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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm. "
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly   |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
Blimey you are a little stroppy aren't you? Must do this, mustn't do that, I won't do this, I want that, do this, respect me etc etc....the profile starts well but descends into stroppy demands.....chill a bit, use a bit of humour, you come over as having a bit of an attitude and to be honest ladies on here can't generally be arsed with all that and will probably move to the next profile |
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"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm. "
. Why ask people not to send pictures and make reference to blocking people . ?. It might be better to remove these negative features and concentrate on your hobbies and interests .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's some good advice. Don't ask the forum for profile advice! It'll only confuse you lol
It's also like pouring soapy water on the lawn, all the worms come wriggling to the surface! Then the battle for the wittiest response will usually commence only watered down slightly by the few positive responses by people who genuinely want to help without scoring points!
Good luck to you and anyone else who asks the forum for profile advice 
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm.
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly "
I will doing worry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally think unrealistic to not exchange pictures particularly face pictures, fully understand verifying by webcam in chat room but don't understand what you mean by fully verifying you are real by skype, surely a webcam chat in chat room is enough to suffice any one is real enough. |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Personally think unrealistic to not exchange pictures particularly face pictures, fully understand verifying by webcam in chat room but don't understand what you mean by fully verifying you are real by skype, surely a webcam chat in chat room is enough to suffice any one is real enough."
No face pocs only fake profiles and pic collectors want pics sent through not making that mistake again. I also don't want anything to comeback to haunt me. Skype is more difficult to play already recoded video over the webcam unlike here. |
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It reads quite aggressively, even if a woman was interested it would put her off immediately, you can make your needs clear without being aggressive, explain why your into what you are possibly in a more sensual way and make it interesting, don't forget we have an enormous choice on here and you could end up on the delete pile before you even get a chance to say hello and your probably an ok guy but that's not what comes across |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'And when the time comes I will require you to talk on Skype' Next!!! Too many demands tho if this reflects you just leave it as it is. It makes me laugh when people ask total strangers about their profile. We don't know you. YOU know you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally think unrealistic to not exchange pictures particularly face pictures, fully understand verifying by webcam in chat room but don't understand what you mean by fully verifying you are real by skype, surely a webcam chat in chat room is enough to suffice any one is real enough.
No face pocs only fake profiles and pic collectors want pics sent through not making that mistake again. I also don't want anything to comeback to haunt me. Skype is more difficult to play already recoded video over the webcam unlike here."
I don't collect face pictures and I'm not as fake, neither are thousands of others in here.
As for skype, that's bull, it's as easy to play pre recorded on their, however if having audio and can conversation, with someone on the chat rooms, you can see lips moving etc, and can even ask them to give you a wave which proves not pre recorded.
I think you talking load twaddle to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally think unrealistic to not exchange pictures particularly face pictures, fully understand verifying by webcam in chat room but don't understand what you mean by fully verifying you are real by skype, surely a webcam chat in chat room is enough to suffice any one is real enough.
No face pocs only fake profiles and pic collectors want pics sent through not making that mistake again. I also don't want anything to comeback to haunt me. Skype is more difficult to play already recoded video over the webcam unlike here."
I don't collect face photos. If someone hasnt got one on here for whatever bullshit reason, I move on
As for skype I use the chat room on here and never had an issue |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"'And when the time comes I will require you to talk on Skype' Next!!! Too many demands tho if this reflects you just leave it as it is. It makes me laugh when people ask total strangers about their profile. We don't know you. YOU know you! "
well that's the point the people who are mire likely to view my profile are people who i don't know. |
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"'And when the time comes I will require you to talk on Skype' Next!!! Too many demands tho if this reflects you just leave it as it is. It makes me laugh when people ask total strangers about their profile. We don't know you. YOU know you!
well that's the point the people who are mire likely to view my profile are people who i don't know."
Well the point that was being made is that we don't know you so cannot advise as to the accuracy of your profile, only on its tone, which is pretty demanding.
Why not take a look at other guys' profiles to get some clue as to how to come over a little more personably and without seeming to be dictating rules. |
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"Personally think unrealistic to not exchange pictures particularly face pictures, fully understand verifying by webcam in chat room but don't understand what you mean by fully verifying you are real by skype, surely a webcam chat in chat room is enough to suffice any one is real enough.
No face pocs only fake profiles and pic collectors want pics sent through not making that mistake again. I also don't want anything to comeback to haunt me. Skype is more difficult to play already recoded video over the webcam unlike here."
I find the opposite to be true, those unwilling to show a face pic I avoid as my experience has taught me a meet won't happen.
A non sexual face pic can be found for most people on the Internet so hardly going to come and bite you
I personally don't like how your profile reads, for many of the reasons already stated, my advice would be to have a good read of the profiles on here, use them as examples of what you like and change yours to suit you
Profiles are a window for others to glimpse you, if they want to know more they can come in and find out, or carry on past |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"a non sexual face pic can be found for most people on the Internet so hardly going to come and bite you "
The thing i do outside of fab i am really good at and i want to make a carrier so long as i am fast enough. As apart of this i cannot be seen to be on sites like this or into swinging at all. One screenshot or a unexpected facepic or mugshot at the wrong time scares me slot and i do not want to ruin any future i have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So in summary:
.an easier read profile
.state hobbies and interests
. state needs and dislikes in a nonnegative non-agresive style."
It's not a Dating Site  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"So in summary:
.an easier read profile
.state hobbies and interests
. state needs and dislikes in a nonnegative non-agresive style.
It's not a Dating Site "
See... I hate that saying because actually it is whatever type of site you want it to be to get to wherever you want to....
I like to get to know people a fair bit before I go any further... Just like you have all your demands...
It doesn't make the way I go about my swinging any less valid than the way you go about yours...... |
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"a non sexual face pic can be found for most people on the Internet so hardly going to come and bite you
The thing i do outside of fab i am really good at and i want to make a carrier so long as i am fast enough. As apart of this i cannot be seen to be on sites like this or into swinging at all. One screenshot or a unexpected facepic or mugshot at the wrong time scares me slot and i do not want to ruin any future i have."
Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if you have any other presence online, Facebook etc, then anyone can get hold of a face pic of you and can misuse it if they so wish
I know someone that has never been on here but his Facebook pic was stolen and used to set up a profile on here....
Many of us on here have to use discretion due to the jobs we have, as we live in a world where many companies will use the 'bringing the business into disrupt ' clause
The key is discretion, not sending your mug shot to every dicks, Harry or tom that joins...
Ultimately though, you find a way to use the site that works for you. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm.
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly "
But your photos are beautiful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm.
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly
But your photos are beautiful "
Looks like without my photos I would be screwed Take a hint OP |
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm.
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly
But your photos are beautiful
Looks like without my photos I would be screwed Take a hint OP "
Hint taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm.
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly
But your photos are beautiful
Looks like without my photos I would be screwed Take a hint OP
Hint taken"
But, like so many others asking for advice and receiving many helpful responses, you have not changed anything. Good luck to you. |
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"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm.
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly "
I think it's a fairly reasonable profile lol!
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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Is there anyway or advice someone could tell on how I can make my profile seem a lot friendlier than it is atm.
When you get an answer to that question let me know. Apparently my profile is supper UNfriendly
But your photos are beautiful
Looks like without my photos I would be screwed Take a hint OP
Hint taken
But, like so many others asking for advice and receiving many helpful responses, you have not changed anything. Good luck to you."
going to do it sometime over the weekend when I am less busy. |
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