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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I would have thought so. The same with age preference and only men able to message."
I can't message you because I'm outside your age limit - so that bit works. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around "
This pisses me off!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around
This pisses me off!!"
sounds loads off hastal I couldn't be bothered lol . |
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around
This pisses me off!!sounds loads off hastal I couldn't be bothered lol . "
Before admin changed the system people would regularly change their D.O.B to get around age filters too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around
This pisses me off!!sounds loads off hastal I couldn't be bothered lol . "
I can't be bothered with the hassle of asking for pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around
This pisses me off!!sounds loads off hastal I couldn't be bothered lol .
Before admin changed the system people would regularly change their D.O.B to get around age filters too"
Sounds like they could do with doing something with the pictures? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around
This pisses me off!!sounds loads off hastal I couldn't be bothered lol .
Before admin changed the system people would regularly change their D.O.B to get around age filters too"
It does still happen, two ages on one profile and the usual "I selected the wrong age" bollocks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around
This pisses me off!!sounds loads off hastal I couldn't be bothered lol .
Before admin changed the system people would regularly change their D.O.B to get around age filters too
Sounds like they could do with doing something with the pictures? "
but its not the systems "fault" if a guy changes filters then bck again as far as the sysetem goes nothing wrong has happened!
i got 6 guys asking to suck me off etc yesterday but i dnt block single guys suck it up sister just block and move on! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its simple really they set a pic to public send the message then change their pic settings again. Its the easiest filter to get around
This pisses me off!!sounds loads off hastal I couldn't be bothered lol .
Before admin changed the system people would regularly change their D.O.B to get around age filters too
Sounds like they could do with doing something with the pictures? but its not the systems "fault" if a guy changes filters then bck again as far as the sysetem goes nothing wrong has happened!
i got 6 guys asking to suck me off etc yesterday but i dnt block single guys suck it up sister just block and move on! "
I didn't say it was the systems fault, Iv not accused anyone!
I suggested maybe they could do something about it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how? if they are getting around filters dnt you think there will always be a way? you cant stop em sending but you can stop em sending anymore! block?"
Yes boss! |
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Pictures are harder. Say for example you want to take a break from the scene for a bit so you hide your profile and set pics to private to drum down interest, then on your return you put pics back to public but cant message anyone as youve previously had them private, just dont see that working well.
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"I have my filters set.
Especially the one with no public photos, yet guys are still able to message me when they don't have a public photo?? "
They make one pic public then message and then close the foto.. once you have replied they can message you any time
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have my filters set.
Especially the one with no public photos, yet guys are still able to message me when they don't have a public photo??
They make one pic public then message and then close the foto.. once you have replied they can message you any time
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I never reply to them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that filter never works for me either!
I'm definitely not interested in hearing from, or replying to messages from anyone who has no photos, but despite having that message filter set, they still get through...
It's annoying, and wastes my time and theirs, but they just get ignored, often blocked - but why should I have to even do that when the filter is there???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Black silhouttes shud be there for a limited time only ie 14 days then if we are all genuine the black silhoutte shud be a face pic if profile gets suspended |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe have it so if someone has thw filter r you have to have had a public picture on display for at least 14 consecutive days.
Stops people sticking one on sending a message then removing it
But isn't really an issue for a long term member who is taking a break and comming bwck |
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"Maybe have it so if someone has thw filter r you have to have had a public picture on display for at least 14 consecutive days.
Stops people sticking one on sending a message then removing it
But isn't really an issue for a long term member who is taking a break and comming bwck"
Yes but how would they prove who is back from a break?
Im taking a break from meeting at the moment, but my account is still actively logged into for forum use |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Black silhouttes shud be there for a limited time only ie 14 days then if we are all genuine the black silhoutte shud be a face pic if profile gets suspended"
Why a Face pic ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wot makes me laugh is the ones who message me on kik to by pass my filters Hehehe do they really think I aint gonna spot that they are above my age range or not my type |
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"Wot makes me laugh is the ones who message me on kik to by pass my filters Hehehe do they really think I aint gonna spot that they are above my age range or not my type "
They obviously do
This is why my addies to apps like kik are kept private
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe have it so if someone has thw filter r you have to have had a public picture on display for at least 14 consecutive days.
