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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies.......suggestions on how to break the ice? (Other than a large boat or ice pick) x"
Instead of breaking the ice, let it slowly melt in your glass of rum and |
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?"
i guess he is saying...seen one pair of boobs, seen em all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?"
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
i guess he is saying...seen one pair of boobs, seen em all "
Of course. As you were, OP. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Poor responses"
... no offense... if you are going to play the "la la la I'm not listening" game.... whats the point of anyone helping??
great fan of the saying " you only get one chance to make a great first impression......."
the impression you are making here..... not so good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?"
Thank you ladies. OP it is what you asked for, a suggestion. No need for rudeness in return. I also acknowledged its very much up to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!!"
1 cock vs 11 public photos, some full length, showing a good presentation of her body? Ummm, yes I see the comparison....
I hope you don't use that kind of blasphemy in your classroom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!!"
Like i said a polite way of saying put something else up, cock profile pics dont really do it on here.
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!!"
That wasn't my suggestion. Also, there are only three dots in an ellipsis. |
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!!"
no she didn't, she suggested changing your picture. she didn't say what to though |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!!"
No, she's suggesting not having a close up photo of your genitals as your profile photo.
She doesn't have a close-up photo of her genitals as her avatar so it's hardly hypocritical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loose the cock avatar, expand your profile, stop criticising, people who are offering advice, when you clearly asked for it in the first place. Accept constructive criticism.
Oh yeah good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the response and I appreciate all feedback if it's constructive, however there had been three particularly feeble messages at the point of my "poor response" message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the response and I appreciate all feedback if it's constructive, however there had been three particularly feeble messages at the point of my "poor response" message"
you want advice do something.with your profile you have a three line profile and one cock pic not many people will.be interested in it
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Thanks for the response and I appreciate all feedback if it's constructive, however there had been three particularly feeble messages at the point of my "poor response" message"
Every one of those messages was spot on and good advice.
You're trying to appeal to women, (I assume, I haven't looked), so why not listen to the women who are telling you what is turning women off your profile.
You may not like the responses but they're good advice and definitely not poor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're an English teacher, yes? Why aren't you using that to your advantage in your profile text? Go crazy, good diction is like gold dust on a site like this.
Diction over dick. |
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"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????
i once got given lines in Art Class for blaspheming....didnt even go to a religious school!!! 
Always the rebel eh Evie?   "
and then i got lines for doing my lines in music class haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????
Well it's rather offensive to some people. As is gross overuse of question marks.
Why?????????????
(sorry  )"
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"Thanks for the response and I appreciate all feedback if it's constructive, however there had been three particularly feeble messages at the point of my "poor response" message"
It's a forum, not an exam. No one is obliged to help you, so you should be grateful they have taken time to respond rather than being rude |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"You're an English teacher, yes? Why aren't you using that to your advantage in your profile text? Go crazy, good diction is like gold dust on a site like this.
Diction over dick."
Dick is good, depending on the dick and the man it's attached to. Pictures of dick, unless it's a particularly aesthetic, sculpted dick, which most aren't, are not so good. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????
Well it's rather offensive to some people. As is gross overuse of question marks.
Why?????????????
(sorry )
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I'm a bit hyper and loopy again. I do apologise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????"
I will politely say as others have done, maybe change your avatar pic. Possibly also increase your profile text with some information about yourself. |
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"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????
i once got given lines in Art Class for blaspheming....didnt even go to a religious school!!! "
You can make a half decent drawing if you know how to draw both straight and curved lines |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????
Well it's rather offensive to some people. As is gross overuse of question marks.
Why?????????????
(sorry )
I'm a bit hyper and loopy again. I do apologise."
I'll just go and think about the idea of this being an English teacher again. That'll cheer me up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're an English teacher, yes? Why aren't you using that to your advantage in your profile text? Go crazy, good diction is like gold dust on a site like this.
Diction over dick.
Dick is good, depending on the dick and the man it's attached to. Pictures of dick, unless it's a particularly aesthetic, sculpted dick, which most aren't, are not so good."
Dick may be good, but it's like sugar, too much and you spoil it. Good diction is still more important than a good dick in my opinion. |
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"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????
i once got given lines in Art Class for blaspheming....didnt even go to a religious school!!!
You can make a half decent drawing if you know how to draw both straight and curved lines "
i can draw a good fish lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"You're an English teacher, yes? Why aren't you using that to your advantage in your profile text? Go crazy, good diction is like gold dust on a site like this.
Diction over dick.
Dick is good, depending on the dick and the man it's attached to. Pictures of dick, unless it's a particularly aesthetic, sculpted dick, which most aren't, are not so good.
