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Does our profile work?

By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

Hi everyone,

We've been on the site for a short while and just sort of put what we thought we should on our profile. Would any of the more experienced people do us a favour and give us some feedback please?

We're looking for FFM threesomes only, so feedback from single women about what attracts you to a couple's profile would also be really welcome.

Thanks in advance

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By *issy louWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

All ladies looking for a couple will definitely want to see pics of Mr too. As nice as Mrs may be, if meeting a couple it's important to see both

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"All ladies looking for a couple will definitely want to see pics of Mr too. As nice as Mrs may be, if meeting a couple it's important to see both

Agreed. In fact I'd probably be more interested in seeing the man.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

Yes definitely need pics of the male half too. Aside from that your profile reads fine apart from the pointless legal warning bit you might as well take that out xx good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All ladies looking for a couple will definitely want to see pics of Mr too. As nice as Mrs may be, if meeting a couple it's important to see both

Agreed. In fact I'd probably be more interested in seeing the man. "

I agree too

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

Great point. Just submitted a pic of Mr C for approval.

Have removed the legal warning bit too... Lol

Any other comments or suggestions gratefully received.

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Seems fine to us, very good even.

Just out of interest does the mmf scenario have to be with a single woman or are you the type of couple who'd play with the female in a couple and hubby being there?

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"Seems fine to us, very good even.

Just out of interest does the mmf scenario have to be with a single woman or are you the type of couple who'd play with the female in a couple and hubby being there? "

Thank you

Just with a woman on her own really. x

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

Picture of Mr C is now up. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We think your profile is pretty good (although we know we aren't your target audience!) maybe you just need to put yourselves out there more? Maybe try clubs or attend a local social? Its very hard for couples to meet single fems through the site so you might be better off getting out onto the scene a bit?

Juicy x

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"We think your profile is pretty good (although we know we aren't your target audience!) maybe you just need to put yourselves out there more? Maybe try clubs or attend a local social? Its very hard for couples to meet single fems through the site so you might be better off getting out onto the scene a bit?

Juicy x"

Thanks Juicy.

We have thought about clubs and wondered how many single women there are around usually. Guess we need to try it to find out.

Thanks for the tip.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Thanks Juicy.

We have thought about clubs and wondered how many single women there are around usually. Guess we need to try it to find out.

Thanks for the tip.

We find there are lots of single women at our local club, because it's a safe environment for them to meet people.

find out which would be the best night for you to attend your local and give it a try! We've never looked back since our first club visit xx

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Juicy x

Thanks Juicy.

We have thought about clubs and wondered how many single women there are around usually. Guess we need to try it to find out.

Thanks for the tip.

Even if you don't meet any women to play with there, you will probably be able to get yourself verified in person by people you meet at the club in any case, which will also hugely improve your chances of meeting someone through Fab.

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"We find there are lots of single women at our local club, because it's a safe environment for them to meet people.

find out which would be the best night for you to attend your local and give it a try! We've never looked back since our first club visit xx

Brilliant! Thanks for the advice.

"Even if you don't meet any women to play with there, you will probably be able to get yourself verified in person by people you meet at the club in any case, which will also hugely improve your chances of meeting someone through Fab."

Great point. Thanks xx

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Like someone else said, get yourselves to a club or social. A lot of couples are looking for that elusive single female so they can be selective.

I think you would have to do the searching and messaging too. It may take an age of messages for a single female to feel comfortable enough to meet you both.

Good luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't see your profile before this thread but think it looks ok now ! Nice to see pictures of both of you x. Definitely try a club or bide your time on here x It will happen

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"Like someone else said, get yourselves to a club or social. A lot of couples are looking for that elusive single female so they can be selective.

I think you would have to do the searching and messaging too. It may take an age of messages for a single female to feel comfortable enough to meet you both.

Good luck with your search

Thanks honey. Appreciate the tips xx

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"I didn't see your profile before this thread but think it looks ok now ! Nice to see pictures of both of you x. Definitely try a club or bide your time on here x It will happen

Thank you

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of patience is required we have managed to have two social meets in a year with single fems and been to two socials. A lot depends on how choosy you are as well

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By *r. and mis.jayCouple over a year ago

Lancaster

So how would i be able to find a women on here if i dont post nuds because iam kinda new to this i had my share of women and a cuple 3 ways with the hubby but its hard to find ladies to meet up wirh and have fun

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"A lot of patience is required we have managed to have two social meets in a year with single fems and been to two socials. A lot depends on how choosy you are as well "

It's the filtering that's fascinating eh! Had a couple of dead cert meetings lined up. One was ill at the last minute then disappeared. The other messaged to say she was on the way and then didn't show. Guess it's all part of it.

