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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike White Knights! 
"Decent" men know how to behave. The Neanderthals won't take a blind bit of notice."
And being a dick isn't unique to single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And if the women concerned are that bothered they can report the messages. Or moan publicly themselves.
Did they really need or want you to tell all nen how to behave? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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Not many will read your post but, thank you; xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though."
No more pointless than the endless help me I can't get a meet posts!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though."
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though "
He doesn't need to do that, I'm fucking him Friday night.
Just a genuinely nice guy actually  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The vast majority of single men that message me are polite and I say no thanks to almost everyone  "
Have to agree most guys are good, odd weirdo but nothing a block or delete doesn't fix  |
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
He doesn't need to do that, I'm fucking him Friday night.
Just a genuinely nice guy actually "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
No more pointless than the endless help me I can't get a meet posts! "
This just looks like another angle to us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I blame the ads on porn sites for adult dating sites.....'horny mums, just message to fuck' etc etc
We're not that gullible........"
Lots of men are unfortunately. You can spot them a mile off.
Thankfully some men aren't so thick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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Well said I know it goes both ways too but its annoying!  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
Not many will read your post but, thank you; xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
He doesn't need to do that, I'm fucking him Friday night.
Just a genuinely nice guy actually "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums 
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird. "
Walk away xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird.
Walk away xx"
... Apple for your horse sir? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird. "
I doubt it very much...but hey ho...you never know in this strange old world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird.
Walk away xx
... Apple for your horse sir?"
Neigh!!! Hold on let me just get my reigns on and I'll be good to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird.
Walk away xx
... Apple for your horse sir?
Neigh!!! Hold on let me just get my reigns on and I'll be good to go "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird.
I doubt it very much...but hey ho...you never know in this strange old world "
Leave him be, he's just being nice.
It's nice to be nice, even if there's no bugger to hear it....
Plenty ranty threads to go pick on....god knows I do it myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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Deja vu |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird.
I doubt it very much...but hey ho...you never know in this strange old world
Leave him be, he's just being nice.
It's nice to be nice, even if there's no bugger to hear it....
Plenty ranty threads to go pick on....god knows I do it myself "
Niceness is nice..i can do nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does he honestly believe that the guys who sends these messages read the forums
Maybe..... Just maybe he does. Wouldn't that be weird.
I doubt it very much...but hey ho...you never know in this strange old world
Leave him be, he's just being nice.
It's nice to be nice, even if there's no bugger to hear it....
Plenty ranty threads to go pick on....god knows I do it myself
Niceness is nice..i can do nice "
There's a time for nice definately, and its usually at a nice time  now seems a nice time for some nice as it goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These arrogant, entitled naughty men must be very gullible if they think that women don't talk. Sure it's not done on fab because it's against the rules, But people of like mind swap phone numbers and keep notes about who is a douche & who isn't. And if you cut & paste messages, it's fairly obvious what circles you've been in ( any women want to mud wrestle? ) Sorry for the cynicism. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though "
I don't think I've seen you post anything but negative comments on any thread in the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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Sorry but imho this is total bollocks! I've seen far more examples of women and couples showing men a lack of respect than I have the other way round! Men seem to be _iewed as pieces of meat in the swinging world, and I think it's abhorrent! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to wonder what one has to do to get abusive messages. Some do seem to suffer with it a lot and I can count on one hand. ..actually 2 fingers, the number I've had. ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow, I'm sort of new here,and as a newbie ( dam I hate that stero typing lol)I find this intriguing,someone helps someone else and all kinds of comments flow,each to their own,didn't think this place was judgemental lol how coukd it be, dont judge
Life's too short
Take care all ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to wonder what one has to do to get abusive messages. Some do seem to suffer with it a lot and I can count on one hand. ..actually 2 fingers, the number I've had. ..."
Well I guess you have been a lucky lady and it would seem you attract a more discerning gentleman and rightly so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
Sorry but imho this is total bollocks! I've seen far more examples of women and couples showing men a lack of respect than I have the other way round! Men seem to be _iewed as pieces of meat in the swinging world, and I think it's abhorrent! Xx"
Well knowing what a nice lady you are I would happily be your sparing partner But I think you get good people and bad people in general no matter what the sex of the person and these are the ones that cause the problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
I don't think I've seen you post anything but negative comments on any thread in the forums"
I don't think I've seen any posts of yours besides this one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
Sorry but imho this is total bollocks! I've seen far more examples of women and couples showing men a lack of respect than I have the other way round! Men seem to be _iewed as pieces of meat in the swinging world, and I think it's abhorrent! Xx"
I'll be honest, I don't think I've ever felt that way....I've never felt like a disposable commodity or piece of meat... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
Sorry but imho this is total bollocks! I've seen far more examples of women and couples showing men a lack of respect than I have the other way round! Men seem to be _iewed as pieces of meat in the swinging world, and I think it's abhorrent! Xx"
Miss scary speaks sense me thinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
He doesn't need to do that, I'm fucking him Friday night.
