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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But does anyone think going to the club's is more productive than one to one meets? I have no verification's and it's not through a lack of trying. But any clubs I have been to I have had an enjoyable evening with like minded people and it's a lot less soul destroying. This is a sex site so everyone should know what they want its just a question of finding someone attractive to you simples? |
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"But does anyone think going to the club's is more productive than one to one meets? I have no verification's and it's not through a lack of trying. But any clubs I have been to I have had an enjoyable evening with like minded people and it's a lot less soul destroying. This is a sex site so everyone should know what they want its just a question of finding someone attractive to you simples?"
Have you not got veris from club meets? Often a good way to get em... That prob would help here too, as no veris puts many off ( even tho we were all there once when we started!)
We tend to go to clubs more. Mainly cos we both enjoy that whole set up and the type of parties we attend at different venues.
 ... Why not just enjoy clubs, as we have found that often it opens doors to other adventures too..
We have met people who don't use fab at all ... Is another swinging world out there ! Good luck with all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I am not fussed about veri's I have been to bizarre events in London a number of times usually booking through their own website and have had a good time. I was just thinking aloud as I had been in contact with a couple arranging a meet only for the contact to stop. Alot of people have complained about time wasters ruining their plans obviously a club meet avoids that. |
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We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.
Really wondering today why we're bothering  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do pretty good either way so don't mind. Give us a club night for a night out and the delights that are on offer but just as happy meeting people 1-2-1 at homes. Something nice about being as to relax in good sexy company. |
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"We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.
Really wondering today why we're bothering "
You have a LOT of constraints so it's little wonder you're struggling a bit more than your average couple. |
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"We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.
Really wondering today why we're bothering
You have a LOT of constraints so it's little wonder you're struggling a bit more than your average couple. "
I wouldn't say a lot, but some. We are hoping to sort the time issue soon though |
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"We currently feel like we're going nowhere. Can't get to a club as we can only play between 3 and 6 some days at the moment. Can't even get a couple interested in meeting us for a coffee.
Really wondering today why we're bothering
You have a LOT of constraints so it's little wonder you're struggling a bit more than your average couple.
I wouldn't say a lot, but some. We are hoping to sort the time issue soon though "
It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though  |
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"Do like a good club night and meeting different people. Can't beat the ambience of a good club and the facilities it offers. "
Totally agree plus for us it's all about the fun not the verifications (probably why we don't have any) as no one we have ever spoken to in a club has asked us if we have a veri...and why should they  |
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"It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though "
Interesting. When we have gone to a club we've always had plenty of fun, so the other things don't seem to be an issue there. I wonder why it's different |
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"id say going out n meeting real people in any club or bar is the way to go"
Odd one this, on the face of it yes its obviouse advise.However take myself for example in a club or bar enviroment i,m not all together comfortable or that confident.Yet in a swingers club or social I seem ok???
Still can,t get my head round that. |
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"It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though
Interesting. When we have gone to a club we've always had plenty of fun, so the other things don't seem to be an issue there. I wonder why it's different"
Not sure - maybe it's a case of not feeling complicit in aiding someone else to play behind their partners back in a private meet. It's THEIR responsibility that they've gone to a club - not a specific arrangemnt. Also, size-wise, people can see you face to face and decide whether you float their boat. Plus the time thing isn't an issue. I know I wouldn't want to be checking my watch every 10 minutes in a 'timed' meet. |
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"It's not just the time issue though is it? You've said you're a bigger lady (not to everyone's taste) with a fb (not everyone likes playing with fb couples), your fb is married (that will be a no-no for many) PLUS there's the time issue. I'm sure you will find someone but I'm just saying you're up against a few barriers. Good luck though
Interesting. When we have gone to a club we've always had plenty of fun, so the other things don't seem to be an issue there. I wonder why it's different
Not sure - maybe it's a case of not feeling complicit in aiding someone else to play behind their partners back in a private meet. It's THEIR responsibility that they've gone to a club - not a specific arrangemnt. Also, size-wise, people can see you face to face and decide whether you float their boat. Plus the time thing isn't an issue. I know I wouldn't want to be checking my watch every 10 minutes in a 'timed' meet."
Yeah, maybe. We've never needed to keep checking the time though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs. "
Oh!!... That's why people are wearing gimp masks.
Disagree with your comment I found clubs/parties a pleasing mixed crowd. |
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"Old ugly unattractive people still go to clubs.
I take the sweeping statement that you don't attend clubs then?
Don't knock what you've not tried.  "
The statement wasn't exclusive. They didn't say ONLY old minders go to clubs. I think they were saying that clubs are not just a haven of heavenly bods.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you say not bothered but getting verified might stop those that chat and decide against taking it further - one social or club night should suffice- ask the hosts to verify you as genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP can't you ask I like minded person you have had a good time with to write you a verification? Or someone who works at the club perhaps?
I prefer 1-2-1 meets no need for a club if I have one of those.
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