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By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Odd question but just to put you in the picture, she plays and I like to watch her. We're contemplating hitting the clubs but noticed some clubs don't allow non participants in the play area fully clothed, don't really fancy dressing down tbh, lol. So the question is how easy is it for couples like ourselves to be able to play the way we like to in clubs? Any clubs spring to mind?
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over a year ago
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"Odd question but just to put you in the picture, she plays and I like to watch her. We're contemplating hitting the clubs but noticed some clubs don't allow non participants in the play area fully clothed, don't really fancy dressing down tbh, lol. So the question is how easy is it for couples like ourselves to be able to play the way we like to in clubs? Any clubs spring to mind?
Thanks."
Try find a club (abfabs comes to mind but there maybe others) that have playrooms with one way glass but then your not in the actual room and the Mrs can't see you so depends how you feel on that but can't see many other options orrrrr they have a cinema room and weve had a lil nose whilst people are playing and we've been fully clothed hope that helps |
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Some clubs have hotels attached and/or private play rooms.
Pretty sure no one is going to judge you or try to stop you in that scenario.
Vanilla alternative doesn't have any lockable private play areas but you could get a hotel room and invite any playmates upstairs. The other option of course is for you to just go down to your boxers. It is really off putting when random people are walking around in the play areas fully clothed to be fair.
Though we would enjoy a scenario if it was pre-arranged and we had spoken to the people involved. |
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"Noticed Vanilla Alternative has hotel rooms as part of its venue. Looks like we've found our perfect venue, liking the nice, classy feel to it too.  "
The VA is a nice classy club (the best we've been to in fact) but they don't really allow clothed guys to be right in the play areas. At least, not where it's worth being. It's a great club and I'd fully recommend it, but a hotel room is a must if you want this particular arrangement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can do as you please in private rooms.
Some clubs offer voyeristic (is that even a word) scenarios.
Plenty of viewing rooms in most clubs.
Cupids has recently added a cuck play setting.
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By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"Noticed Vanilla Alternative has hotel rooms as part of its venue. Looks like we've found our perfect venue, liking the nice, classy feel to it too.
The VA is a nice classy club (the best we've been to in fact) but they don't really allow clothed guys to be right in the play areas. At least, not where it's worth being. It's a great club and I'd fully recommend it, but a hotel room is a must if you want this particular arrangement. "
Exactly how we'd play, the perfect arrangement for us as well as the classy venue. Totally up our street. Would like to know to what standard the accidation is, can't see to many images of these. |
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By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"La Chambre is relaxed about dressing down - male halves of a couple don't have to and many of the rooms (including invitation only rooms) have windows through which you can watch the action
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The next best thing and something we'd like to try. Just to clarify, the invitation rooms have a window and only I if wanted would be there? One or two way window?
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Jaydees sounds an ideal club for you we use it, it's a club that don't force you to strip, play or watch, no pressure to play at all, you will get shown around by hosts or members, sat nights couples with a few singles, Fridays has open night for single guys, we tend to go on sats |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I was going to say the same for Vivente and club f for example when club f wouldn't allow what you want in all sections on a friday but would do on a Saturday....
So if you were looking at a weekend in the north east and did vivente on the Friday and club f on the Saturday.... They are not that far appart that if for example you stayed in the middle like Newcastle it would absolutely be doable |
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La Chambre used to have a room with a cam which broadcast the film to a TV in the bar downstairs, presumably it's still in operation. Maybe you'd like that? Also people wandered around outside the playrooms fully clothed, so you could just watch through the window or open door without dressing down. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"La Chambre is relaxed about dressing down - male halves of a couple don't have to and many of the rooms (including invitation only rooms) have windows through which you can watch the action
The next best thing and something we'd like to try. Just to clarify, the invitation rooms have a window and only I if wanted would be there? One or two way window?
Thanks
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The invitation rooms have two way windows - and if you are inside, with or without your partner, single men can only join you of they have an explicit invitation, otherwise they just stay outside and watch. It's really erotic to take in two or three men, but to have ten or twelve more watching |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"La Chambre used to have a room with a cam which broadcast the film to a TV in the bar downstairs, presumably it's still in operation. Maybe you'd like that? Also people wandered around outside the playrooms fully clothed, so you could just watch through the window or open door without dressing down. "
The cam room is still operational - I have used it a couple of times, the most memorable being just me and a rather beautiful female friend. The audience seemed very appreciative of the girl-on-girl show. |
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"You can do as you please in private rooms.
Some clubs offer voyeristic (is that even a word) scenarios.
Plenty of viewing rooms in most clubs.
Cupids has recently added a cuck play setting.
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gonna lock you in there one of these days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Odd question but just to put you in the picture, she plays and I like to watch her. We're contemplating hitting the clubs but noticed some clubs don't allow non participants in the play area fully clothed, don't really fancy dressing down tbh, lol. So the question is how easy is it for couples like ourselves to be able to play the way we like to in clubs? Any clubs spring to mind?
Thanks."
