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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hay guys, me and this gal have been chatting for a week or so and sexing, were meeting up for sex next week and im feeling nervous :S i know she wants me to be rough and i want to talk dirty but im afraid the nerves will get the better of me :P any advice from seasoned pros like yourselves? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont stress nerves are perfectly normal, just imagine seeing her for the first time then kissing licking and sucking her lovely body , then when your done bang the shit out of her  |
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Take this for what it's worth, as we haven't met yet, but I'd say there will be time to meet and greet before getting right to it? I'd suspect that the conversation etc will calm the nerves for both of you!
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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago
Gloucester |
I can't give advice from a guy's point of view,but empathise with feeling nervous... It's the fear of the unknown...that's why I like a social first as it breaks the ice and if the mood is right and it turns into play then that's fine!! Just be yourself,don't make any plans and go with the flow!! You'll have an amazing time!!! |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
I would also suggest making sure she knows that you understand the importance of consent. Let her know that just because she has said all this stuff through sexting, it doesn't mean that she has to go through with it if she doesn't want to. The more relaxed she is, the sexier time you guys will have. Ive heard it put before that "consent is emotional lube"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we like the nerves - adds to the excitement and they disappear really quick once you start chatting etc - we say like many others that if we stop feeling some nerves before a new meet we would probably stop playing |
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