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Is there anything wrong with our profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just wanted your opinions on our profile. We have recently updated our profile text and since then everyone has stopped messaging us! Don't know what's wrong with it haha! So would like people's advice on how we could make it more appealing please. Thanks  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
The pics will either be to others tastes or not.
Some might consider them all too tit/cock/clunge/spunk focussed.
Other may like that sort of thing.
You've had meets in the time you've been here so it obviously works for some.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The pics will either be to others tastes or not.
Some might consider them all too tit/cock/clunge/spunk focussed.
Other may like that sort of thing.
You've had meets in the time you've been here so it obviously works for some.
A"
Any suggestions for new ones? x |
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You could try some 'suggestive' poses where you keep the viewer guessing as to what else you have to offer 
I'd keep the 'naughty' pics for friends only (As they probably will have already seen them!)
I've worn my finger out many a time fabbing 'suggestive' pics!
V x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"The pics will either be to others tastes or not.
Some might consider them all too tit/cock/clunge/spunk focussed.
Other may like that sort of thing.
You've had meets in the time you've been here so it obviously works for some.
A
Any suggestions for new ones? x"
Yep.
Go with what you best portrays you and what you want to get from the site.
And choose those you feel will attract interest from your 'target audience'.
But mostly? Just post what makes you happy rather than try to come up with something to please others. As you'll never please everyone.
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"Hi just wanted your opinions on our profile. We have recently updated our profile text and since then everyone has stopped messaging us! Don't know what's wrong with it haha! So would like people's advice on how we could make it more appealing please. Thanks "
You have text on your profile? I was to caught up looking at your pics |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To many rules you should lose the no kissing rule and the soft swing puts lots of people of and men like to kiss when having sex
the only rule you need is Safe Sex "
mp
Nope we're not losing any of our rules because the whole point of doing this as a couple is having rules and boundaries so we are both comfortable with what we're doing x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"To many rules you should lose the no kissing rule and the soft swing puts lots of people of and men like to kiss when having sex
the only rule you need is Safe Sex "
If they have boundaries of no kissing / soft play it doesn't matter if men like kissing, it is their boundaries.
We don't really have any boundaries but if we did we wouldn't change them just because someone wants something different.  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"To many rules you should lose the no kissing rule and the soft swing puts lots of people of and men like to kiss when having sex
the only rule you need is Safe Sex mp
Nope we're not losing any of our rules because the whole point of doing this as a couple is having rules and boundaries so we are both comfortable with what we're doing x"
Ofcourse, you should not bend your rules for anyone
But you did ask why you were getting less [or no] messages. This could be one reason |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys it was a lot shorter before because when we set up the profile we didn't really have time to go in to detail. Even though we know some rules put people off I would much rather be honest and have them on there than people waste their time messaging us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys it was a lot shorter before because when we set up the profile we didn't really have time to go in to detail. Even though we know some rules put people off I would much rather be honest and have them on there than people waste their time messaging us xx"
I think you have answered your own question right there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with your profile at all.A good range of pics maybe a few more of the male it might be just us but the put red in the headline message seems pointless to us but it's your profile. you seem to be doing Ok on here and with a updated profile we sure you will have loads more fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look at me, Look at me, Look at me ..
No we were genuinely asking for a yew pointers because we're new to this "
ignore him he may be having a bad day or year lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having not seen your previous profile it's hard to say if it's the new one that's slowed things up .
But we wouldn't be at all interested because of the no kissing rule , and the whole guys watching the girls play thing .
And as a previous poster said , the new profile seems to be doing the job you wanted it to do - filtering out those who aren't suited to you , so that's gotta be a good thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You seem to only take messages from site supporters and have quite a narrow age range in our opinion. "
Yeh were going to change the site supporter thing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To many rules you should lose the no kissing rule and the soft swing puts lots of people of and men like to kiss when having sex
the only rule you need is Safe Sex mp
Nope we're not losing any of our rules because the whole point of doing this as a couple is having rules and boundaries so we are both comfortable with what we're doing x"
Absolutely stand by your boundaries, but of course these do limit prospects. All good, but I wonder whether your narrow age range (curiously different for men and women) will shrink further a small field of possibilities. Oh and maybe fewer messages is no bad thing, if they meet your criteria. Good luck OP!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I doubt it will appeal to many of the unicorns of fab but im sure you will still find some fun."
Unicorns? Lol. I'm sure we will have loads of fun. Like people have said at least the people that will message us will hopefully right for us and in time when we're abit more into it we will hopefully relax the rules x |
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"I doubt it will appeal to many of the unicorns of fab but im sure you will still find some fun.
Unicorns? Lol. I'm sure we will have loads of fun. Like people have said at least the people that will message us will hopefully right for us and in time when we're abit more into it we will hopefully relax the rules x"
A 'Unicorn' in swinging terms is a single bi female. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I doubt it will appeal to many of the unicorns of fab but im sure you will still find some fun.
Unicorns? Lol. I'm sure we will have loads of fun. Like people have said at least the people that will message us will hopefully right for us and in time when we're abit more into it we will hopefully relax the rules x
A 'Unicorn' in swinging terms is a single bi female. "
Ah right,thanks x |
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Its the guys watching then playing with your own partner bit that would stop me amd Kim contacting you really as it wouldn't be like swinging to us, rather than put girly pics up you have lots of spunky facials which is like saying i'm into this guys but you are not getting any lol.
If you are aiming for just female fun correct the pics to imply that, there are too many donts but you might get lucky, |
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I think your profile reads well, you have said what you want and what your boundaries are, always good to have your rules in place.
But, I or we on our cpls profile, wouldn't mail you simply because you are a soft swap couple and I have never liked putting on a girl/girl show for the fellas.
But stick with it and message people who interest you |
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Your profile is fine and will appeal to the right people.
Everyone is different in thier personal tastes etc so we could only say what we would dislike about your profile to be honest..
1. Your smokers
2. The girls only kissing
3. Girl on girl show
But thats just our dislikes, so we would read your profile and take that into account.
But there are a lot out there who would have no issues with any of that and love your profile
Someone above said have nore Do's and not just the Don'ts ....have to say that is a very good point for any profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just wanted your opinions on our profile. We have recently updated our profile text and since then everyone has stopped messaging us! Don't know what's wrong with it haha! So would like people's advice on how we could make it more appealing please. Thanks "
I see nothing wrong with your profile at all its detailed and descibes exactly what you are looking for. And thats great and love the pics to. |
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here s whats wrong:
Women need to be curvy-nothing better than big boobs and sexy ass!
Only 2 rules!:
•no bi or married men
•no kissing (except for us girlies)
Also we will not meet separately!
We don't live together and both have children so we cant meet up straight away. Good stuff takes planning!
many would say the same; I just dared post it Sorry if offended Not meant to offend but to show what I think might be the issue Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"here s whats wrong:
Women need to be curvy-nothing better than big boobs and sexy ass!
Only 2 rules!:
•no bi or married men
•no kissing (except for us girlies)
Also we will not meet separately!
We don't live together and both have children so we cant meet up straight away. Good stuff takes planning!
many would say the same; I just dared post it Sorry if offended Not meant to offend but to show what I think might be the issue Good luck "
I actually don't see what's wrong with any of that. At least it's honest and were not pretending we like like stuff we don't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just wanted your opinions on our profile. We have recently updated our profile text and since then everyone has stopped messaging us! Don't know what's wrong with it haha! So would like people's advice on how we could make it more appealing please. Thanks "
Rub some bacon on it. |
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