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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends which type you go to chams is sauna based so you wear a towel or underwear. Im member at xtasia and its more like a night club, both are relaxed atmosphere and ive always enjoyed going  |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
STOKE-ON-TRENT |
Atlantis Evolution is a verr, friendly club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent.
A bit like a normal nightclub, music, dancing and then some fun playing upstairs with two small private rooms and public play space. |
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"Depends which type you go to chams is sauna based so you wear a towel or underwear. Im member at xtasia and its more like a night club, both are relaxed atmosphere and ive always enjoyed going "
xtasia - is where x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one  x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x"
Really? He's maybe just looking for cheap admission as single guys are charged a lot more than couples. Also many clubs have waiting lists for single guy membership. As a single woman you would be really looked after at Atlantis as it is quite small and you wouldn't get lost in the numbers. I go in a couple to most of the others but I wouldn't be comfortable as a single woman as the numbers of single men stalkers can be quite high at all of them. This is my personal experience and I'm not associated or a regular at any of them.  |
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"I have never been to one an would like some advice on what to expect. An which are the best ones in the west mids area"
I went to a club for the first time six weeks ago....we went to Chameleons and I loved it so much we had to go back another 3 times |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x
Really? He's maybe just looking for cheap admission as single guys are charged a lot more than couples. Also many clubs have waiting lists for single guy membership. As a single woman you would be really looked after at Atlantis as it is quite small and you wouldn't get lost in the numbers. I go in a couple to most of the others but I wouldn't be comfortable as a single woman as the numbers of single men stalkers can be quite high at all of them. This is my personal experience and I'm not associated or a regular at any of them. "
ty for advice an i would like to give a swing club a try. been thinking for a while about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x"
You will always get this hun. Be very wary!! If a guy offers to take you to a club what are his intentions? Is he using you to get in cheap? Does he want to play? Does he not have the bollocks to go in by himself and is using you as bait to get other females. Maybe none of those but I've been around enough to know the score. Everything he says and does as soon as you step through that door reflects on you. To everyone else you are a couple. Even if you have just met.
Go alone. Tell the staff it's your first time and a good club will look out for you, introduce you to some regulars and make sure you are at ease. If you want any more advise just pm me. Good luck x |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x
You will always get this hun. Be very wary!! If a guy offers to take you to a club what are his intentions? Is he using you to get in cheap? Does he want to play? Does he not have the bollocks to go in by himself and is using you as bait to get other females. Maybe none of those but I've been around enough to know the score. Everything he says and does as soon as you step through that door reflects on you. To everyone else you are a couple. Even if you have just met.
Go alone. Tell the staff it's your first time and a good club will look out for you, introduce you to some regulars and make sure you are at ease. If you want any more advise just pm me. Good luck x"
ty for advice i think i will go alone to a sex club a lot safer
an im sure the staff are on hand x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x
Really? He's maybe just looking for cheap admission as single guys are charged a lot more than couples. Also many clubs have waiting lists for single guy membership. As a single woman you would be really looked after at Atlantis as it is quite small and you wouldn't get lost in the numbers. I go in a couple to most of the others but I wouldn't be comfortable as a single woman as the numbers of single men stalkers can be quite high at all of them. This is my personal experience and I'm not associated or a regular at any of them. "
Before you start battering me for my tongue in cheek offer. I am a member and happy to escort any lady to chams with no hidden agenda or expectations. Not all the males on here have ulterior motives. And as for the op we are friends on here and have had many chats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x
Really? He's maybe just looking for cheap admission as single guys are charged a lot more than couples. Also many clubs have waiting lists for single guy membership. As a single woman you would be really looked after at Atlantis as it is quite small and you wouldn't get lost in the numbers. I go in a couple to most of the others but I wouldn't be comfortable as a single woman as the numbers of single men stalkers can be quite high at all of them. This is my personal experience and I'm not associated or a regular at any of them.
Before you start battering me for my tongue in cheek offer. I am a member and happy to escort any lady to chams with no hidden agenda or expectations. Not all the males on here have ulterior motives. And as for the op we are friends on here and have had many chats"
and you are very naive if you think that this site is not full of men with ulterior motives. Not all but a very high percentage! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x
Really? He's maybe just looking for cheap admission as single guys are charged a lot more than couples. Also many clubs have waiting lists for single guy membership. As a single woman you would be really looked after at Atlantis as it is quite small and you wouldn't get lost in the numbers. I go in a couple to most of the others but I wouldn't be comfortable as a single woman as the numbers of single men stalkers can be quite high at all of them. This is my personal experience and I'm not associated or a regular at any of them.