Just a genuinely nice guy actually "
Nah he'd be a genuinely nice guy if he'd have complained about people sending other people mean messages it speaks volumes that the only group he defends so valiantly is the group he wishes to stick his sword into as it were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
I don't think I've seen you post anything but negative comments on any thread in the forums"
You may be confusing negativity with pragmatism and cynicism |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
I don't think I've seen you post anything but negative comments on any thread in the forums"
If we all posted positive encouraging responses it wouldn't be much of a debate would it? A forum is by definition a meeting or medium where ideas and _iews on a particular issue can be exchanged. If all the _iews are the same then it wouldn't exist.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they get the odd shitty message then block and report, everyone has had one at some point, if we all went crying to some bloke who then posted a thread about it on the forum we'd be a bunch of pathetic sadcases |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I blame the ads on porn sites for adult dating sites.....'horny mums, just message to fuck' etc etc
gonna have to elaborate on that one"
I agree with her.
Basically sex services online show women as desperate for guys to fuck, to have dirty chat with etc, this is to draw men in to make them money.
Unfortunately many people think all women online are like this. So it's mainly down to the guy themselves thinking that all women online are like the promoted money making sites. We often get treated like a free service on here, things like the way advertising works in general doesn't help, especially if the guys don't read profiles and are stupid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll be honest, I don't think I've ever felt that way....I've never felt like a disposable commodity or piece of meat...
Do you want to? "
Errrrr......no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
I don't think I've seen you post anything but negative comments on any thread in the forums
You may be confusing negativity with pragmatism and cynicism"
I'm really quite the optimist.
Only today as I saw the truck closing the gap way quicker than I thought it would I simply thought "ahh well past the point of no return..." and pinned the throttle screaming "millennium falcon!!!!!" As I slipped through the asteroids....I mean trucks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
The sentiment though is a pretty shallow attempt to try and make himself look better in order to get a shag though
I don't think I've seen you post anything but negative comments on any thread in the forums
You may be confusing negativity with pragmatism and cynicism
I'm really quite the optimist.
Only today as I saw the truck closing the gap way quicker than I thought it would I simply thought "ahh well past the point of no return..." and pinned the throttle screaming "millennium falcon!!!!!" As I slipped through the asteroids....I mean trucks"
some people just use preparation H |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"These arrogant, entitled naughty men must be very gullible if they think that women don't talk. Sure it's not done on fab because it's against the rules, But people of like mind swap phone numbers and keep notes about who is a douche & who isn't. And if you cut & paste messages, it's fairly obvious what circles you've been in ( any women want to mud wrestle? ) Sorry for the cynicism."
Really? Bloody hell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they get the odd shitty message then block and report, everyone has had one at some point, if we all went crying to some bloke who then posted a thread about it on the forum we'd be a bunch of pathetic sadcases "
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Well, in that case, I am meeting a 'piece of meat' on Saturday. How shall I 'do' him?
Medium rare make sure to leave him standing for 5 so the juices don't ooze out "
Well, I hope he isn't reading this  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Have you seen the way some people behave and how they approach swinging...
some will reap what they sow.
others may be abused in some way and they need reported.
sometimes it is like watching a car crash in slow motion |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I have to wonder what one has to do to get abusive messages. Some do seem to suffer with it a lot and I can count on one hand. ..actually 2 fingers, the number I've had. ..."
Same here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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I have recieved similar rude and crude messages from couples. Politeness should be the norm I believe. Couples, women I know you recieve loads of messages if you cant reply mention that in your profile guys, or just no thankyou is also great! For those knobs who cant take rejection, you are not gonna get anywhere by pissing people off. Word gets around yknow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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Only slightly patronising!??
I'm sure all the single women on here who have experienced this behaviour are incredibly grateful you have stepped up and put the guilty parties in their place!! Without you to tell all men how to behave normally how on earth could the poor women expect to be shown an ounce of respect??! It's a wonder how any men got meets before without your guidance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike White Knights!
"Decent" men know how to behave. The Neanderthals won't take a blind bit of notice.
And being a dick isn't unique to single men"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
Only slightly patronising!??
I'm sure all the single women on here who have experienced this behaviour are incredibly grateful you have stepped up and put the guilty parties in their place!! Without you to tell all men how to behave normally how on earth could the poor women expect to be shown an ounce of respect??! It's a wonder how any men got meets before without your guidance "
I feel terrible but I laughed a lot at this |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"This is aimed at the single guy! Yes I know I'm one but I'd just like to say...
I have spoken to two ladies tonight who have received abusive or inappropriate messages.
Just because they are on a swing site, does not entitle you to assume they are pieces of meat or an easy fuck.
Just because they post on the forum doesn't mean you can send rude, crude messages or hounding emails in the hope of meeting!
Respect goes a long way on here...so please gents, think before you mail and show some respect!!
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The people who have to be told won't listen
The people who don't need to be told don't need to listen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to agree pointless thread.
Mr dickhead ain't going to read this and change his ways. Applaud the sentiment though.
No more pointless than the endless help me I can't get a meet posts! "
Was this not meant to be attention seeking then? |
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