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By *gian OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi I was talking to a couple a while back I asked them if they wanted to meet up for a coffeee and a chat there response was. "No thanks we don't know you" how are you supposed to get to know someone if the don't want to meet socially lol. Just wondering has anyone else had experiences like this |
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We had arranged a meet only to receive a text informing us he would have to cancel. His reason was he had been to the gym and had got his earphone stuck in his ear and was now at A&E. We gave him the benefit of the doubt and rearranged the meet. On this occasion we received a text saying he couldn't make it as he had to babysit his sister's children. We didn't bother arranging another meet. |
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over a year ago
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Although it sounds like an excuse, last May we had to pull out of a meet a few hours before the guy was due to travel to us as I had to have emergency surgery as my appendix had ruptured! We'd been waiting months to meet too! I sent him a pic of me looking grim with a cannula in my hand to prove it  |
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By *gian OP Man
over a year ago
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"Although it sounds like an excuse, last May we had to pull out of a meet a few hours before the guy was due to travel to us as I had to have emergency surgery as my appendix had ruptured! We'd been waiting months to meet too! I sent him a pic of me looking grim with a cannula in my hand to prove it "
Lol thats what I call proof out of curiosity did you ever meet back up with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A few weeks ago I'd been chatting to someone about possibly meeting up that weekend, as I had a free one - we didn't get as far as actually making an arrangement, but then I messaged her to say I wouldn't be able to make it after all as my (step)grandson decided to be born a week early, arriving on the Thursday night. I dropped everything to make sure I could go and visit the little fella over the weekend and would do the same again, every time, in a heartbeat... |
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By *gian OP Man
over a year ago
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"A few weeks ago I'd been chatting to someone about possibly meeting up that weekend, as I had a free one - we didn't get as far as actually making an arrangement, but then I messaged her to say I wouldn't be able to make it after all as my (step)grandson decided to be born a week early, arriving on the Thursday night. I dropped everything to make sure I could go and visit the little fella over the weekend and would do the same again, every time, in a heartbeat..."
Totally agree. family always should come first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few weeks ago I'd been chatting to someone about possibly meeting up that weekend, as I had a free one - we didn't get as far as actually making an arrangement, but then I messaged her to say I wouldn't be able to make it after all as my (step)grandson decided to be born a week early, arriving on the Thursday night. I dropped everything to make sure I could go and visit the little fella over the weekend and would do the same again, every time, in a heartbeat...
Totally agree. family always should come first. "
absolutely - just hope she didn't think I'd made it up! (I didn't send a pic of me holding the baby as proof...)
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had two no shows in two weeks. no message from one, the other one said he overslept as he did a night shift night before. I didn't rearrange when he asked |
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By *gian OP Man
over a year ago
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"Had two no shows in two weeks. no message from one, the other one said he overslept as he did a night shift night before. I didn't rearrange when he asked "
Looking at your profile it was there loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Might have been scared that you turn up to the meet driving a tank  Worst excuse single guy arranged to meet spent ages getting ready "no show" then at 2am a call "want to meet? Had to pick up son in London"...didn't he know that before hand .. put the phone down on him.. That was the worst had others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.....days of txt tennis, a girl gets prepared then nothing is a proper "Grrrrrr' moment isn't it ladies! I don't do 2nd chances either so it is a shame. Be honest if you have bottled it - which is what I think and hear its mostly about x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I was talking to a couple a while back I asked them if they wanted to meet up for a coffeee and a chat there response was. "No thanks we don't know you" how are you supposed to get to know someone if the don't want to meet socially lol. Just wondering has anyone else had experiences like this "
Maybe in future get to know them first before suggesting a meet |
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"We once got abducted by aliens..after being anally probed I wasn't really up for the meet so we cancelled last minute..
You lightweights, it's timewasters like you that spoil the site "
Instead of telling them we just blocked em  |
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By *gian OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hi I was talking to a couple a while back I asked them if they wanted to meet up for a coffeee and a chat there response was. "No thanks we don't know you" how are you supposed to get to know someone if the don't want to meet socially lol. Just wondering has anyone else had experiences like this
Maybe in future get to know them first before suggesting a meet"
the whole idea of going for a coffee was a way to get to know them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Brother was beaten up by blokes with baseball bats and is in a coma. If that's true how bloody awful if not which I suspect it wasn't, what a horrible thing to make up. |
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"Hi I was talking to a couple a while back I asked them if they wanted to meet up for a coffeee and a chat there response was. "No thanks we don't know you" how are you supposed to get to know someone if the don't want to meet socially lol. Just wondering has anyone else had experiences like this
Maybe in future get to know them first before suggesting a meet
the whole idea of going for a coffee was a way to get to know them "
Yes, but don't just ask straight away in the first message. Introduce yourself and get to know them |
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By *gian OP Man
over a year ago
newcastle |
"Hi I was talking to a couple a while back I asked them if they wanted to meet up for a coffeee and a chat there response was. "No thanks we don't know you" how are you supposed to get to know someone if the don't want to meet socially lol. Just wondering has anyone else had experiences like this
Maybe in future get to know them first before suggesting a meet
the whole idea of going for a coffee was a way to get to know them
Yes, but don't just ask straight away in the first message. Introduce yourself and get to know them"
We did have a few days worth of messages I think they must have gotten cold feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I was talking to a couple a while back I asked them if they wanted to meet up for a coffeee and a chat there response was. "No thanks we don't know you" how are you supposed to get to know someone if the don't want to meet socially lol. Just wondering has anyone else had experiences like this
Maybe in future get to know them first before suggesting a meet
the whole idea of going for a coffee was a way to get to know them
Yes, but don't just ask straight away in the first message. Introduce yourself and get to know them
We did have a few days worth of messages I think they must have gotten cold feet "
Or got bored |
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By *gian OP Man
over a year ago
newcastle |
"Hi I was talking to a couple a while back I asked them if they wanted to meet up for a coffeee and a chat there response was. "No thanks we don't know you" how are you supposed to get to know someone if the don't want to meet socially lol. Just wondering has anyone else had experiences like this
Maybe in future get to know them first before suggesting a meet
the whole idea of going for a coffee was a way to get to know them
Yes, but don't just ask straight away in the first message. Introduce yourself and get to know them
We did have a few days worth of messages I think they must have gotten cold feet
Or got bored"
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