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Sick of saying no to playing with guys :(
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Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x  |
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over a year ago
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No I feel much the same way, lots of women I fancy in couples, but have absolutely no interest in MMF.
On the plus side, you will at least have far more offers and flexibility than I get. |
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over a year ago
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Just block couples and guys from messaging you. Pushy, overexcited other halves will nearly always chance their arm. You could always browse for suitable people yourself and just block anyone inappropriate. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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It says that you are looking for MF couples in your profile.
So if you couple (ho ho) that with your profile text which, while it clearly states you only play with women, does also say you want contact from couples, you are going to get people who don't read your profile closely enough contacting you.
Rewrite the profile, remove any mention of couples, and untick that you are looking for MF couples. You'll still get messages from people who haven't read your profile, but you'll probably reduce them a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you're a sexy looking woman who will get tonnes of messages even if you had no text on your profile!
Best advice if you don't want the hassle is to up your filters and do the searching yourself.
On here no reply equals no thank you. |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"Block men and couples - job done 
And I find it hard to find SINGLE bi women too - don't give up, there are genuine ones out there, they don't all come with a bloke attached  "
This doesn't necessarily work. Not all females in couples have single profiles (we don't yet and have been on here nearly a year).
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
Rub some bacon on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a straight man and I get guys asking me if I want my cock sucked! So I feel your pain even though I'm sure the volume of messages I get is far, far inferior to yours!
Amazing how people either don't read the profile or think that you'll make an exception 'just for them' as they're 'not like the other guys' |
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"I respect that you're not interested because I'm not a woman. Thank you for looking at me yesterday  "
I'm not sure what you mean by that lol I must of read something you put on the forum and found it rather interesting.... X |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
My fb and me want a ffm. He asked me to look for a lady, so I changed my filters to include women, took a while but I had two ladies contact me, and we are chatting and im straight, not looking to play with the lady but who knows what will happen. Good luck, im sure it will happen for you, but like others said change your filters.  |
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I understand that everyone is saying change your filters, but wouldn't that mean that most of the women that might want to play with me on their own wouldn't be able to contact me? There's not really that many single ladies profiles in comparison to couples profiles... Not everyone that has s couples profile has a singles too... X |
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"Its easy, use the filters to stop men emailing, next
Read it again, silly "
I just read your original message and unless this is in answer to another point I don't understand why you think it's silly. Block men and couples, then only women will be able to contact you. If you want to play with a woman while her partner watches search for them yourself.
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"Wow, people are a little touchy on here.... Was only asking if other people have this problem..."
Your title says you're sick of saying no to guys. Why is being giving you a strategy to stop it being touchy?  |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
im looking for the same, well a bi man and a nice lady |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
I reckon make all your pics private and that should stop a lot of mails.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow, people are a little touchy on here.... Was only asking if other people have this problem..."
not touchy, just used to this kind of question being asked in the forums a lot and the OP dismissing the advice. |
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over a year ago
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OP, your only verification that's showing is from a man. This sometimes makes people think you're looking for a man in the future as one has managed to slip through the net. I'd remove it and show a very from a couple/female if you have one.
You have a very attractive profile, and so people will ask on the basis that you can only say no!
It's a pain, but take it as a compliment.  |
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"I understand that everyone is saying change your filters, but wouldn't that mean that most of the women that might want to play with me on their own wouldn't be able to contact me? There's not really that many single ladies profiles in comparison to couples profiles... Not everyone that has s couples profile has a singles too... X"
So filter couples.... and then do the searching and mailing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think all the bi women must be on a mission to turn me because I get a fair few single bi women message me and I have to keep telling them I'm only after men
I don't get why they would mail me when there are so many bi women on here looking for women 
But the simple answer to the OPs problem is block messages from men and couples if it bothers you that way only people you are interested in can mail you |
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"OP, your only verification that's showing is from a man. This sometimes makes people think you're looking for a man in the future as one has managed to slip through the net. I'd remove it and show a very from a couple/female if you have one.
You have a very attractive profile, and so people will ask on the basis that you can only say no!
