Not sure if this is correct place to post but would really appreciate some advice of experienced people on how to get started on here, I recently thought I could try visiting a club or party sometime but wouldn't really wanna go first time on my own Im thinking plus I am quite shy haha... any feedback be appreciated thanks |
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"You've already started and the lovely lady you met said you weren't shy! Do the same as what you were doing when you arranged that meet. "
That was about the only women Iv ever spoken to on here everyone I message seems to never respond so just looking for tips on better ways to chat with them |
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"You've already started and the lovely lady you met said you weren't shy! Do the same as what you were doing when you arranged that meet.
That was about the only women Iv ever spoken to on here everyone I message seems to never respond so just looking for tips on better ways to chat with them "
Be original and use pictures. Women on here get about 20-100 messages a day off folk like you and me. Cock pic and hey just will not cut it. If you have had a meet just revisit the steps you took there as a platform to work from |
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The really successful guys get out in the real world and mingle.
How about looking for another fella on here in the same situation as you and going to a club together?
Might help having a wingman?
On here it's just to easy to be lost in the Avalanche. Swingfields, Vanilla alternatives (particularly their festival of fun in July), Tease, Extasia, all great places to start.
Post in the club bit of the forum you are going and look for other newbies. Look for newbie nights to go to.
Here it will take a lot of messages and A LOT of work. |
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"Ask your last meet to go to a club or party with you
Great idea! Missed that one lol
haha  "
Thanks a very wise idea but unluckily for me she doesn't do swinging anymore she isn't on the site nomore |
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"The really successful guys get out in the real world and mingle.
How about looking for another fella on here in the same situation as you and going to a club together?
Might help having a wingman?
On here it's just to easy to be lost in the Avalanche. Swingfields, Vanilla alternatives (particularly their festival of fun in July), Tease, Extasia, all great places to start.
Post in the club bit of the forum you are going and look for other newbies. Look for newbie nights to go to.
Here it will take a lot of messages and A LOT of work. "
A very wise idea I will have a look into it thank you very much for commenting for me with ideas all appreciated |
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"You've already started and the lovely lady you met said you weren't shy! Do the same as what you were doing when you arranged that meet.
That was about the only women Iv ever spoken to on here everyone I message seems to never respond so just looking for tips on better ways to chat with them
Be original and use pictures. Women on here get about 20-100 messages a day off folk like you and me. Cock pic and hey just will not cut it. If you have had a meet just revisit the steps you took there as a platform to work from "
I know I do always try haha have a read of profiles etc share similar interests and stuff but no lucky I think Il try clubs sometime Im free |
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"Ask your last meet to go to a club or party with you
Great idea! Missed that one lol
haha
Thanks a very wise idea but unluckily for me she doesn't do swinging anymore she isn't on the site nomore "
She is still on the site, she's just hidden her profile |
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"Ask your last meet to go to a club or party with you
Great idea! Missed that one lol
haha
Thanks a very wise idea but unluckily for me she doesn't do swinging anymore she isn't on the site nomore
She is still on the site, she's just hidden her profile "
I still text her now and again we keep in touch but she doesn't just want fun nomore haha |
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