FabSwingers.com
 

FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > First message advice

First message advice

Jump to: Newest in thread

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Looking for some advice on what you females like in a first message?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Looking for some advice on what you females like in a first message? "

not

"hi"

or

"fancy a fuck"

try reading the profile and taking something from it adding it to the message

and face pic helps

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

definitely something that shows you've read profile....that alone will make you stand out as its pretty damn rare!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate it when men wrote a massive paragraph about what they are going to do to you, for the first message. So boring and seedy and I simply can't ve arsed to read it so it just gets deleted. Avoid doing that !!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it when men wrote a massive paragraph about what they are going to do to you, for the first message. So boring and seedy and I simply can't ve arsed to read it so it just gets deleted. Avoid doing that !! "

I agree

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *issy louWoman  over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I hate it when men wrote a massive paragraph about what they are going to do to you, for the first message. So boring and seedy and I simply can't ve arsed to read it so it just gets deleted. Avoid doing that !!

I agree"

oh yea, definitely, those type of messages just make me laugh!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"definitely something that shows you've read profile....that alone will make you stand out as its pretty damn rare!"

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it when men wrote a massive paragraph about what they are going to do to you, for the first message. So boring and seedy and I simply can't ve arsed to read it so it just gets deleted. Avoid doing that !!

I agree

oh yea, definitely, those type of messages just make me laugh! "

or cringe at the desperation

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Something like this...

"Hi hun. I hope you like my 40 cock pics! Which one is your favourite? Did you notice that my cock is much bigger than a sky remote?!?!? Impressive huh?

Oh and I'm very safe, never ever do bareback! Unless you ask me too and I'll do it just for you as your exceptionally sexy! But never for anyone else!

So... Do you fancy a fuck?!?!"

Gets them every time

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Something like this...

"Hi hun. I hope you like my 40 cock pics! Which one is your favourite? Did you notice that my cock is much bigger than a sky remote?!?!? Impressive huh?

Oh and I'm very safe, never ever do bareback! Unless you ask me too and I'll do it just for you as your exceptionally sexy! But never for anyone else!

So... Do you fancy a fuck?!?!"

Gets them every time "

You're saying this ISN'T what you women want to hear? Fuck! I've been doing everything wrong

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Something like this...

"Hi hun. I hope you like my 40 cock pics! Which one is your favourite? Did you notice that my cock is much bigger than a sky remote?!?!? Impressive huh?

Oh and I'm very safe, never ever do bareback! Unless you ask me too and I'll do it just for you as your exceptionally sexy! But never for anyone else!

So... Do you fancy a fuck?!?!"

Gets them every time

You're saying this ISN'T what you women want to hear? Fuck! I've been doing everything wrong "

Lol

Let's just say definitly none of the above

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/02/15 17:20:44]

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The content of a message would be irrelevant to us. We'd delete without reading purely because of your chosen user name

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The content of a message would be irrelevant to us. We'd delete without reading purely because of your chosen user name"

ill change mine to hornynyph

Would u reply

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ub... girlWoman  over a year ago

worcester

It always helps with a bit of cheeky banter.

That's what gets me

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"definitely something that shows you've read profile....that alone will make you stand out as its pretty damn rare!"

I didn't read yours !!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The content of a message would be irrelevant to us. We'd delete without reading purely because of your chosen user name"

Well that makes lots of sense! Well said!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/02/15 21:02:16]

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The content of a message would be irrelevant to us. We'd delete without reading purely because of your chosen user name"

Come on is his user name that bad! (Dont look at mine as point taken)

Paul

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Something funny but please god NOT cheesy x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *atsnCorsetsCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield

We hate it when the message we receive is word for word identical to the persons profile. That's not even trying!

With us basically if you can make us laugh you'll get a reply.

Oh and it goes without saying to make sure it's written in some semblance of English with a smattering a good grammar thrown in for good measure.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

  

By *bsinthe_boyMan  over a year ago

Luton

I always strive to be polite,, friendly but not too cheeky. I write something directory related to the lady/couple's profile - referring to something that caught my eye or that I specifically found interesting/amusing.

Never cut and paste. Never send generic messages. Remember it is a human being (or two) that you are writing to.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic

0.0156

0