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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you see safe sex is not listed as a preference on any profile does automatically mean you wouldn't meet the person or persons the profile belongs to ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who don't say it usually say on their profile what they do want, which makes it easy to avoid them. If you aren't sure and think they may have forgotten to put it on just ask!"
Absolutely, I wouldn't consider playing without precautions, but I might be an oversight or error on their part |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"If you see safe sex is not listed as a preference on any profile does automatically mean you wouldn't meet the person or persons the profile belongs to ?"
Not only will I not meet them, I will not meet anyone they have ever met or meet anyone who has ever meet them who has met the people who have met them
Additionally, I will block them and write copious notes which I will read with glee reaffirming my decision as to why I won't meet such people
And I would also ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id say 99% of the people that have asked for Bareback with us have Safe sex ticked and a big block capital.. SAFE SEX ONLY on the profiles..
So no it doesn't put us off..  |
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"Id say 99% of the people that have asked for Bareback with us have Safe sex ticked and a big block capital.. SAFE SEX ONLY on the profiles..
So no it doesn't put us off.. "
We've had several like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you see safe sex is not listed as a preference on any profile does automatically mean you wouldn't meet the person or persons the profile belongs to ?
Not only will I not meet them, I will not meet anyone they have ever met or meet anyone who has ever meet them who has met the people who have met them
Additionally, I will block them and write copious notes which I will read with glee reaffirming my decision as to why I won't meet such people
And I would also ....."
Wow, that's a lot of effort & time  Maybe get a hobby!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here we go again..
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The constant debate on here...bareback v safe sex
A slightly different angle to this thread though."
For the moment yes...but will always change into the age old debate onces the regular prolific posters get wind of it lol |
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If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others."
This is a real problem. How do you think these 'people' should be dealt with? Tarred and feathered is hardly a suitable punishment. Hung drawn and quartered; now we are getting warmer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here we go again..
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The constant debate on here...bareback v safe sex
A slightly different angle to this thread though."
Yes, that makes it more refreshing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never take much notice. Men I've met that have had safe sex listed have wanted to play bare. I think alot of people tick the safe sex box to simply become more appealing to others. All these people and their hidden agendas |
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"If you see safe sex is not listed as a preference on any profile does automatically mean you wouldn't meet the person or persons the profile belongs to ?"
This would only work if everyone was telling the truth.
How would this work when meeting people at clubs or parties that don't don't have profiles on here?
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"If you see safe sex is not listed as a preference on any profile does automatically mean you wouldn't meet the person or persons the profile belongs to ?
This would only work if everyone was telling the truth.
How would this work when meeting people at clubs or parties that don't don't have profiles on here?
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I carry my iPad and do on-the-spot background checks  |
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"If you see safe sex is not listed as a preference on any profile does automatically mean you wouldn't meet the person or persons the profile belongs to ?
Not only will I not meet them, I will not meet anyone they have ever met or meet anyone who has ever meet them who has met the people who have met them
Additionally, I will block them and write copious notes which I will read with glee reaffirming my decision as to why I won't meet such people
And I would also .....
Wow, that's a lot of effort & time Maybe get a hobby!!! "
LOL |
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"People who don't say it usually say on their profile what they do want, which makes it easy to avoid them. If you aren't sure and think they may have forgotten to put it on just ask!
Absolutely, I wouldn't consider playing without precautions, but I might be an oversight or error on their part "
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"If you see safe sex is not listed as a preference on any profile does automatically mean you wouldn't meet the person or persons the profile belongs to ?"
The connotation with this thread is that every item in the list of interests will take place during a meet; rather than it being a list of what the person is interested in doing.
Rather a flawed view.
We would suggest that some may think safer sex is taken for granted rather than have to be specified.
Others may take the view that showing the safe sex interest shows people they are not adverse to condom use.
A few might even believe that adding safe sex makes them immune from catching anything and everything including the common cold.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, this has made me think that I never actually look at the interests list...I tend to get more of a feeling from the profile text and the people they've met, then entering into conversation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id say 99% of the people that have asked for Bareback with us have Safe sex ticked and a big block capital.. SAFE SEX ONLY on the profiles..
So no it doesn't put us off.. "
Hilarious when some people believe what they read on profiles though... bless..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others."
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"If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others.
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So are you saying that because I've got safe sex and condoms only, on my profile that I'm going to ask for bareback in case of rejection because according to you its usually the case??
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others.
So are you saying that because I've got safe sex and condoms only, on my profile that I'm going to ask for bareback in case of rejection because according to you its usually the case??
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According to me... people sometimes lie on their profiles. |
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"If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others.
So are you saying that because I've got safe sex and condoms only, on my profile that I'm going to ask for bareback in case of rejection because according to you its usually the case??
According to me... people sometimes lie on their profiles. "
And just sometimes they're telling the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others.
So are you saying that because I've got safe sex and condoms only, on my profile that I'm going to ask for bareback in case of rejection because according to you its usually the case??
According to me... people sometimes lie on their profiles.
And just sometimes they're telling the truth "
That too. |
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"If people soft swing they don't tend to put safe sex so you need to read a profile & read it again before damming them.
It is usually the ones that put safe sex that ask for bareback as they are too clued up not to put this on their profile in fear of rejection from others.
So are you saying that because I've got safe sex and condoms only, on my profile that I'm going to ask for bareback in case of rejection because according to you its usually the case??
According to me... people sometimes lie on their profiles.
And just sometimes they're telling the truth
That too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I wouldn't meet anyone who whinges on about it on threads like this because, (regardless of the fact that I only list my main interests and have my own set limits), I'd be worried that they'd be constantly criticising me, and commenting that I've got the wrong car, or the curtains are the wrong colour, or my tits are too big, or too small....
If you have your own preferences, whatever they are, then do stick to them, but please stop whining on about it again... and again.... and again....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never take much notice. Men I've met that have had safe sex listed have wanted to play bare. I think alot of people tick the safe sex box to simply become more appealing to others. All these people and their hidden agendas "
this ^^ ..if ur open about it only people who are into safe/bb will contact u xm.n.mx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I wouldn't meet anyone who whinges on about it on threads like this because, (regardless of the fact that I only list my main interests and have my own set limits), I'd be worried that they'd be constantly criticising me, and commenting that I've got the wrong car, or the curtains are the wrong colour, or my tits are too big, or too small....
If you have your own preferences, whatever they are, then do stick to them, but please stop whining on about it again... and again.... and again....
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