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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? |
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
Ask your GP for help?
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
. As you are a Doctor , do you not have ready access to all the material you need to research this issue?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn her over...?
I find that sometimes my pussy just can't quite stretch to the really big ones, but with a little easing I can take them up my bum, and that drives me crazy!!!!
Or is it just me...?
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
I just swap for a slimer one
Cheese grater or coarse sand paper? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the second thread this week where guys are struggling to get it in, it must be such a burden having a big cock, I'll stick with Mr Average, perfect for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make sure she's horny by using lots of foreplay before trying to put it in
Use lots of waterbased lube and keep on taking it out and reapplying.
use positions which open her legs wide
Try to make sure she relaxes as much as possible, of she's nervous she'll tighten up
Hope this helps (ive been in the same scenario too) |
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
Use a bit of extra lube. I know you think she doesn't need it but sometimes it really helps, put it on your cock and her and take it slowly at first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First World problems...
Why? Guys in the third world don't suffer from 'cock-obesity'?"
This guy clearly means it's an issue here but pretty sure in 3rd world they don't bring it as a major issue given their issues are more likely to do with the basic needs for survival |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"First World problems...
Why? Guys in the third world don't suffer from 'cock-obesity'?
This guy clearly means it's an issue here but pretty sure in 3rd world they don't bring it as a major issue given their issues are more likely to do with the basic needs for survival "
My apologies; I didn't realise that is what he meant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
Raise her legs and spread them....i hope that helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? . As you are a Doctor , do you not have ready access to all the material you need to research this issue?. "
My doctor friend is always asking me sexually related questions,by his own admission he's a lazy sod,but he wants my experienced knowledge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
Just one,
Do you perform keyhole surgery with your tiny fingers ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First World problems...
Why? Guys in the third world don't suffer from 'cock-obesity'?
This guy clearly means it's an issue here but pretty sure in 3rd world they don't bring it as a major issue given their issues are more likely to do with the basic needs for survival
My apologies; I didn't realise that is what he meant "
No offence taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas?
I just swap for a slimer one
Cheese grater or coarse sand paper?"
Very funny  Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a 'doctor' I'm sure you know your lovers body will get used to the cock it receives.
If you have a thick or a slimmer one they will get used to opening to accommodate you.
Length can be more of a problem. Her cervix won't retreat further into her if you hit that.
My wife struggled a bit with me initially but she can now take me with ease, I just have to ensure I don't go too deep. Certain positions I have to be very careful.
Nice 'look at me, I think I have a big cock' thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A cervix will move out of the way to accommodate a longer appendage. If your partner,like me,doesn't have very stretchy skin then girth can be a problem. Believe me I know, I have struggled with a couple of men who were thick. Lube helps a bit but,as with anal sex,you can stretch her slowly before penetration,with fingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
I have a few ideas, the main one being that if you are a Doctor:
A. You must have missed female anatomy at medical school.
B. You must also have missed the bit about referring to medical journals or other reputable sources of information.
C. You are a Time Lord.
D. You hold an Honorary Doctorate.
E. This is a cunning look at me thread.
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I'm guessing the 8 inches of girth is actually the full circumference and not just the width!
If it isn't then good luck finding any woman that can take it, sounds more like a baby's head going back in than pleasure  |
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas?
I have a few ideas, the main one being that if you are a Doctor:
A. You must have missed female anatomy at medical school.
B. You must also have missed the bit about referring to medical journals or other reputable sources of information.
C. You are a Time Lord.
D. You hold an Honorary Doctorate.
E. This is a cunning look at me thread.
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Hmmm! Tricky choice...
Actually not that tricky...and not that cunning! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fb is girthier than I'm used to but he slides it in slowly and its not a problem. I do get very wet so that helps too, maybe she needs more foreplay before penetration. Good luck |
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"Thanks for all the replies - pretty much the responses I expected, but there you go...
Nice to provoke a little conversation of nothing else!"
Do you didn't find those of us who gave positive advice helpful at all? |
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"Thanks for all the replies - pretty much the responses I expected, but there you go...
Nice to provoke a little conversation of nothing else!
And a fitness to practise tribunal?"
Why on earth would that happen? |
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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the replies - pretty much the responses I expected, but there you go...
Nice to provoke a little conversation of nothing else!
And a fitness to practise tribunal?
Why on earth would that happen?"
GMC 'good medical practice' guidance
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"Thanks for all the replies - pretty much the responses I expected, but there you go...
Nice to provoke a little conversation of nothing else!
And a fitness to practise tribunal?
Why on earth would that happen?
GMC 'good medical practice' guidance
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He hasn't claimed to be a gynaecologist or a gp as far as I know.
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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the replies - pretty much the responses I expected, but there you go...
Nice to provoke a little conversation of nothing else!
And a fitness to practise tribunal?
