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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So you have a social with a couple, all goes well, you spend a few weeks chatting and arranging a play meet. All are extremely enthusiastic, but then you get stood up! Why? How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind?  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind? "
Judging from the amount of times these posts appear, almost impossible. I do wonder why, in these days of instantaneous communication, it seems to be so difficult to drop a quick text along the lines of 'I've/we've changed our mind'. I have had a couple of texts along those lines and I've been fine with it. Better than being sat in a pub alone with people looking at me with sympathy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind?
Judging from the amount of times these posts appear, almost impossible. I do wonder why, in these days of instantaneous communication, it seems to be so difficult to drop a quick text along the lines of 'I've/we've changed our mind'. I have had a couple of texts along those lines and I've been fine with it. Better than being sat in a pub alone with people looking at me with sympathy."
well said  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe it was a fake profile? Did they have recent verifications? Had you spoken to them via webcam? "
We had a social with them lol, they were eager right up to the morning of our play meet, then just didn't show or reply to messages, but had been viewing us on here around the time we were meant to be meeting, which is my point, if they had time to click on our profile they had time to say "sorry we won't be there " lol |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Maybe it was a fake profile? Did they have recent verifications? Had you spoken to them via webcam?
We had a social with them lol, they were eager right up to the morning of our play meet, then just didn't show or reply to messages, but had been viewing us on here around the time we were meant to be meeting, which is my point, if they had time to click on our profile they had time to say "sorry we won't be there " lol"
Ah, Sorry my mistake, I read your post too quickly. Yeah that is pretty bad  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"So you have a social with a couple, all goes well, you spend a few weeks chatting and arranging a play meet. All are extremely enthusiastic, but then you get stood up! Why? How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind? "
Sorry to hear this,seems some people get their kicks this way.It doesnt take much to tell someone you have changed yr mind .Lots of great people here who wont mess you about though. |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"So you have a social with a couple, all goes well, you spend a few weeks chatting and arranging a play meet. All are extremely enthusiastic, but then you get stood up! Why? How hard is it to just send a quick message saying they've changed their mind?
Sorry to hear this,seems some people get their kicks this way.It doesnt take much to tell someone you have changed yr mind .Lots of great people here who wont mess you about though."
Sounds like cold feet which must be embarrassing but they should have told you. |
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