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Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??"
On here take it as not you and move on  |
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??"
Because you have no photos perhaps..
on another note. My profile just says Not Looking.. so in fact I am not encouraging any messages. If you sent the above to me I would ignore you too.
Read the profiles if you dont fit the criteria dont message is the way to go. If you choose to message send a face picture if no reply you are not what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women delete messages by the bubble bath load. If you like a woman, try waiting until she's online before sending her a message. In a non stalker way. "
I don't take any more notice of messages when I'm online as I do when I'm offline
Makes no difference to me at all as to whether i'll reply or not
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"Women delete messages by the bubble bath load. If you like a woman, try waiting until she's online before sending her a message. In a non stalker way.
I don't take any more notice of messages when I'm online as I do when I'm offline
Makes no difference to me at all as to whether i'll reply or not
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Oooh you're a tough nut to crack  |
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I couldn't really give an answer to what type of guy I go for as I don't really have a type.
Short, tall, slim, not so slim, blonde, dark, short hair, long hair, shaved, bearded. I've played with them all (not all at the same time though).
So if I had a type it would be clean, not an idiot, not up their own arse and funny.
Well it's a start at least.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women delete messages by the bubble bath load. If you like a woman, try waiting until she's online before sending her a message. In a non stalker way. "
I try and answer all my messages ! Only delete when 'fancy a fuck' is the subject! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only tend to message guys who stand out to me in some way.
And that's usually a very flirty, intellectually stimulating message where I know I can have a lot of banter with them.
If I can't get that mental connection with a guy and sustain it, I can't fuck them.
I am not a "fuck n go" girl. My body and brain don't work like that.
I'm sure other women are different.
But your message isn't very exciting or inviting. Lots of guys say something like that, or something similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women delete messages by the bubble bath load. If you like a woman, try waiting until she's online before sending her a message. In a non stalker way.
I don't take any more notice of messages when I'm online as I do when I'm offline
Makes no difference to me at all as to whether i'll reply or not
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I think the thinking is if your online when he messages it's more likely his will be at th e top of the list and be seen rather than buried miles down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people don't have type so wouldn't be able to answer that question.
Most people don't like to give what they perceive as rude answers either, such as not boring guys, not short guys, etc
How am i doing? I'm doing just fine ignoring my inbox thanks, and not replying to messages i'm gonna delete before i go hunting down someone to fuck tonight, and you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??"
The fact that you are making a big deal about this sends a signal to me (and many others) that you are one to avoid and delete.
Focus on those who do reply rather those that don't. If no one replies change your bloody approach! |
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong withthat??"
Bland and dull questions.
Engage.
Flirt.
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"Because they get millions of email and prob do a mass delete, the think they are popular lol. Hence all women get similar amounts of emails lol  "
No they don't Shag. Some do but I only get one or two a day, as do others. |
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"Because they get millions of email and prob do a mass delete, the think they are popular lol. Hence all women get similar amounts of emails lol
No they don't Shag. Some do but I only get one or two a day, as do others. "
Yes that's good, so some not all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong withthat??
Bland and dull questions.
Engage.
Flirt.
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ask em if they want ya cocksnot up the fartpipe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??
The fact that you are making a big deal about this sends a signal to me (and many others) that you are one to avoid and delete.
Focus on those who do reply rather those that don't. If no one replies change your bloody approach!"
From behind! Underneath! Piggy Back! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women delete messages by the bubble bath load. If you like a woman, try waiting until she's online before sending her a message. In a non stalker way.
I don't take any more notice of messages when I'm online as I do when I'm offline
Makes no difference to me at all as to whether i'll reply or not
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Same, I tend to answer oldest messages first, so waiting until I'm online achieves nothing either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's usually the "fancy a fuck" ones I don't reply to so many creeps!
& how about the 'want to help me empty my sack' messages?"
Or the ones we send to them, fancy milking my cock behind a bush lol |
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??"
Depends what's in their profile....the answer to your question may be in there....most appear to not read or ignore ours and we still reply...patience is wearing thin though to be honest.  |
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
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There must be loads of women and couple [in the main] who get masses of messages every day...It would take an age to get into a conversation with everyone, just to say no thanks or politely answer the questions when there is no chance of being interested...
...and, if they answered to say they weren't interested, may get loads of grief in the 'why not', or 'I thought this was a sex site' sort of way...or worse stuff bordering on abuse.
All stuff that gets said on here over and over, but there you go.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??"
Because your profile is non-existent. There are no pictures and there is no information. There is not even a location. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??
Because your profile is non-existent. There are no pictures and there is no information. There is not even a location. "
Exactly 
Why do you expect somone to be interested enough in you to consider meeting you when you cannot be bothered to give some information about yourself. |
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Most messages we get if we put up a meet are very short. You can tell they have not read our profile or meet criteria. As we cannot accomodate unless well planned so if looking for meet it's always at yours but hey they usually can't accomodate either ha ha so if it doesn't warrant a reply it doesn't get one. But we are ignorant e do reply to most messages as long as not suit one liners lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most messages we get if we put up a meet are very short. You can tell they have not read our profile or meet criteria. As we cannot accomodate unless well planned so if looking for meet it's always at yours but hey they usually can't accomodate either ha ha so if it doesn't warrant a reply it doesn't get one. But we are ignorant e do reply to most messages as long as not suit one liners lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's usually the "fancy a fuck" ones I don't reply to so many creeps!
& how about the 'want to help me empty my sack' messages?Or the ones we send to them, fancy milking my cock behind a bush lol "
I thought you said "into your bush" ?  |
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"Why do people just delete your inbox message. When your trying to find out more about what they are after when its not stated on profile.
My messages are not rude..Its just a simple.
Hi how are you doing?? What type of guys do you go for??
would like to know if something is wrong with that??"
You've put more effort and information into this post, than you have your profile and the message you send
That should give you your answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, most people will look at your profile before even reading your message. Have you done your absolute best to stand out from the other 30 plus messages some people get on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to be very direct in my profile.
If someone obviously hasn't read it, or theirs obviously has no effort put into it then I don't reply.
Just my personal opinion! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Most people won't ask you for more info so you need to fill a bit on and sell yourself .Also as others said lack of any pics will put people off ,try updating profile and adding some tasteful shots. |
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