Maybe a club meet is the way to go. At least then, even if nothing happens there, we can be verified by people for the future.

Thanks again everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of patience is required we have managed to have two social meets in a year with single fems and been to two socials. A lot depends on how choosy you are as well

Maybe a club meet is the way to go. At least then, even if nothing happens there, we can be verified by people for the future.

Thanks again everyone xx"
We have

been on here a year and had lots of meets fall through at the last minute can be very frustrating at times but got to draw a line under them and hope for the next one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if your profile works, then by law it must be earning at least the National Minimum Wage

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By *arkwolf66Woman over a year ago

Horsham,

Your profile reads really well and is quite specific, which is always a good thing, but as I'm always being told, genuine bi sexual women who meet couples are as rare as unicorns so don't think for a second that it's your profile, I hear from couples all the time how difficult it is, but women like myself are often snowed under with requests and I guess that gives us the means to be very selective.

All the very best of luck

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By *rs and Mr BondCouple over a year ago

Sussex

We're planning our first club visit in May, I think it'll be the best way to meet ladies, get verifications and make like minded friends. Good luck,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would want to know what part the man will play in the 3some. I only participate if there is as much interaction with the man as the woman. It doesn't have to be penetrative sex with me but he has to be part of it,with me and his partner. I stopped looking for couples on here because too many just wanted a woman for the woman with the man watching. I can do that alone.

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By *rs and Mr BondCouple over a year ago

Sussex

"I would want to know what part the man will play in the 3some. I only participate if there is as much interaction with the man as the woman. It doesn't have to be penetrative sex with me but he has to be part of it,with me and his partner. I stopped looking for couples on here because too many just wanted a woman for the woman with the man watching. I can do that alone. "

What a waste! I'm obviously a wrong'un then, the thought of having him inside another woman or eating her while I'm elsewhere pleasing or being pleased is AMAZING, the whole point of having a THREESOME is for all three to be involved. I think guys that are only interested in watching the ladies are missing out......hugely!I'll shut up now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It looks fine and as with anyone looking for females, can be hard work, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But may be worth the wait

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

Good point. We've just updated our profile to say that we will both be fully involved. I can't wait to see Mr C sending whoever joins us into orbit (preferably a close up view while my tongue is busy

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"But may be worth the wait

It absolutely will be for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with most of what has already been said however a point to make is that not all single woman will be looking for the same thing from a couple. some may want equal involvement some may lean towards the male or female say. as a single woman I would have chosen a couple as my first meet purely on safety grounds, however that didn't work out. if I was going to go with a couple I think it would have to be scenario driven rather than a formulaic 3 some..gud luck oh and a final thought when ever ive looked at couples ive always concentrated on the female. im not sure if this is incidental or not I just feel more inclined to play with the fem in that situation.

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"I agree with most of what has already been said however a point to make is that not all single woman will be looking for the same thing from a couple. some may want equal involvement some may lean towards the male or female say. as a single woman I would have chosen a couple as my first meet purely on safety grounds, however that didn't work out. if I was going to go with a couple I think it would have to be scenario driven rather than a formulaic 3 some..gud luck oh and a final thought when ever ive looked at couples ive always concentrated on the female. im not sure if this is incidental or not I just feel more inclined to play with the fem in that situation."

Thanks. In our case, we both want to play, so our profile now reflects what we're looking for. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

when i see profiles that are of couples only looking for women,i am put off because i imagine the male half has a problem with confidence and is possessive.

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By *iwife81Couple over a year ago

Bolton

Same here (her) massive thrill for me xx

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By *orshamcouple OP Couple over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

"when i see profiles that are of couples only looking for women,i am put off because i imagine the male half has a problem with confidence and is possessive. "

I guess that could be the case for some. In our case, I love being with women and don't want any guys except Mr C. He isn't turned on by the thought of other guys fucking me either. So a FFM threesome ticks all the boxes.

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By *iwife81Couple over a year ago

Bolton

"when i see profiles that are of couples only looking for women,i am put off because i imagine the male half has a problem with confidence and is possessive.

This

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