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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you do when your ex posts your real name & address on her for spite  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kick him in the bollocks , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Report it to admin |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol, good idea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have done & his 2 other fake profiles he has spying on me but they are still on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block and report |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reveal their real name too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of interest how do you know each time he makes a new profile? |
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"What do you do when your ex posts your real name & address on her for spite "
Threaten him or her with the police. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Involve the police, I'm sure a word in his ear from them will be enough to stop him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cause I can tell his style & he posted my details on a females post - he does certain things with his text writing.
Is it right to fight fire with fire or rise above it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I used to work along side police, I have no grounds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Report to admin and the police. Site admin will help police with their enquiries. |
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"Cause I can tell his style & he posted my details on a females post - he does certain things with his text writing.
Is it right to fight fire with fire or rise above it? "
No it isn't right to fight fire with fire you only end up with a massive fire. If he's posting your name and address on a site like this he's potentially endangering you, tell the police. |
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"I used to work along side police, I have no grounds "
No grounds to report him? Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Phone the police, report to admin and probably change my profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Because it's not a criminal offence to write a persons details on the same sex site your both on ... I think unless any bobbies on here no different.
I know there is the new porn revenge law & harassment but he will only get served a warning under the harassment act - I don't think there is more I can do other than report him & block him, on here which I have done but he is still on here x |
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By *enna76Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
I've had a stalker years ago who did similar things.
At the end helped only to retreat from everything what he knew I was there.
Forums, chat rooms.... He found me whenever I tried a new profile and started again to tell private things about me. Police didn't help. They spoke with him but he was just laughing at them and he was right. The law isn't so clear. He had nothing to be afraid of....
I can't give you any good advice.
If you want to be absolute sure that he will leave you alone you'll have to leave here. At least for a few weeks/months until he found something else to play with.
Sorry... Know how you feel
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have changed my profile name, my profile text ...I just hope he does not find me again before they get rid of him x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's what I have thought about doing, I have only just come back on after a few months off ... Freezing arse |
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"Because it's not a criminal offence to write a persons details on the same sex site your both on ... I think unless any bobbies on here no different.
I know there is the new porn revenge law & harassment but he will only get served a warning under the harassment act - I don't think there is more I can do other than report him & block him, on here which I have done but he is still on here x "
You don't think being served a warning will make him stop?
You could start a new profile with a different location and username. |
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Cyber bullying Is an issue though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Freeking arse even lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my profile name, my profile text ...I just hope he does not find me again before they get rid of him x "
lets hope he doesn't read this thread then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hmm you may have a point there thanks x I shall look in to that x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol, no he doesn't go on threads x wouldn't know how to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to work along side police, I have no grounds
No grounds to report him? Why?"
He's giving out your address putting you at risk of potential rape, so yes you have grounds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Report to admin and the police. Site admin will help police with their enquiries. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my profile name, my profile text ...I just hope he does not find me again before they get rid of him x "
You've changed your profile around but you have just posted all about it on the forums. Who's to say he won't read this.
I agree with the posters above. It probably would be best if you took some time out. He's doing it to see you suffer so don't give him the chance x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's what my friend said & he has put me in danger too |
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"Lol, no he doesn't go on threads x wouldn't know how to "
Hmmm, could your assumptions that he doesn't know how to do things be making it easy for him to find you? I'm not saying it's your fault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it's not a criminal offence to write a persons details on the same sex site your both on ... I think unless any bobbies on here no different.
I know there is the new porn revenge law & harassment but he will only get served a warning under the harassment act - I don't think there is more I can do other than report him & block him, on here which I have done but he is still on here x "
It;s harrassment. The police will be interested |
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"That's what my friend said & he has put me in danger too "
If you use reply quote it's easier to follow who you're replying to. |
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By *enna76Couple
over a year ago
Cork |
"I used to work along side police, I have no grounds
No grounds to report him? Why?
He's giving out your address putting you at risk of potential rape, so yes you have grounds"
My stalker was threatening me he will kill me. I've had it in an email. Police did nothing.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I hear what your saying but he only found me as I displayed my verification off a friend which was naive of me but I didn't think tbh |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Report the posts or PMs or chat room conversation where that has happened and Admin will review the reports.
Its always better to refer these things to Admin rathe than discuss them in the forums |
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