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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago
tongbridge |
Right i have been here for 2 years only on here for fun so dont take too seriously,and thought id never ask this but im going through a dry spot so here goes, is there something wrong or needs changing on my profile/Pics? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Well for someone with recent meeting verifications If say it's working so if it ain't broke.........."
this...
it almost screams unrealistic expectations that people have to be meeting all the time.... |
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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago
tongbridge |
As you may have seen on my profile i do have some new verifications one very recent, and as you can also see it was a social, although very nice and a great couple
One before that if from a great couple i have know for a long time and although i have "played" with them before it has been about 5 months since we last did
The verification before that is new years 2013
Me expectations are not me getting a meet every day or even every month but every few months?
Anyway the reason i reluctantly posted this is almost all my messages i sent out get deleted and the very few that do reply are just letting me know im not for them, which is fine, im just wondering if there is anything putting them off? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
in which case the question may well be what are you doing beyond your profile to help yourself.....
the world of fab doesn't just end at the borders of a profile......
the site gives you the tools to make it work... how many of those are you taking advantage of.... use all, use some, use none... but that is on you to figure out.....and no one can spoonfed that to you |
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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago
tongbridge |
"in which case the question may well be what are you doing beyond your profile to help yourself.....
the world of fab doesn't just end at the borders of a profile......
the site gives you the tools to make it work... how many of those are you taking advantage of.... use all, use some, use none... but that is on you to figure out.....and no one can spoonfed that to you"
Well i am not a guy that looks at a profile pics and goes that will do i look at the whole profile, if it says that i dont fit their wants then i dont message
However if if after reading their profile i match what they say they want then i send them a nice polite message and refer to their profile Is that wrong?
Tools i use are thire profile, the meet tap and these forums
Is there more? |
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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago
tongbridge |
"There's no magic formula, everyone is unique so a magic pill doesn't exist. Try a club try an organised social, try the threads from previous folks asking for advice best anyone can offer is generic advice.
Have fun.   "
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree, no real formula. Sometimes I get a reply, mainly saying no thanks. Sometimes I get a block straight away, presuming I know these people outside of fab. I am having some great converstions with some very lovely ladies though, with hope to meet.
I say just be honest, be yourself, be polite and above all else, dont expect anything lol.
Have fun |
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I too have been on the site for over two years now, and have had what might be deemed as dry spells but I just regard it as downtime and certainly don't fret about it as it is largely of my choosing.
I no longer seek verifications as I hardly see the need to, and occasionally see a couple that I have known for a good long while, and, occasionally someone new, but have stopped striving to meet new people the whole time, which is what I did for the first year here, but am now happy to chat and catch up with the friends that I have made here. |
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By *ordic36Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
Allright here's my two pence:
do not repeat that you're nice and respectful guy more than once, in fact if you want to appear respectful in the eyes of the community, should you even swing?
Lose references to the things you're not good at, ladies wanna know what you're good at.
Don't make assumptions such as "and you reply with more then one word im sure we we get on and have a laugh"
No you do not know that for sure.
In fact lose all references to what you expect. Women hate to be obliged, pressured or expected to do something.
You seem to get turned on by fantasies not real life man. Lose all of it. In real life there are also women who want to be submissive and feel the man wanting them and taking them on. Plenty of women who enjoy sex cannot "get off" from vaginal intercourse or from play with a stranger. What you want them to do- fake it? Lack of communication skills? really? My first play barely said a word but she was so good that later on that night she was all I could think about...she didnt say much but she has a beautiful smile. and her eyes were so full of life... so I'd choose bed skills over communication any time. ^^ don't limit your already scarce choices.
Time wasters? oh come on. your profile is full of restrictions, by the end of it there's hardly any woman left who don't think that she, one way or another, isnt what you're looking for.
And in who's home are you living again?
Btw verifications is pretty good move, social or not. But your profile needs a complete rewriting and have a female friend or playmate take a look at it.
Another good move is showing your face instead of a cock. but be less serious. smile, and look sexy or smart. No need to put up neutral, casual or poor images of yourself.
Thats about it, you're a young man I'm sure you will adapt just fine.
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By *iceguy25 OP Man
over a year ago
tongbridge |
"Allright here's my two pence:
do not repeat that you're nice and respectful guy more than once, in fact if you want to appear respectful in the eyes of the community, should you even swing?
Lose references to the things you're not good at, ladies wanna know what you're good at.
Don't make assumptions such as "and you reply with more then one word im sure we we get on and have a laugh"
No you do not know that for sure.
In fact lose all references to what you expect. Women hate to be obliged, pressured or expected to do something.
You seem to get turned on by fantasies not real life man. Lose all of it. In real life there are also women who want to be submissive and feel the man wanting them and taking them on. Plenty of women who enjoy sex cannot "get off" from vaginal intercourse or from play with a stranger. What you want them to do- fake it? Lack of communication skills? really? My first play barely said a word but she was so good that later on that night she was all I could think about...she didnt say much but she has a beautiful smile. and her eyes were so full of life... so I'd choose bed skills over communication any time. ^^ don't limit your already scarce choices.
Time wasters? oh come on. your profile is full of restrictions, by the end of it there's hardly any woman left who don't think that she, one way or another, isnt what you're looking for.
And in who's home are you living again?
Btw verifications is pretty good move, social or not. But your profile needs a complete rewriting and have a female friend or playmate take a look at it.
Another good move is showing your face instead of a cock. but be less serious. smile, and look sexy or smart. No need to put up neutral, casual or poor images of yourself.
Thats about it, you're a young man I'm sure you will adapt just fine.
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Thanks, that is all i wanted, someone to look at my profile and point out bit, nice one |
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