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Using a strap on for the first time
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Help please. A guy wants me to do this. Any tips as scared of hurting him  x
I'm sure there are threads about it already and I did look but most of them are for people who want it or want to do it, not how.
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Help please. A guy wants me to do this. Any tips as scared of hurting him x
I'm sure there are threads about it already and I did look but most of them are for people who want it or want to do it, not how.
Thank you x"
try different sizes and then lube up alot and slide in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well having been on the receiving end a few times having a softer feeling one as opposed to hard plastic makes a big difference.
Then just use lots of lube,go very slow,lots of dialogue making sure it's all good & once he's comfortable ENJOY! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bought a small one from ann summers cos my ex wanted to try it x plenty of lube and gently does it ...... Initially lol
wanna use it with me"
lol no you're ok thanks |
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Main thing is let him control it until comfortable. Let him go on top or back on to you first time.
Yes use lube. Either finger his ass (work up to two fingers) or get him to to straighten out the passage.
Tbh once it's in and comfortable you can bang away without worry. Just be aware of his body language. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get a decent harness so you can control your thrusts better we have a Rodeoh one and it's fantastic for some lively thrusting "
What they said!, crap harness just makes the whole experience naff, can't get decent leverage  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As above. Start with smaller sized one, loads of lube, and enter slowly , once in and out a few times and he's comfy you can bang away! If he's never had it before mayb let him try it on his own 1st get used to something up there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your advice, all taken on board and I think the idea of letting him control it is a good idea. He has done this before so he knows what to expect thank goodness xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just arranging this for the first time x quite apprehensive but excited x how can u tell the soft from hard varieties online x any recommendations for a first timer? |
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"just arranging this for the first time x quite apprehensive but excited x how can u tell the soft from hard varieties online x any recommendations for a first timer?"
Go for something made from silicone or rubber, rather than one made of plastic, glass, or stainless steel....
Silicone is probably bestest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Start small and work your way up plenty of lube. Also maybe start with a small butt plug first see how that goes. X
Go big!!!! You'll only have to buy bigger in a week!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Work up to it and def get him to push back against it, can never use enough lube, the soft silicone are best and remember to store it in a suitable cover after otherwise may get ruined. Once he's happy with the rhythm just go for it girl! |
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"Work up to it and def get him to push back against it, can never use enough lube, the soft silicone are best and remember to store it in a suitable cover after otherwise may get ruined. Once he's happy with the rhythm just go for it girl! "
Thanks, I will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Work up to it and def get him to push back against it, can never use enough lube, the soft silicone are best and remember to store it in a suitable cover after otherwise may get ruined. Once he's happy with the rhythm just go for it girl!
Thanks, I will. "
How did it go?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Work up to it and def get him to push back against it, can never use enough lube, the soft silicone are best and remember to store it in a suitable cover after otherwise may get ruined. Once he's happy with the rhythm just go for it girl!
Thanks, I will.
How did it go? "
He called off the meet, he's not very well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Help please. A guy wants me to do this. Any tips as scared of hurting him x
I'm sure there are threads about it already and I did look but most of them are for people who want it or want to do it, not how.
Thank you x"
line up with the hole first then start pushing.
especially cause you cant feel the shaft, a lot of women tend to be pushing just above or below the hole then before you can correct their aim it moves towards the whole an cause they're putting a lot of pressure on it flies inside very quickly and painfully. |
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