Before you start battering me for my tongue in cheek offer. I am a member and happy to escort any lady to chams with no hidden agenda or expectations. Not all the males on here have ulterior motives. And as for the op we are friends on here and have had many chats
and you are very naive if you think that this site is not full of men with ulterior motives. Not all but a very high percentage!"
I didnt suggest that men dont have ulterior motives a lot do. Some don't so don't tar everyone with same brush.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ty guys, ive wanted to go but dont know what to expect.just want to try one x
play your cards right I may chaperone you lol
might you
that would be nice x
Really? He's maybe just looking for cheap admission as single guys are charged a lot more than couples. Also many clubs have waiting lists for single guy membership. As a single woman you would be really looked after at Atlantis as it is quite small and you wouldn't get lost in the numbers. I go in a couple to most of the others but I wouldn't be comfortable as a single woman as the numbers of single men stalkers can be quite high at all of them. This is my personal experience and I'm not associated or a regular at any of them.
Before you start battering me for my tongue in cheek offer. I am a member and happy to escort any lady to chams with no hidden agenda or expectations. Not all the males on here have ulterior motives. And as for the op we are friends on here and have had many chats
and you are very naive if you think that this site is not full of men with ulterior motives. Not all but a very high percentage!
I didnt suggest that men dont have ulterior motives a lot do. Some don't so don't tar everyone with same brush.
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Wow talk about having a go at the poor bloke
I've spoke to him and always been respectful and lovely |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
i only asked for advice on swing clubs an the best ones an it turns into a debate
i dont want any nastiness on my post please
an slateing someone off
the guy only offered to take me
to a club
i only wanted advice as i was thinking of trying a sex club out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends which type you go to chams is sauna based so you wear a towel or underwear. Im member at xtasia and its more like a night club, both are relaxed atmosphere and ive always enjoyed going
xtasia - is where x "
West bromich just off m5 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i only asked for advice on swing clubs an the best ones an it turns into a debate
i dont want any nastiness on my post please
an slateing someone off
the guy only offered to take me
to a club
i only wanted advice as i was thinking of trying a sex club out "
Getting back on track - you are very fortunate op as you have some great clubs in your neighbourhood! I've tried xtasia and chams and enjoyed both - but have heard great things about other clubs there too! Might I suggest that for your first visit a club with a dancefloor/dj might be a good idea? - as it would feel like a 'normal' night out and good from a social point of view. Enjoy hun. Xx |
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"I have never been to one an would like some advice on what to expect. An which are the best ones in the west mids area"
I think for a first meet its fair enough to go with someone as it can be quite nervy when you go into a club for the first time
I've taken women into clubs for their first time before and I think it's helped having someone there with them
And being a member myself I've not needed them to 'get me in' etc so I don't feel as if I was somehow 'using' them |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
Although a little further away, could I also suggest The Vanilla Alternative on the A1 just outside Bedford. It's a wonderful family run place with a massive hot tub and 12 on-site hotel rooms. Socialising starts in the bar and lounge areas where some people, especially first timers, stay all evening just chatting with others and getting to know what clubbing is all about. Socialising continues in the hot tub as well as more intimate relationships. As a first timer you can just watch or, if that's what you want to do, join in with others. There is never any pressure from anyone and the helpful staff team are always on hand for advice.
I just love the place which is why I'm there every Friday. If you're not looking for single guys then Saturday night is for couples and single ladies only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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chams in west mids
its very relaxed and fantastic for a night out
its like been in a pub but lots of naked people.so relaxed and non of the bull shit you get in regular pubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Atlantis Evolution is a verr, friendly club in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent.
A bit like a normal nightclub, music, dancing and then some fun playing upstairs with two small private rooms and public play space."
didnt rate atlantis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i only asked for advice on swing clubs an the best ones an it turns into a debate
i dont want any nastiness on my post please
an slateing someone off
the guy only offered to take me
to a club
i only wanted advice as i was thinking of trying a sex club out "
Sex clubs and swingers clubs are two different things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Xtasia would be ideal for you. Licensed bar and big dance floor with a nightclub feel. Big chill out room, separate couples room, open play area and plenty of private rooms.
Go along to a club and have fun.
As for the single guys asking you to go along, yes plenty will ask you but for a first time single female it might put you more at ease |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Xtasia would be ideal for you. Licensed bar and big dance floor with a nightclub feel. Big chill out room, separate couples room, open play area and plenty of private rooms.
Go along to a club and have fun.
As for the single guys asking you to go along, yes plenty will ask you but for a first time single female it might put you more at ease"
as for me wanting to go its something i have thought about doing an thought why not lol an something to try
yes i think it may put me at ease
an just have a relax an have a drink
an probably see how it goes for the first time i may consider cams. im thinking of which one to pick |
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