust in a relationship you don't have much left tbh, I know as I've been on both sides of the fence and hence not in those relationships anymore.
RG and I have complete trust, she knows if she fancies someone she has blessing to peruse him and bed him if she desires, all I ask is she tells me the details. I also have the freedom to peruse other sexual partners so it works both ways."
dunchurch
Sometimes people don't have affairs because they are bored. I was with a violent ex. I was desperate to leave. I couldn't see a way out. Then I met somebody, had an affair and moved in with him and got away. Nobody could find me.
I had another affair once. Again nothing to do with boredom.
I make myself sound terrible don't I lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the OP is just collecting stories. I gave her a very good understanding, and seen as she has neither replied or re-visited this thread - it should probably be in the fantasy section.
Bearing in mind she has only been on here for 3 months, with only 1 veri by cam .. I might suggest that people should probably keep their secrets to themselves I'd think.. ? "
I have messaged her and she had replied we have chatted a bit and given advise so think she is genuine but of course no details given as you never know x |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I think the OP is just collecting stories. I gave her a very good understanding, and seen as she has neither replied or re-visited this thread - it should probably be in the fantasy section.
Bearing in mind she has only been on here for 3 months, with only 1 veri by cam .. I might suggest that people should probably keep their secrets to themselves I'd think.. ?
I have messaged her and she had replied we have chatted a bit and given advise so think she is genuine but of course no details given as you never know x"
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