It's a pain, but take it as a compliment. "
Good point re the veri...  |
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"I understand that everyone is saying change your filters, but wouldn't that mean that most of the women that might want to play with me on their own wouldn't be able to contact me? There's not really that many single ladies profiles in comparison to couples profiles... Not everyone that has s couples profile has a singles too... X"
You don't have to block MF Couples, but if you just untick MF Couples from the 'looking for' then you won't show in those searches, but they will still be able to contact you. This won't stop the mail, but should hopefully reduce it to those who, when searching, specifically look for a Woman looking for Women (which can be done from any profile, regardless of account settings) |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
There are some all girl parties that have been hosted at Amour in manchester recently . They seem to be very popular .
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x
There are some all girl parties that have been hosted at Amour in manchester recently . They seem to be very popular .
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Thankyou for that hun I will have a nosey x |
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"I understand that everyone is saying change your filters, but wouldn't that mean that most of the women that might want to play with me on their own wouldn't be able to contact me? There's not really that many single ladies profiles in comparison to couples profiles... Not everyone that has s couples profile has a singles too... X
You don't have to block MF Couples, but if you just untick MF Couples from the 'looking for' then you won't show in those searches, but they will still be able to contact you. This won't stop the mail, but should hopefully reduce it to those who, when searching, specifically look for a Woman looking for Women (which can be done from any profile, regardless of account settings)"
Thankyou, you gave me the best advice, without having to sound rather nasty like some have x |
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"OP, your only verification that's showing is from a man. This sometimes makes people think you're looking for a man in the future as one has managed to slip through the net. I'd remove it and show a very from a couple/female if you have one.
You have a very attractive profile, and so people will ask on the basis that you can only say no!
It's a pain, but take it as a compliment. "
thankyou I will consider doing this too x |
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As much as changing the filters to try and sort your problem may reduce your options, maybe it's worth trying as an experiment?
So girls and female couples only? Just for a short time to see how it goes?
With less messages to have to deal with, it might allow you more opportunity to go searching for what you like instead of waiting for them to come to you?
Hope this helps...... |
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If it really annoys you that much, maybe best to filter out couples, only allow mail from single women. You can then search couples yourself and send emails to the ones you like. Couples you email will then be able to reply and not be affected by the filter. Hope it works out for you OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Block men and couples - job done
And I find it hard to find SINGLE bi women too - don't give up, there are genuine ones out there, they don't all come with a bloke attached "
1right here! |
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"Looks fake to me.........
because she's only had 1 meet? ok then  "
Exactly, the guy doesn't know me...
I used to be on here as a couple and we had many verifications and have been to clubs and parties. I'm now on here on a single profile. And the guy that's verified me has had many meets and I've known him for over a year now...I'm definately not fake  x |
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"I'm so glad to have found this post. Have found it so difficult to find women who want to meet women alone x "
There are a fair few, myself included take your time.. Get to know people, build up a rapor.. and you shall reap the rewards. |
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"Looks fake to me.........
because she's only had 1 meet? ok then
Exactly, the guy doesn't know me...
I used to be on here as a couple and we had many verifications and have been to clubs and parties. I'm now on here on a single profile. And the guy that's verified me has had many meets and I've known him for over a year now...I'm definately not fake x"
I'd definitely meet you x |
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I don't experience the exact same but I always get messages off of people that I have clearly stated I'm not interested in. There aren't filters to block out the people I'm not interested in and clearly you can't use them to solve it all either. I just got to a point where I deleted every message off of a person like that even if it was polite, it is so irritating and people are left wondering why they don't get replies. Even now, I say I'm not meeting/looking for anyone and I still get bombarded  |
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"Looks fake to me.........
because she's only had 1 meet? ok then
Exactly, the guy doesn't know me...
I used to be on here as a couple and we had many verifications and have been to clubs and parties. I'm now on here on a single profile. And the guy that's verified me has had many meets and I've known him for over a year now...I'm definately not fake x
I'd definitely meet you x"
Awesome! I'd meet you too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had that problem when I had a single account also
But be patient, there are woman on fab who will meet
I would meet you, but out of your age range
Monkey x |
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"Looks fake to me.........
because she's only had 1 meet? ok then
Exactly, the guy doesn't know me...
I used to be on here as a couple and we had many verifications and have been to clubs and parties. I'm now on here on a single profile. And the guy that's verified me has had many meets and I've known him for over a year now...I'm definately not fake x
I'd definitely meet you x
Awesome! I'd meet you too x"
Hell yeah x |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
Its a matter of refining your filters regards who can contact you then doing more proactive searching.
