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"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"
My advice is deal with it and move on nobody owes you a reply or explanation as to why
also I have no idea what's in the message or if you attach pictures but my answer would still be as above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send the message then delete it so that you won't see if it's read or not. That way, you delete it first and can deal with important things like food. Then you'll be surprised when women reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"
Post up a message you've sent that's got deleted then we can have a look and see if there's an issue.
Otherwise it might jist be they didn't fancy you |
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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago
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"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"
My apologies if this sounds harsh OP but according to the green arrow you asked exactly the same question about 6 months ago and received similar advice from others that contributed to the thread , and after glancing at your profile you chose to ignore the advice given  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?
My apologies if this sounds harsh OP but according to the green arrow you asked exactly the same question about 6 months ago and received similar advice from others that contributed to the thread , and after glancing at your profile you chose to ignore the advice given "
attention seeking again... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A delete is a no thanks, all you have to is in your head realise that deleting your message means no thanks, a lot of guys get this and understand.
If asking people to chat gets you a yes answer what you gonna say next? Bet you can't chat after saying that.
I've noticed many guys are 'bored' and that's why they're here and they expect me to put all the effort in an entertain them, well no thanks to that, i don't want to be as bored as you are.
I'm probably either ignoring my inbox coz it's boring in itself or i'm already chatting to several guys at once if anything of interest appears in it. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To the OP...if you sent a mail saying fancy a chat to us we may answer but it would be no thanks too.
The very first meet we had was with someone who sent a one line mail that had us laughing, we replied and it ended up in a meet. I don't think a first message has to be war and peace but it has to stand out or you will get lost inbetween the good ones.
For your profile, you are obviously happy with it so you don't have to take anyones advice if you don't want to, but an avatar pic might help.  |
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"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"
Same advice as you got the last time you asked, sort your profile out and you will have more success, but you will probably ignore this thread as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a question....would that line that you can see at the start of any mail make anyone want to open a profile to check it out anyway?
We don't "
Snap. I always think, "If you want to chat, bloody chat. But don't ask me if I want to chat with no idea of what." It is rather like the, "How r u?" line. I'm fine, thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have asked for advice more than once op and the best advice I can give on profiles is.... listen to what your told. the replies you are getting on this thread are from your target audience so to speak. Listen and enact the changes you are told about where possible.
What Info I have gathered that ladies like in a single guy profile from just reading the threads is as follows
1. Avatar.
Have one, either a body shot, face or something that will make them smile..
Very few ladies want to see your todger... they have all seen them before.
2. profile.
Fill it out. Message me, I have a massive cock, wanna meet birds and shag em profile text probably means your lazy and wont put effort into getting a meet so chances are you wont make an effort once you do get one. Tell people about YOU. Your profile is your shop window as there are an awful lot of shop windows on fab use it to the best of your ability and stand out.
Humour is always good.
Messages.
Keep them open and honest, a little about you and show you have read their profile properly, if your addressing a couple talk to both of them, remember the male half reads them too and if you were to message us "you have great tits, wanna fuck", will just get deleted.
If she wants to see your fella she will ask unless its already stated on her profile she wants one but you would know that if you had read the profile.
I think thats all I can say.. sorry so long winded, hope it helps and good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi there anytime i send a message get deleted any advice ?"
You profile screams DELETE ME.
No profile pic
No photos
No decent profile text
Just no effort |
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