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By *jandjb OP Couple
over a year ago
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I posted in a thread today about people who didn't turn up that such people are not necessarily single men, pranksters, timewasters etc but may have genuinely got cold feet. This is one reason why we check verifications and the people who have done the verifying.
One couple asked to meet us fairly early and outside the club, to walk in together. They were really nice people if a little bit timid, and we had a nice meet, socially and sexually.
I have posted this to get experienced people to ensure they provide support to newer people, which was us 12 months ago.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do and have met with new in veried folk from here with good times had by all we all started here at some point but won't tolerate time wasters all the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm all for helping new people serious about joining the lifestyle ease into it. What I'm not is a soft touch, so fellas hoping to use me as a 'get into club cheap card' get told no. Single ladies (straight or whatever - not into converting folk) who are nervous I will help. Wish somenody had helped me that first time. It was nerve racking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I meet new couples/single fems for a social and they are interested going to a club, then I'll always happily arrange to meet them at one at a later date.
I'm not a fan of going to clubs on my own so it helps us all out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's fair enough, first time I went to a club I'd arranged to meet someone experienced there.
BUT this doesn't excuse people who let others down with nary a word of explanation.
It takes seconds to type, really sorry, I'm not sure about this or to ask for support...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very well verified guy stood us up yesterday. With a last minute message saying his brother was rushed to hospital . He did manage to stay online all night though . I get that some people do get cold feet . But most unfortunately are just time wasters |
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By *jandjb OP Couple
over a year ago
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"A very well verified guy stood us up yesterday. With a last minute message saying his brother was rushed to hospital . He did manage to stay online all night though . I get that some people do get cold feet . But most unfortunately are just time wasters "
Some people's phones keep them logged in - just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A very well verified guy stood us up yesterday. With a last minute message saying his brother was rushed to hospital . He did manage to stay online all night though . I get that some people do get cold feet . But most unfortunately are just time wasters
Some people's phones keep them logged in - just saying."
yes mine does i think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He was online . His status kept changing . Has since put a verification up from someone else . It would have been nice if he had just said so instead of just lying . We were supposed to meet in lincoln yet he met someone in Essex and spent the night there .
It's obvious he had a better offer but still annoying when your sat in a pub waiting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Early-on, I did get last-minute cold feet for an arranged meet. We had booked a hotel room (having met socially on another date beforehand), but out of decency I paid the full cost of the room. We have met subsequently.
I also believe not all cold feet-ers are necessarily fakes, but it's nice to have a bit of trust/feel of validation to begin with. For me, that's usually done with a brief face-to-face webcam session or at least a social meet before a proper one.
Understandably, it can be a pain in the assessment though, since I've had had a couple of no-show myself! |
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"A very well verified guy stood us up yesterday. With a last minute message saying his brother was rushed to hospital . He did manage to stay online all night though . I get that some people do get cold feet . But most unfortunately are just time wasters "
This just looks silly, some people are just chancers and fakers i guess, had it happen with women and couples too though, sure you have plenty of offers instead though. |
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