Most single girls on here will get flooded with requests and a lot of people never read then profile properly.
Most couples will want to meet a single girl as most women in couples are bi or bi curious. The male half will want to join in and fuck the new girl, he is not going to just want to watch and not enjoy the fun.
When we meet a single girl we will both play. We have veris from single girls we have played with, these we have met at clubs and parties or searched and contacted.
It always makes us laugh when you see a couple post a meet looking for a single girl. They post it, and post a status, then sit back and wait for the offers to roll in. These are always the ones who never actually have veris from single girls and you will later see them talking about single girls being elusive.
So once you have blocked the wrong people then go looking for a couple where the man is genuinely happy to just watch his wife do a lesbian act. It's a kind of cuckold after all.
Other than that try the clubs. If you were down here we would suggest coming to eureka or pleasures. It's easy to pair up with a girl while men just watch if that is your thing.
Speaking for ourselves we do it the other way round while Adam fucks a girl while Kate watches.
Horse for courses.
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x
Its a matter of refining your filters regards who can contact you then doing more proactive searching.
Most single girls on here will get flooded with requests and a lot of people never read then profile properly.
Most couples will want to meet a single girl as most women in couples are bi or bi curious. The male half will want to join in and fuck the new girl, he is not going to just want to watch and not enjoy the fun.
When we meet a single girl we will both play. We have veris from single girls we have played with, these we have met at clubs and parties or searched and contacted.
It always makes us laugh when you see a couple post a meet looking for a single girl. They post it, and post a status, then sit back and wait for the offers to roll in. These are always the ones who never actually have veris from single girls and you will later see them talking about single girls being elusive.
So once you have blocked the wrong people then go looking for a couple where the man is genuinely happy to just watch his wife do a lesbian act. It's a kind of cuckold after all.
Other than that try the clubs. If you were down here we would suggest coming to eureka or pleasures. It's easy to pair up with a girl while men just watch if that is your thing.
Speaking for ourselves we do it the other way round while Adam fucks a girl while Kate watches.
Horse for courses.
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Awesome advice thankyou very much x |
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"you're a sexy looking woman who will get tonnes of messages even if you had no text on your profile!
Best advice if you don't want the hassle is to up your filters and do the searching yourself.
On here no reply equals no thank you."
Oh that's why I get blanked so much |
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Op you're are incredibly hot so am not suprised the male halfs of a MF couple want to play also. Suggest putting filters up to just women.
If you're struggling that much I'm happy to put on a wig , some lippy, pull a mangina and pretend I'm a woman- I'm a nice guy like that |
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"Op you're are incredibly hot so am not suprised the male halfs of a MF couple want to play also. Suggest putting filters up to just women.
If you're struggling that much I'm happy to put on a wig , some lippy, pull a mangina and pretend I'm a woman- I'm a nice guy like that "
Haha you funny guy! |
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"Op you're are incredibly hot so am not suprised the male halfs of a MF couple want to play also. Suggest putting filters up to just women.
If you're struggling that much I'm happy to put on a wig , some lippy, pull a mangina and pretend I'm a woman- I'm a nice guy like that
Haha you funny guy! "
;) I'm guessing by the friend request you're happy to accept my kind gesture :p lol |
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"I understand that everyone is saying change your filters, but wouldn't that mean that most of the women that might want to play with me on their own wouldn't be able to contact me? There's not really that many single ladies profiles in comparison to couples profiles... Not everyone that has s couples profile has a singles too... X"
They are normally couples profiles for a good reason as they play as couples...im sure if you set yourself up a singles for women profile all those women in couples would see it and contact you if interested
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
I'm just down the road and don't have a fella attached to my hip... Just putting that out there! |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x
I'm just down the road and don't have a fella attached to my hip... Just putting that out there! "
I would definitely meet you |
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Male half here, I would watch you and not get involved. Obviously distance wouldn't be on our side but many trek out to Orlando for one reason or another so there's always hope! |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
Totally understand where you are coming from. Mel has a single profile too, and it quite clearly states much the same in hers, and even in our couples profile, but you will always get the ones that don't read your profile or even when they do,they chance their arm ! There is not much you can do really except possibly block those that haven't read the profile and contact you, at least they will not be able to message you again. |
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We understand exactly what you mean, Anne would love to find a woman to play with and I'm more than happy to just watch. We've not found anyone yet either, very rare I think. S x |
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Seems to me you have forgotten to take into account that a couple is two people and why they joined. They are just as much on here for their needs as well as yours. I am in no way saying you wont find someone but i do think your not taking in the reason a couple is on here. Might i surgest a compromise of a 3 some where the couple male half can only play with his partner and not with you. |
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over a year ago
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"I wonder if this thread would have been bumped if the OP wasn't beautiful?