Stops people sticking one on sending a message then removing it
But isn't really an issue for a long term member who is taking a break and comming bwck
Yes but how would they prove who is back from a break?
Im taking a break from meeting at the moment, but my account is still actively logged into for forum use"
The wouldn't need to someone comming back wouldn't really mind having to wait two weeks to message certain people after putting thier pics back up because they'll be here for a while anyway
but the pop up spam messages then unlos people wouldn't be here long enough to have them up for 2 weeks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe have it so if someone has thw filter r you have to have had a public picture on display for at least 14 consecutive days.
Stops people sticking one on sending a message then removing it
But isn't really an issue for a long term member who is taking a break and comming bwck
Yes but how would they prove who is back from a break?
Im taking a break from meeting at the moment, but my account is still actively logged into for forum use"
Also you have a pic on display so it wouldn't affect you at all lol |
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"Maybe have it so if someone has thw filter r you have to have had a public picture on display for at least 14 consecutive days.
Stops people sticking one on sending a message then removing it
But isn't really an issue for a long term member who is taking a break and comming bwck
Yes but how would they prove who is back from a break?
Im taking a break from meeting at the moment, but my account is still actively logged into for forum use
Also you have a pic on display so it wouldn't affect you at all lol"
Lol yes i probably should have added that i know my pic is public so woyldnt matter for me, but some hide pics along with the profile when taking a break but remaining active for the forums, it would effect them then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wot makes me laugh is the ones who message me on kik to by pass my filters Hehehe do they really think I aint gonna spot that they are above my age range or not my type
They obviously do
This is why my addies to apps like kik are kept private
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Quite a few are nice n men i would of missed out on otherwise |
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"Wot makes me laugh is the ones who message me on kik to by pass my filters Hehehe do they really think I aint gonna spot that they are above my age range or not my type
They obviously do
This is why my addies to apps like kik are kept private
Quite a few are nice n men i would of missed out on otherwise "
Well if it works for you at least you can still block on.kik if needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe have it so if someone has thw filter r you have to have had a public picture on display for at least 14 consecutive days.
Stops people sticking one on sending a message then removing it
But isn't really an issue for a long term member who is taking a break and comming bwck
Yes but how would they prove who is back from a break?
Im taking a break from meeting at the moment, but my account is still actively logged into for forum use
Also you have a pic on display so it wouldn't affect you at all lol
Lol yes i probably should have added that i know my pic is public so woyldnt matter for me, but some hide pics along with the profile when taking a break but remaining active for the forums, it would effect them then "
But when they come back and make thier pics public a two week wait to message a very small minority with this feature is hardly a great burden is it.
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"Maybe have it so if someone has thw filter r you have to have had a public picture on display for at least 14 consecutive days.
Stops people sticking one on sending a message then removing it
But isn't really an issue for a long term member who is taking a break and comming bwck
Yes but how would they prove who is back from a break?
Im taking a break from meeting at the moment, but my account is still actively logged into for forum use
Also you have a pic on display so it wouldn't affect you at all lol
Lol yes i probably should have added that i know my pic is public so woyldnt matter for me, but some hide pics along with the profile when taking a break but remaining active for the forums, it would effect them then
But when they come back and make thier pics public a two week wait to message a very small minority with this feature is hardly a great burden is it
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I wouldnt deem it as a burden but i could guarentee it would be to some and just be another thing to moan about on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It just happened again ! I'm blocking them now!
Are you sure youve never messaged them even in regards to a forum post or to say no thanks? "
No I check when I look at their profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would post this in the site help section and draw admins attention to it to see if they can come up with a solution.. Maybe just link to this thread?? X"
Oh bugger that's where I should have put it in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I would have thought so. The same with age preference and only men able to message."
We're a couple and can't message so that's working.
Just seems the photo bit is bring no passed? |
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