I think its to the moon and back-give or take, becuase mine is HUUUUUGE..
Its different for girls here but some guys get ever so nasty/aggressive @ the slightest rejection.
As fab grows,so does the quantity of guys joining ... Its just a shame the quality doesnt improve pro rata ..
Doesnt mean there arent FAB guys here-just makes harder for them/harder to find them.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I just ask OP who are you putting on your block list ? Can't imagine why a single guy would have 50 on his block list? We have no filters and have only out about ten on there . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I basically put idiots on as it's not just men that get abusive with knock backs! I put anyone on that I also send a message to and see it's been read and deleted without a thanks but no thanks reply, that because I see no need to see there profile if we don't speak and vice versa, I also put those unsuspecting friends on it after realising they are just FOS! (Full of shit) so it varies why I do it but it's grand my questions answered lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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prob only 20 on this profile as i just delete messages that annoy me,some really rude ones i block.
my couple profile has hundreds.dont know how many but the scroll bar on the right is about 3 mm top to bottom if that makes sense x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I basically put idiots on as it's not just men that get abusive with knock backs! I put anyone on that I also send a message to and see it's been read and deleted without a thanks but no thanks reply, that because I see no need to see there profile if we don't speak and vice versa, I also put those unsuspecting friends on it after realising they are just FOS! (Full of shit) so it varies why I do it but it's grand my questions answered lol "
Seems fair enough the only problem I see with this approach is dependant upon who you message it may not be the right time for th to respond just then. For example we can't reply to every single message just way too time consuming, however, we'll hotlist for future reference if we like but are busy engaging with others. We may actually forget to go back due to the volume of messages but when they message us again they're hotlisted and we know instantly we already have interest. Same with some we're happy to converse with but not yet able to meet for a while doesn't make us bullshitters. There's a multitude of reasons why conversations stall or don't get off the ground immediately or as you imagined, timing being as we've found being a key factor as well as obvious attraction which is upto you how you handle it, we fully respect what you do as we all have our filtering methods.
Come to think of it three of our meets wouldn't have happened with said approach and we'd put those meets in our top five. |
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I think we must be on nearly everyone's because we get so few winks and messages but continue to see posts from other couples that mention that they get loads. |
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I'm at 50 and just wondered if that was a cut off or if it can go higher.. 
