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why is it so hard to find meet
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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With no public photos, you'll have an uphill struggle. Also the status update about a fem to put on a bi-show for your hubby may not appeal to everyone. You could always go to a club, such as the Attic on Saturday night.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oki thanks guys im the fem i love seeing him with other women just such hard thing to find...ill change our profile abit just we have jobs that need to keep us private "
That's never an excuse and your target audience is essentially single females. This makes you subject to the same rules as single males. No public pics no dice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all im looking for is meet for us this weekend and so hard "
We have, pic's, verifications, verified by site, been to clubs the whole nine yards and can't get a couple to meet up.
So it's not just you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, do you think that your employer is a member of fab then?
Consider this : Anyone who sees your profile is also a member and here for similar reasons. If they were to expose you, they expose themselves in the process.
As many have said, you are making things harder for yourselves with no pictures.
I too pass by profiles without pics.
Blind date this is not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if your looking mostly for single ladies its always going to be hard.. We do play separate.. but I don't really have much interest if any in meeting a couple alone.
My reasoning is that I don't want to feel like a toy.. or be sharing someone elses man like that.. Totally hypocritical when I love to share Mr D with other ladies..
but I know I am quite happy to enjoy her together with him and her and I share him... and no way would she feel it was all for a show or for us.
however on the odd occasion I have tried it with the dynamic being me meeting a couple I have felt that I was very much the extra..
Also I find it terrifying to meet a couple and it just be me.
So that maybe part of your problem.. as many women that want to join other women don't want to do so with the guy there.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I single fem who does meet couples I can honestly say there is nothing on your profile that makes me want to meet. I like to see the dynamic of the relationship. Without even a picture thats a total no no. Try a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Zero effort = Zero interest"
I think I've put the effort in, on profile, photos and first messages and still no interest, so just because you have a willing partner, doesn't mean anything I'm afraid! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I single fem who does meet couples I can honestly say there is nothing on your profile that makes me want to meet. I like to see the dynamic of the relationship. Without even a picture thats a total no no. Try a club."
Sorry to hijack but.
Bear in mind we are a long way from each other and very unlikely to meet
But based on our profile would you meet us? Hyperthetically speaking that is. Not actually asking just trying to gauge if our profile is ok.
Many thanks. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As I single fem who does meet couples I can honestly say there is nothing on your profile that makes me want to meet. I like to see the dynamic of the relationship. Without even a picture thats a total no no. Try a club.
Sorry to hijack but.
Bear in mind we are a long way from each other and very unlikely to meet
But based on our profile would you meet us? Hyperthetically speaking that is. Not actually asking just trying to gauge if our profile is ok.
Many thanks. Xx"
I certainly would want to meet you, a very nicely written profile, with everything clear so no misunderstandings. What about mine if you would take the time please? |
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