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By *entkev OP Man
over a year ago
Dover |
As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.
Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.
I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol
This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.
So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire.   |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I'm definitely not looking for young hunks...
There will be people out there who are interested in you. Focus on them and not the ones that aren't.
FWIW the married part would put me off not the age. |
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"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.
Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.
I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol
This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.
So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "
Don't be ridiculous - you are far from being too old!! There are many women, like me, who much prefer an older man - someone who really does know what he's doing and not just talking the talk.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.
Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.
I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol
This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.
So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "
Well, as your own upper age limit is 54, I guess that you yourself feel that much over 50 is just too old.,.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.
Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.
I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol
This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.
So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "
You had a meet not that long ago, so it doesnt seem like you have a problem |
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God you think your passed it at 50yr.Im 64yrs old and find that a few ladies are still interested an meet up.Shame there are a few women who think its great to take the piss,but hey I don't care,I have lots of lady friends of all ages here who are true,So don't give up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God you think your passed it at 50yr.Im 64yrs old and find that a few ladies are still interested an meet up.Shame there are a few women who think its great to take the piss,but hey I don't care,I have lots of lady friends of all ages here who are true,So don't give up."
Good for you and looking amazing granddad for 64 keep the fire burning. x |
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What nonsense..too old at 50...
As for rejection.everyone has to deal with that,its a huge part of sites such as this..dont take it too personal and move on
Thank goodness people want different things.some people reject around age/size/marital status etc..have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i am 43 and deffo do not meet younger men as my thing is for the more mature gent, up to 65 is ok as some older men are super fit and handsome with the grey hair look going on.....yummy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"me and hubby are 53 and 58.we get very little attention.guess we are fugly then.lol"
You will only meet in your home town that's why little attention I suspect. I think you got a cracking bod. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the occasional thought about am I to old, usually when I'm thinking if I could join a club like Chams or Xtasia, that's what's put me of trying yet. But when I look round I think I'm in better shape than some of the younger guys so perhaps it's all in my head.
At 50 or whatever age, if your healthy then your never to old if you enjoy it. |
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"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.
Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.
I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol
This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.
So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire. "
So hold on a minute: YOU have an upper limit of 54, yet are bemoaning the fact others have age limits too?!!
A married man with a sense of entitlement...quelle surprise! |
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"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.
Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.
I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol
This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.
So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire.
Well, as your own upper age limit is 54, I guess that you yourself feel that much over 50 is just too old.,.....
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Ironic huh?!! |
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"As a male on fabs I wonder if I'm now to old.
Although I still feel like a 25 y.o and I believe I'm a decent guy I truly think that there's to much competition.
I see time after time restrictions and posts as the target audience for women and couples are young hunks. I can't compete with this and more often then not I'm blocked an unable to compete anyway. Lol
This isn't posted out of sour grapes as I love this site and use it to keep in touch with my club friends. But I think I'm better off sticking to just that rather then face rejection.
So unlike life where 50 is the new 40 here it feels like 50 is the new 65...retire.
So hold on a minute: YOU have an upper limit of 54, yet are bemoaning the fact others have age limits too?!!
A married man with a sense of entitlement...quelle surprise! "
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
Have to say - the OP and the other guy over 50 saying age is a problem have very sparse, short profiles that don't give women any insight into the person at all.
I think that's a big part of the problem. Easy to hit on age as an issue, but you've got to put some effort in guys.
I'm not that much younger really - I think there's ways to capitalise on the fact you're 50+ but, to be honest, I'm sure you're old enough and wise enough to figure them out |
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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago
denton |
people differ with age,ive seen many heavy drinkers smokers who age before their time, madonna has kept herself in good shape, people can be like cars some keep better than others its how they looked after |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"i agree. it does seem like when you are 50, on here, you are deemed as "past it"
Far from it...just getting into my stride on the site! "
I have similar concerns about turning 60 2 weeks ago. However I don't look my age, we have lots of swinging friends and people don't ask your age in clubs. I don't expect to be getting together with people in their twenties but the swinging world is full of very sexy middle-aged couples and we love it.
Would love to be 50 again (would have started back at the gym sooner) but am making the most of what I have now.
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By *entkev OP Man
over a year ago
Dover |
I'll take all the positive and helpful replies with a huge thank you to you all for your efforts & wisdom.
Obviously I'll disregard the comments looking for a reaction.
You have all restored my faith in fabs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 51 and having a great time, don't think age is an issue, more to do with the ratio of men to women. Do yourself a favour, don't take it too seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm over 50, meeting but not off here, and having great sex, best I ever had. So over 50 isn't too old, although I'd have to agree with the OP it does seem that way here |
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We met when we were both over 50 and started swinging soon after. Now many years later it is very much a regular part of our lives - we have regular friends but still need and enjoy those new encounters. In fact we are having as much fun sex as we did when we were promiscuous teens and twenties. You are too old when it's no longer enjoyable or you can't do it and neither of us are anywhere near that stage! |
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