This gets on our nerves soo bloody much, you like what you see and the messages are going back and forth but just from the guy. So you ask for the girl and it's always "she's in the shower/in bed/out". So if that couple or person don't suggest verifying themselves or shrink and make excuses at your suggestion of verifying, then it's probably somebody just getting a thrill and nothing more. |
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Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
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"This gets on our nerves soo bloody much, you like what you see and the messages are going back and forth but just from the guy. So you ask for the girl and it's always "she's in the shower/in bed/out". So if that couple or person don't suggest verifying themselves or shrink and make excuses at your suggestion of verifying, then it's probably somebody just getting a thrill and nothing more."
Ouch! That's a shame x |
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her"
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple?  |
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? "
yes i am usually sadated in the corner 
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? yes i am usually sadated in the corner
Her"
Gaffer tape him up before he gets chance next time  |
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? yes i am usually sadated in the corner
Her
Gaffer tape him up before he gets chance next time "
You dont understand the concequences, i wont get beer
Sympathy susan |
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? yes i am usually sadated in the corner
Her
Gaffer tape him up before he gets chance next time You dont understand the concequences, i wont get beer
Sympathy susan "
I'll get you the beer
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? yes i am usually sadated in the corner
Her
Gaffer tape him up before he gets chance next time You dont understand the concequences, i wont get beer
Sympathy susan
I'll get you the beer
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Thankyou, a beer would be nice anytime  |
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? yes i am usually sadated in the corner
Her
Gaffer tape him up before he gets chance next time You dont understand the concequences, i wont get beer
Sympathy susan
I'll get you the beer
Thankyou, a beer would be nice anytime "
You can hold me to that |
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? yes i am usually sadated in the corner
Her
Gaffer tape him up before he gets chance next time You dont understand the concequences, i wont get beer
Sympathy susan
I'll get you the beer
Thankyou, a beer would be nice anytime You can hold me to that"
A think a plan should be made. |
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"Yes we have had this, messages going on a couple of days, i have asked where is the good lady.
Then comes 5pm messages deleted or some excuse, I stopped messaging for a short while because of this.
Male halfs playing the game, maybe ask for a female to female phone call.
We have been asked and honoured it.
Her
Have never seen you and gimp in the same room, are you sure you're a couple? yes i am usually sadated in the corner
Her
Gaffer tape him up before he gets chance next time You dont understand the concequences, i wont get beer
Sympathy susan
I'll get you the beer
Thankyou, a beer would be nice anytime You can hold me to thatA think a plan should be made. "
We'll have to take a road trip to a Jaydees party or somewhere similar in the not too distant future. it'd be lovely to say hi after all this time |
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No such thing as a 'timewaster' on fab, other than those whose choose not to read a profile criteria prior to making contact.
The only reason someone (man or woman) would cease contact after a few back and forth messages - would be that he or she has seen something in your manner or conversation that unsettles them in a way. You may never know the reason,just move on. |
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The only true timewaster is someone who arranges to meet then doesn't show up. Everything else is just words on a screen and you'd be sat there typing away anyway so no time wasted |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"No such thing as a 'timewaster' on fab, other than those whose choose not to read a profile criteria prior to making contact.
The only reason someone (man or woman) would cease contact after a few back and forth messages - would be that he or she has seen something in your manner or conversation that unsettles them in a way. You may never know the reason,just move on."
This isn't really correct. As the OP has stated there are people who seem to get their jollies from messaging about meeting with no intention of doing so, people who want to meet and bottle it and the occasional people who get a "better offer" and at best let you know about it very late.
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The only reason someone (man or woman) would cease contact after a few back and forth messages - would be that he or she has seen something in your manner or conversation that unsettles them in a way. You may never know the reason,just move on."
The only reason ? No single guys on here pretending to be fems who shut down when a phone call is suggested ?
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"This gets on our nerves soo bloody much, you like what you see and the messages are going back and forth but just from the guy. So you ask for the girl and it's always "she's in the shower/in bed/out". So if that couple or person don't suggest verifying themselves or shrink and make excuses at your suggestion of verifying, then it's probably somebody just getting a thrill and nothing more."
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"This gets on our nerves soo bloody much, you like what you see and the messages are going back and forth but just from the guy. So you ask for the girl and it's always "she's in the shower/in bed/out". So if that couple or person don't suggest verifying themselves or shrink and make excuses at your suggestion of verifying, then it's probably somebody just getting a thrill and nothing more."
When we looked for couples I wouldn't spend lots of time messaging back and forth nor would I speak about anything sexual,I would only ask once to speak to the female half,if she wasn't available I would say get back to me when she's ready to talk |
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"This gets on our nerves soo bloody much, you like what you see and the messages are going back and forth but just from the guy. So you ask for the girl and it's always "she's in the shower/in bed/out". So if that couple or person don't suggest verifying themselves or shrink and make excuses at your suggestion of verifying, then it's probably somebody just getting a thrill and nothing more."
My and my hubby get annoyed when people ask for the other half all the time we are on here as a couple so everything said is as a couple doesent matter who is typing the measage |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"This gets on our nerves soo bloody much, you like what you see and the messages are going back and forth but just from the guy. So you ask for the girl and it's always "she's in the shower/in bed/out". So if that couple or person don't suggest verifying themselves or shrink and make excuses at your suggestion of verifying, then it's probably somebody just getting a thrill and nothing more.
When we looked for couples I wouldn't spend lots of time messaging back and forth nor would I speak about anything sexual,I would only ask once to speak to the female half,if she wasn't available I would say get back to me when she's ready to talk "
The issue from the OP seems to be people not being verified.
Simple solutions.
Apply the relevant filter and they can't message you. And if in chatrooms and there's only one half of a couple on cam? Stop chatting!
Rocket science - I know!
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