She's now looking for single men
She has them blocked."
Might be doing the contacting herself. |
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I wonder if a male would get the same response...just imagine if a single male was to say im sick of the husbands or partners of the couple replying to me..i dont want the male half involved lol |
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We've given up looking. Waste of time looking for females to play with. No females seem to trust that we will respect all boundaries. So if female play was only thing on agenda we would respect that.
Just once in our swinging lifetime have we had a FFM and that was by accident after the male half of a couple bottled it and disappeared. The lady concerned said we had made a big effort to get there so it would be a shame to waste the opportunity.
It was soft swing play but boy oh boy was it hot and fun and I was happy to do anything or nothing. And at no time did I try it on or do anything that was disrespectful of the gift I had been given by 2 lovely ladies.
However all the ladies we chat to think that just because it is the male half doing the organising that we are time wasters or in it just for the male. That's a nonsense approach as I love Mrs N to bits and I know she loves her girly fun, but she's just a lot more shy about coming on here and doesn't like all the email tennis that goes on trying to get nice people to meet. |
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over a year ago
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
We had exactly the same problem, in the end my lady deleted her single account so as to stop wasting her time |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
It says clearley on your profile you are willing to play as a couple.
That means you are willing to play with the other couple's man.
We suggest you re-write your profile |
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over a year ago
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Even i had this and i'm a gay woman! Most couples chance their luck. Best thing i did was just block ones that do not bother to read your profile and move on and maybe alter profile txt to be a million per cent clear xx |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x
It says clearley on your profile you are willing to play as a couple.
That means you are willing to play with the other couple's man.
We suggest you re-write your profile"
The OP's profile says on the header looking for single male asap, but has all single males blocked with the filters? Very confusing so I agree rewrite the profile is definitely needed. |
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Just to point out the OP wrote this half a year ago.
There profile and preferences may have changed in that time.
We've done FF play with partners Watching or touching just their own partner.
It's simply about being clear with your boundaries.
Was not an issue for us. |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x
It says clearley on your profile you are willing to play as a couple.
That means you are willing to play with the other couple's man.
We suggest you re-write your profile
The OP's profile says on the header looking for single male asap, but has all single males blocked with the filters? Very confusing so I agree rewrite the profile is definitely needed. "
A rewrite isn't necessarily what's in order. Just because her header says that doesn't mean she's contradicting herself. She could of simply blocked singles guys from messaging because she isn't interested in just any single guy! She wants to do the running and message only those who she wants to talk too. Not have any old Tom, dick or harry messaging her. Good luck OP. I have had the same issue as you in the past now give up lol. I'd meet you for sure if we were closer. X |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
We have the opposite problem, we find it hard to find couples who will just play with me while my partner just watches |
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
Your profile doesn't clearly say that you won't play with the partner. I would simplify it to make it clear that you only want females or the female part of the couple with male watching only.
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"Ok here's the deal. Im in a relationship but I have a single profile on here because I wanted to find a girl to have fun with. My partner is fine with this whether it's with him there watching or not there at all. I keep getting messages off couples with them both wanting to play with me even though it clearly states on my profile that I only want to play with the females or the female half. The male half can watch but I don't want to play. Not that I think anything is wrong with it, me and my partner have done full swing in the past and I just found that no other guy can get me off apart from my partner so there's not really any point doing it. I'm struggling to find genuine bi sexual women to play with without having to play with her fella aswell. Anybody else have this?
Thankyou for all comments in advance x "
Sorry its late - I always have this on my single profile. I play with women on it without black cop - he does not come along, does not watch or anything like that - I don't want any other man involved when I meet alone, only women. Not sure why some women can't meet without their man - and suspect some single fems think I will bring him out of the woodwork - he is fine when I play alone ... |
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