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Identifying bi Male in couples at a club
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband is straight and certainly wouldn't be offended by a question like that. But if you are looking to figure it out I think guys that are looking at guys (particularly the crotch area) may have a little something going on. But the question is not offensive - I think just asking is easiest - you could even address them both "So are you lovely people straight, bi, somewhere in between . . . . ?"
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By *r_BigHead OP Man
over a year ago
The Naughty Step (aka Northampton) |
"My husband is straight and certainly wouldn't be offended by a question like that. But if you are looking to figure it out I think guys that are looking at guys (particularly the crotch area) may have a little something going on. But the question is not offensive - I think just asking is easiest - you could even address them both "So are you lovely people straight, bi, somewhere in between . . . . ?"
I might have to steal that line if you don't mind
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I work from the philosophy that there is nothing offensive about being bi - so the question itself is not offensive. Now if you asked them if they are necrophiliacs or something . . . 
PS Yeah feel free to steal that line - it's good because it's generic and not directed at one or the other |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
"My husband is straight and certainly wouldn't be offended by a question like that. But if you are looking to figure it out I think guys that are looking at guys (particularly the crotch area) may have a little something going on. But the question is not offensive - I think just asking is easiest - you could even address them both "So are you lovely people straight, bi, somewhere in between . . . . ?"
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This is good advice. We went to a play area with a couple we didn't know who were only visiting our area. They never asked the above question. We did a straight swap. Afterwards both me and the lady left the room and the bloke confided in my OH that he was bi and fancied me. Unfortunately for him - and perhaps for me - I am straight.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
If it's a dry club? Look for well dressed, well groomed guys in pastel colours drinking cocktails with umbrellas in them, whistling along with any camp tunes the DJ might play.
If it's a wet club? Check for 'towel tepees' whenever a naked, hung single guy walks by them!
*or just ask them.
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