Has to be Xtasia. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
At the VA, the main play areas are dress down, but there is another "couples only" room. If you are looking at the bar, turn left and go that way, pass the exit and there is another little play area down there. I would have thought the would suitable? |
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Slightly off topic, but not really - when I asked a specific club if we both had to play, as I don't always feel like it, they stated I was a ticket if I did not play. Does not seem to be the case the other way around though. Thing is, I may not find anyone I want to play with on a given evening, and he might. I also thought this was a weird arrangement because taken to its logical extreme, would both partners have to play to exactly the same extent? Thing is, I usually play as much as he does, although I never feel under any pressure by him, so why should I feel pressure by the venue to have to play - of course, we won't even both with going to that specific club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been to loads of clubs... And sometimes we won't play with anyone else, sometimes he will and I won't or vice versa or we will both play
We have never felt pressured to play.. or not too |
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"We have been to loads of clubs... And sometimes we won't play with anyone else, sometimes he will and I won't or vice versa or we will both play
We have never felt pressured to play.. or not too "
I had never before, but this particular club made a real issue of the woman having to play or the man was deemed to be using her to get in cheaply. no such thing as a woman's right to choose there, then. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"We have been to loads of clubs... And sometimes we won't play with anyone else, sometimes he will and I won't or vice versa or we will both play
We have never felt pressured to play.. or not too
I had never before, but this particular club made a real issue of the woman having to play or the man was deemed to be using her to get in cheaply. no such thing as a woman's right to choose there, then."
Weird, I wouldn't want to go to that club. Firstly because I don't want anyone putting pressure on my wife to do something she doesn't want to. Secondly, if I am playing with a woman I want it to be because she wants to, rather than because she has to.
Consent is key in the lifestyle, and if a club doesn't get that it doesn't give you much confidence. |
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"We have been to loads of clubs... And sometimes we won't play with anyone else, sometimes he will and I won't or vice versa or we will both play
We have never felt pressured to play.. or not too
I had never before, but this particular club made a real issue of the woman having to play or the man was deemed to be using her to get in cheaply. no such thing as a woman's right to choose there, then.
Weird, I wouldn't want to go to that club. Firstly because I don't want anyone putting pressure on my wife to do something she doesn't want to. Secondly, if I am playing with a woman I want it to be because she wants to, rather than because she has to.
Consent is key in the lifestyle, and if a club doesn't get that it doesn't give you much confidence. "
Really I think it is because they doubted we are a real couple, as we have had that before as my partner used to go to clubs in his own and I only did one to one meets before him. We have single profiles because of the veris on them but both they and our couple profile are very specific about what and where our relationship is, perhaps too much so. I blocked the club too as don't take that pressure from anyone.
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"Odd question but just to put you in the picture, she plays and I like to watch her. We're contemplating hitting the clubs but noticed some clubs don't allow non participants in the play area fully clothed, don't really fancy dressing down tbh, lol. So the question is how easy is it for couples like ourselves to be able to play the way we like to in clubs? Any clubs spring to mind?
Thanks."
Had some fun with a couple in similar scenario to what you seem to want in xtasia before, we just went in private lockable room, me and her had some fun while he just watched. Can do what you want n private room. |
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La Chambre in Sheffield, on a Saturday it is females and couples only. There is no compulsion for you to dress down in the playing areas.
I'm not completely sure, but I think that as long as you go to the play rooms as a couple then you would also be fine without undressing on a Friday(single guys too on Fridays). Their rules say that single guys must dress down before going upstairs. |
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"What's the best way to approach couples in clubs and how can you tell the real couples from the fake ones?"
Same way you would in any other situation...
Depends on what you mean by fake. Usually instinct will tell us wether a couple is actually a couple or not. If we've got it wrong before we haven't known about it so it's not bothered us lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Odd question but just to put you in the picture, she plays and I like to watch her. We're contemplating hitting the clubs but noticed some clubs don't allow non participants in the play area fully clothed, don't really fancy dressing down tbh, lol. So the question is how easy is it for couples like ourselves to be able to play the way we like to in clubs? Any clubs spring to mind?
Thanks."
Xtasia, no problrms there at all |
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We're into the same scenario, although Andy is ok dressing down in clubs. Others have mentioned Vanilla Alternative - if you can _et a room it's great BUT make sure you go on a night when there are some single guys. We've been on couples nights and had fun but without any watching Amber opportunities x |
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"You can do as you please in private rooms.
Some clubs offer voyeristic (is that even a word) scenarios.
Plenty of viewing rooms in most clubs.
Cupids has recently added a cuck play setting.
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Cupids has yes, but it is a dress down club, not what the Op is looking for I dont think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was going to say the same for Vivente and club f for example when club f wouldn't allow what you want in all sections on a friday but would do on a Saturday....
So if you were looking at a weekend in the north east and did vivente on the Friday and club f on the Saturday.... They are not that far appart that if for example you stayed in the middle like Newcastle it would absolutely be doable"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The 'VIP' room at Eureka. I think the rule is that couples can invite others in. The club is normal smart clothes (except cfnm night) so you are welcome to keep everything on and watch if you want to. |
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Va is perfect for this scenario I can confirm from experience. The couples room at the left hand side of the bar is a great area. You can watch fully clothed from the raised area while your partner plays inside
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"Va is perfect for this scenario I can confirm from experience. The couples room at the left hand side of the bar is a great area. You can watch fully clothed from the raised area while your partner plays inside
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Ooooo never thought of that room! It would be perfect for this scenario! |
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