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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I took the missus for a first time meet with another couple and after lots to drink she fell asleep ,she woke up to me being fucked by the couple and didnt say anything till the next day , well she wasnt impressed to say the least but she has fucked me good and hard every night since its like the whole experiance has woken her up and now im confused has anyone else had something happen similar and what was the outcome ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We didnt have any ground rules it was a last min meet a couple of weeks back funny thing is i never intended on doing anything it was her who wanted to go and meet in the first place i was going with the flow |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You'd have to be pretty bored to fall asleep in a situation like that 
Or the drink was drugged?!!  "
To be fair this is a possiblity as i think i was given something at some point as i was extreamly hard all day the next day and not feeling good at all i hardly drink so i put it down to that at the time |
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"We didnt have any ground rules it was a last min meet a couple of weeks back funny thing is i never intended on doing anything it was her who wanted to go and meet in the first place i was going with the flow "
Jealousy makes you weak.
Envy makes you strong.
The envious improve and prepare and make themselves better for next time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!"
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day "
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines? "
Yes the female of the couple even went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!"
Exactly this. I wouldn't be happy with you either. Maybe next time make it a rule to not drink as much or to be careful of your drink in case someone did put something in there... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Strange that your profile seems to be all about you and no mention of a female?! Plus your verifications are for a single man meeting a man?!
Hmm, odd "
Not really i have 2 profiles one with my wife one on my own the one with my wife i meet with her the one of myself i meet alone whats the problem ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines?
Yes the female of the couple even went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom "
But she was d*unk? I must admitt I say a lot of things when I'm d*unk to the point of unconsciousness that I don't actually mean!!! I don't think you were particularly husbandy that night do you? It's a bit off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
Exactly this. I wouldn't be happy with you either. Maybe next time make it a rule to not drink as much or to be careful of your drink in case someone did put something in there..."
We have had that conversation and everything is good if not better than before the whole experiance has brought us together more than before which isnt a bad thing !! i just wanted to know if other couples ever had a similar experiance and where do we go from here !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines?
Yes the female of the couple even went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom
But she was d*unk? I must admitt I say a lot of things when I'm d*unk to the point of unconsciousness that I don't actually mean!!! I don't think you were particularly husbandy that night do you? It's a bit off"
No i dont but i will learn from my mistakes thats whats important |
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By *iwife81Couple
over a year ago
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Being that you took your wife to a first meet, she got so d*unk to the point of passing out, yet you continued to get yourself sorted out. I wouldn't be impressed and I certainly wouldn't feel confident to go on another meet with anyone who did that. As a woman I would want to feel that my partner would be there for me, not leave me passed out d*unk.
Perhaps, she feels like you might want to go back for more without her, and so is trying to out perform any future competition that she doesn't want to have to deal with? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being that you took your wife to a first meet, she got so d*unk to the point of passing out, yet you continued to get yourself sorted out. I wouldn't be impressed and I certainly wouldn't feel confident to go on another meet with anyone who did that. As a woman I would want to feel that my partner would be there for me, not leave me passed out d*unk.
Perhaps, she feels like you might want to go back for more without her, and so is trying to out perform any future competition that she doesn't want to have to deal with?"
Thats a good point ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines?
Yes the female of the couple even went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom "
Hang on, I thought she was asleep and oblivious as to what was going on? |
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By *iwife81Couple
over a year ago
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines?
Yes the female of the couple even went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom
Hang on, I thought she was asleep and oblivious as to what was going on?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being that you took your wife to a first meet, she got so d*unk to the point of passing out, yet you continued to get yourself sorted out. I wouldn't be impressed and I certainly wouldn't feel confident to go on another meet with anyone who did that. As a woman I would want to feel that my partner would be there for me, not leave me passed out d*unk.
Perhaps, she feels like you might want to go back for more without her, and so is trying to out perform any future competition that she doesn't want to have to deal with?"
I completely agree, poor woman  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange that your profile seems to be all about you and no mention of a female?! Plus your verifications are for a single man meeting a man?!
Hmm, odd
Not really i have 2 profiles one with my wife one on my own the one with my wife i meet with her the one of myself i meet alone whats the problem ?"
Just curious as to why you haven't discussed any ground rules for a meet if you obviously meet together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would never ever do this.
The most either of us drink is one glass at a meet
Jools would probably leave me if I did this, and I wouldn't blame her.
All sounds very fishy if I am honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"would never ever do this.
The most either of us drink is one glass at a meet
Jools would probably leave me if I did this, and I wouldn't blame her.
All sounds very fishy if I am honest. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines?
Yes the female of the couple even went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom "
This is making no sense? She fell aslepp to wake up next to you being fucked by the couple? Yet the female of the couple 'went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!"
This!!!! Jealousy isn't the issue. Disrespectfulness from the OP is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!
we had had to much to drink and she didnt want to go home also she was quite happy for me to play at the time but seen her arse the next day
So she specifically said... I'm ok here sleeping you go and have fun? Or something along those lines?
Yes the female of the couple even went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom
This is making no sense? She fell aslepp to wake up next to you being fucked by the couple? Yet the female of the couple 'went in and asked her if it was ok before she got a condom'?"
That's what I said, seems very odd. Maybe she woke her up to ask then she fell asleep again?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was disrespectful of the other couple to pursue a 3 sum, she was d*unk enough to fall asleep, asking her permission doesn't really stand in those circumstances. I'd have kicked you out on your arse if it were me  |
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I think asking her if it was ok was disrespectful from all involved as it would put her on the spot to allow it, rather than brining the night to an end.
Couldn't imagine doing that to N.
Passing out = end of meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I couldn't go through with a meet for whatever reason but my partner went ahead and looked after themselves rather than me, that would be the last time they'd Walk straight. How utterly uncaring and disrespectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dude if i did this mrs would his the roof!!! and i wouldnt fault her swinging. is meant to enhance your sex life as a couple not just your own . I dont think she is jelous if she is annoyed she has a good right to be my hats off to her.turn it around and put yourself in the situation what would you do if it was you that fell asleep, you woke up and she had carried on without you i wouldnt be happy either!! I cant actually believe what your saying she is not jelous she has a appropriate reaction to that situation in my opinion  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I took the missus for a first time meet with another couple and after lots to drink she fell asleep ,she woke up to me being fucked by the couple and didnt say anything till the next day , well she wasnt impressed to say the least but she has fucked me good and hard every night since its like the whole experiance has woken her up and now im confused has anyone else had something happen similar and what was the outcome ?"
Stories and Fantasies forum?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I took the missus for a first time meet with another couple and after lots to drink she fell asleep ,she woke up to me being fucked by the couple and didnt say anything till the next day , well she wasnt impressed to say the least but she has fucked me good and hard every night since its like the whole experiance has woken her up and now im confused has anyone else had something happen similar and what was the outcome ?
Stories and Fantasies forum? "
I hope so feel sorry for his mrs if not though.doing that and then adding insult to injury by implying she is the one being out order think he's got some serious making up to do before trying again for another meet. But still live and learn think we have all had hiccups at some point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be pretty annoyed too, why didn't you just take her home?? I would be more concerned about my unconscious partner than my own sexual gratification!!"
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