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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you politely say no when someone sends you the face pic you requested"
Thank you for the pic, but I'm afraid you aren't quite what we are looking for. I'm afraid the spark just isn't there. Good luck with your future endeavors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reply "oh wow, I know you!"
Then sit back and wait for the block!
Problem solved   "
Haha I love this 
I usually just say your not what I'm looking for but have fun xx 99% take that ok, the 1% that go on to continue to message asking what am I looking for get blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's only polite and honest if you send your face pic in return even if you're rejecting. That's if you haven't already.
Also what's up with people asking for a face pic without sending one with said message? |
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"I think it's only polite and honest if you send your face pic in return even if you're rejecting. That's if you haven't already.
Also what's up with people asking for a face pic without sending one with said message?"
why if they arent interested and arent going to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's only polite and honest if you send your face pic in return even if you're rejecting. That's if you haven't already.
Also what's up with people asking for a face pic without sending one with said message?"
Why??? If they are not what I'm looking for then I won't send a pic back, pointless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm going to use this:
"Don’t Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. But no thanks." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have already sent our pic and then asked for theirs...just sounds so cruel to say omg no thx lol..."
It is a tough one! Normally I just end up with a deleted message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you politely say no when someone sends you the face pic you requested
Thank you for the pic, but I'm afraid you aren't quite what we are looking for. I'm afraid the spark just isn't there. Good luck with your future endeavors."
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"I think it's only polite and honest if you send your face pic in return even if you're rejecting. That's if you haven't already.
Also what's up with people asking for a face pic without sending one with said message?"
Sorry, that's a preposterous idea.
People send me face pics all the time. Completely unsolicited. Why should I send them a face pic when I have absolutely no intention of meeting them?! Behave! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never got the face pic no the thanks thing as we only contact profiles that have a bit of information in them and some pics to get an idea of them, the face is generally the least important thing for us, nicely dressed, a nice personality and intelligent conversation are far more important than facial looks, then again we could be saying that as we are mingers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you politely say no when someone sends you the face pic you requested
We always just block if they aren't for us .
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haven't blocked me yet so I'm in with a chance ?????? |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's only polite and honest if you send your face pic in return even if you're rejecting. That's if you haven't already.
Also what's up with people asking for a face pic without sending one with said message?"
I wouldn't send a pic back if I'm saying no thanks. I always send a face pic wih an initial message as I expect one from folk messaging me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's only polite and honest if you send your face pic in return even if you're rejecting. That's if you haven't already.
Also what's up with people asking for a face pic without sending one with said message?
I wouldn't send a pic back if I'm saying no thanks. I always send a face pic wih an initial message as I expect one from folk messaging me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met a few couples even though the face pics we're in all honesty no braw ..
But once we met good God they were fit ,good looking and had great fun , yet we have met couples with amazing pics a..
nd a total let down , don't judge a book and that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do all your face pic swapping on a face pic friday thread, then at least if you get blown out, you can say you are only being sociable
Well it is what I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I ask for a face pic and they reply with one including a message asking to see mine, I always send one even if I'm not interested. I think it's only polite. To let them know i'm not interested I usually say 'cute but not really what i'm looking for, hope you have plenty of fun'. |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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"If I ask for a face pic and they reply with one including a message asking to see mine, I always send one even if I'm not interested. I think it's only polite. To let them know i'm not interested I usually say 'cute but not really what i'm looking for, hope you have plenty of fun'."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I ask for a face pic and they reply with one including a message asking to see mine, I always send one even if I'm not interested. I think it's only polite. To let them know i'm not interested I usually say 'cute but not really what i'm looking for, hope you have plenty of fun'. "
See I just think sending a face pic back with a message saying no gives mixed signals, I've sent one a few times after saying I'm not interested but then it's just an excuse for them to carry on messaging asking what I'm looking for or why I don't want to meet them ...pointless to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had this before. Body looked nice. Good profile. Started chatting got on well but the she sent her face pic and I just wasn't attracted to her at all. So a polite message saying that she was a really nice lady and would love to be friends but nothing else as really wasn't my type. Was all cool and remained friends for quite a while after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I ask for a face pic and they reply with one including a message asking to see mine, I always send one even if I'm not interested. I think it's only polite. To let them know i'm not interested I usually say 'cute but not really what i'm looking for, hope you have plenty of fun'."
common courtesy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like it lol...might even say...think our kids go to school together hehe..."
Which is ironic...
... because our kids do go to school together. I'll say Hi on the playground tomorrow xxx. |
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"If I ask for a face pic and they reply with one including a message asking to see mine, I always send one even if I'm not interested. I think it's only polite. To let them know i'm not interested I usually say 'cute but not really what i'm looking for, hope you have plenty of fun'.
common courtesy xx"
wouldnt go that far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's only polite and honest if you send your face pic in return even if you're rejecting. That's if you haven't already.
Also what's up with people asking for a face pic without sending one with said message?
Sorry, that's a preposterous idea.
People send me face pics all the time. Completely unsolicited. Why should I send them a face pic when I have absolutely no intention of meeting them?! Behave! "
I think he meant when people contact you for the first time and ask you for face pictures but don't send one with their message?
At least that's how I read it. |
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"How do you politely say no when someone sends you the face pic you requested
We always just block if they aren't for us .
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Of all the answers above this is probably the most honest.
This is what usually happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You simply say....Nothing and move on and leave the person thinking he's the elephant man. He then goes into hiding only returning after extensive plastic surgery. He then goes on fabbed and posts a fuck,kiss,avoid and gets a resounding avoid he then gives up completely and becomes a budist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we send a polite thanks but no thanks type message - but what does bug is when they send one then two minutes later ask 'well?' - then few minutes later 'do you not like us then ?' -- this alone would just get deleted even if they looked good - cant be doing with mitherers Sx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you politely say no when someone sends you the face pic you requested
We always just block if they aren't for us .
Of all the answers above this is probably the most honest.
This is what usually happens."
Exactly , why beat about the bush trying to be nice when this way it prevents any direct upset , and stops further complication ?
Having said that we only meet people who want to play with us , so we would expect the same back if weren't for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you ask for a face pic without sending one? That's the issue I mean.
If you've been sent one without requesting it fair enough"
What's the point in sending one back if you're not interested? There's no point |
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