Dick may be good, but it's like sugar, too much and you spoil it. Good diction is still more important than a good dick in my opinion."
I'll stick with being greedy and wanting both |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"You're an English teacher, yes? Why aren't you using that to your advantage in your profile text? Go crazy, good diction is like gold dust on a site like this.
Diction over dick.
Dick is good, depending on the dick and the man it's attached to. Pictures of dick, unless it's a particularly aesthetic, sculpted dick, which most aren't, are not so good.
Dick may be good, but it's like sugar, too much and you spoil it. Good diction is still more important than a good dick in my opinion."
Well, just sometimes I want them to shut up and just use the dick. The diction usually gets us to that position - with me on top. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're an English teacher, yes? Why aren't you using that to your advantage in your profile text? Go crazy, good diction is like gold dust on a site like this.
Diction over dick.
Dick is good, depending on the dick and the man it's attached to. Pictures of dick, unless it's a particularly aesthetic, sculpted dick, which most aren't, are not so good.
Dick may be good, but it's like sugar, too much and you spoil it. Good diction is still more important than a good dick in my opinion.
I'll stick with being greedy and wanting both "
Both is like hitting the jackpot, can't argue with that. |
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Lose the cock pic..or get some more up..other than your cock that is...there are thousands of profiles on here with just cock pics!what so special about yours?its not like you've dipped your cock in glitter.at least it'll be a shiny cock then |
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"Is blasphemy a crime in the classroom??????
i once got given lines in Art Class for blaspheming....didnt even go to a religious school!!!
You can make a half decent drawing if you know how to draw both straight and curved lines
i can draw a good fish lol"
Well I'm a Pisces  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
What I look for is a decent first message that engages my interest enough to make me respond rather than send to the recycle bin with the many others I receive. I could also choose to use harsher filters and not receive any messages at all, in which case profile text that makes me want to know more and decent pics that show a person rather than just an appendage helps. I will also do a forum search if I'm interested in the person to see what/if they've posted and how they interact on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're an English teacher, yes? Why aren't you using that to your advantage in your profile text? Go crazy, good diction is like gold dust on a site like this.
Diction over dick.
Dick is good, depending on the dick and the man it's attached to. Pictures of dick, unless it's a particularly aesthetic, sculpted dick, which most aren't, are not so good."
Also, being a dick rarely helps...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I will also do a forum search if I'm interested in the person to see what/if they've posted and how they interact on here."
That's you knackered bonny lad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the response and I appreciate all feedback if it's constructive, however there had been three particularly feeble messages at the point of my "poor response" message"
Dude, forget the profile, you need to change your entire personality and attitude.... |
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!!"
As an English teacher perhaps you should have read the post. At no point does it say which part of your body to change the picture too!
I, for one, am pretty sick of seeing cocks all over the place.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you keep your profile exactly how it is, the way you break the ice will be totally irrelevant as most women will look at the profile without even reading the message. Maybe take advantage of your profession and write a little more about yourself and have a good selection of pics, a cock pic will make most women reach for the delete button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best way to break the ice?
Send a message that says a bit about you, what you're looking for, comment on things she talks about in her profile and send a face pic.
From the responses above though, you can obviously see that regardless of your approach, if you dont have an attractive profile to back it up your message is likely to get deleted.
Its worth listening to the advice to change your avatar...perhaps a nice torso or bum pic would serve you better, and flesh out your profile text a bit.
Good luck.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"It does seem that however many times others on here say " lose the cock pics " the boys keep showing us it's all about the willy ? "
well at least you then know where the "brains" truely are....
I think for just one day... people should give no advice at all ....
see how many of them can work it out for themselves but actually doing their own research.... |
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"It does seem that however many times others on here say " lose the cock pics " the boys keep showing us it's all about the willy ?
well at least you then know where the "brains" truely are....
I think for just one day... people should give no advice at all ....
see how many of them can work it out for themselves but actually doing their own
research...."
But where's the fun in that ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bit hypocriticalShe is politely cock pics dont do it!
Herclearly but still hypocritical
Hypocritical how? Do you understand what the word means?
As an English teacher....Yes!
She suggested having a picture of me but doesn't have a picture of herself, hence hypocritical. Jesus!!!"
No way do you teach English! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fabio I think for one day every should just feed the op's ego and say "profile is absolutely spot on, don't change a thing" and see if they notice. That way its fun too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lose the cock pic..or get some more up..other than your cock that is...there are thousands of profiles on here with just cock pics!what so special about yours?its not like you've dipped your cock in glitter.at least it'll be a shiny cock then"
Oooooh! A new photo idea |
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