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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't often ask for advice. I'm a simple guy, not naïve in fab world, and fully understand that people can chat without wanting a meet.
I am respectful of peoples profiles, tastes, rules, etc and understand that if a couple are not looking for guys, then they are not looking for guys.
However, I have started chatting with a couple on here. We appear to be on the same wavelength conversationally. There has been no sexual overtones at all, nor any hint of interest beyond chatting. Apart from the fact they are not looking for guys, I would have love to meet them, even if just for a drink and a chuckle.
I do not want to impose myself in any way, as they are great to chat with. I am enjoying our chats and do not want to jeopardise that in any way. Do I bite the bullet and ask if they would be interested in a social only meet, or do I just enjoy the chat for what it is?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as a social dialog already open, you can ask in a non demanding way, I wondered if you two might fancy meeting for a coffee and social chat as do so enjoy chatting with you both on here.
This leaves it open to them and does not close the door on the online chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask them if they go to a club near you or something similar. Can't speak for other couples but we're happy to meet anyone socially and have done knowing we'll never go beyond that. Sometimes it's good to be able to chat freely about the lifestyle with someone you know you won't end up naked with. |
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Our profile clearly says that don't meet but enjoy chatting on here. Most try to get meets straight away and we point them to our profile....some are ok with that and continue to chat and if we get along that's fine for us. Some then continue to try to get us, or more often Flik alone, to meet and it's at this point that we tend to stop chatting. For us no means no. |
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