Why on earth would that happen?
GMC 'good medical practice' guidance
He hasn't claimed to be a gynaecologist or a gp as far as I know.
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I was diverging somewhat, referring to the profile, not the thread.
I recognise the ambiguity of it but my understanding was that you mustn't bring the profession into disrepute lest it underline the public trust. Using your profession as a bargaining chip on an adult site could be construed as such.
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"Thanks for all the replies - pretty much the responses I expected, but there you go...
Nice to provoke a little conversation of nothing else!
And a fitness to practise tribunal?
Why on earth would that happen?
GMC 'good medical practice' guidance
He hasn't claimed to be a gynaecologist or a gp as far as I know.
I was diverging somewhat, referring to the profile, not the thread.
I recognise the ambiguity of it but my understanding was that you mustn't bring the profession into disrepute lest it underline the public trust. Using your profession as a bargaining chip on an adult site could be construed as such.
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Understood. I see your point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty certain he alludes to being a cosmetic surgeon in his pof profile. Personally I've always found that as long as I'm turned on (with no hindering medication) that there's no cock too thick. However I can't stretch beyond 3 fingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do wonder why somebody who claims to have such a big cock is about the only profile on here with no cock photos....?
Or am I just being too flippant...?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do wonder why somebody who claims to have such a big cock is about the only profile on here with no cock photos....?
Or am I just being too flippant...?
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This! Or maybe this thread just belongs in the Stories and Fantasies section....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I used to have a cock pic, but read that may negative comments regarding them I've kept it private.
I'm pretty certain I've broken no gmc guidance, and would certainly not use my profession as a "bargaining chip". There are plenty of people who use their job in their profile
I don't have a pof profile, so I'm not sure what you mean by that kgirl, sorry. I'm not a cosmetic surgeon.
I should have acknowledged the helpful pieces of advice, and I'll certainly bear them in mind. Thank you all.
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"I used to have a cock pic, but read that may negative comments regarding them I've kept it private.
I'm pretty certain I've broken no gmc guidance, and would certainly not use my profession as a "bargaining chip". There are plenty of people who use their job in their profile
I don't have a pof profile, so I'm not sure what you mean by that kgirl, sorry. I'm not a cosmetic surgeon.
I should have acknowledged the helpful pieces of advice, and I'll certainly bear them in mind. Thank you all.
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Hope some of it helped.
Now! About my crow's feet ......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it will stretch, there's no doubt about that as we are designed for childbirth. However, maybe having given it a go a few times and experienced pain, maybe now it's more of a mental block for her? I'd say take the pressure out of the situation for you both and agree that you are absolutely not going to have full penetration. Tease the outer vagina with your cock and get her to tease you back. After a few sessions like this, you may find "accidentally" slips it in and then you're away! MUST be her that takes it to the next level though, not you, even if you are convinced it will fit. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really saddens me to see a 35 year old man who, presumably, has had a large cock all his adult life, doesn't know how to use it and satisfy a woman. Practice make perfect op, plod along you might learn something one day soon. |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
Get a life |
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It is a problem if you do not size-match. It strains a relationship, for sure.
It can be good to stretch a cunt - female can have a feeling she is finding her potential as a woman when she can easily take cock and drain whichever man she wants to.
Others would say "keep what's desirable - who wants a slack fanny when you have a nice tight one?!"
There's decisions to be made...?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are putting money on.... He's a married cheat with kids and one or more were born by c section, he has no qualifications as being a doctor and is just using the pic, that's what cap'in did on Facebook as a joke, used Dr %@(&))( as his name but got soo much unwanted attention had to change it, but yeah, shame on you Mr pretend doctor man, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm pretty certain he alludes to being a cosmetic surgeon in his pof profile. Personally I've always found that as long as I'm turned on (with no hindering medication) that there's no cock too thick. However I can't stretch beyond 3 fingers. "
would love to try sometime kgirl lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Turn her over...?
I find that sometimes my pussy just can't quite stretch to the really big ones, but with a little easing I can take them up my bum, and that drives me crazy!!!!
Or is it just me...?
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This one's a keeper |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have same thing with my mrs love pushing it in her making her scream especialy when she is asleep she sayes she can only just bear the thickness the noise she makes is amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have same thing with my mrs love pushing it in her making her scream especialy when she is asleep she sayes she can only just bear the thickness the noise she makes is amazing"
This made me snort my coffee lol!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas? "
Umm thick prick! |
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"I've been having trouble with my fwb - essentially she's really struggling to take my cock in her pussy! It uncomfortable, because it's too thick for her. Lots of foreplay, she's really wet, she seems to stretch ok with fingering, but when it comes to my cock it's ouch!
Any ideas?
Ask your GP for help?
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Yes something like that !! How very silly ..give her an episiotomy that should help |
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