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Why wont anybody give me a chance
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is 20 words long. Zero effot = zero reward.
Plus it comes across as you just wanting to empty your balls and not really caring who with - not a good image to portray |
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"Your profile is 20 words long. Zero effot = zero reward.
Plus it comes across as you just wanting to empty your balls and not really caring who with - not a good image to portray"
I totally agree
All the detailed profiles listing likes dislikes and information get all the action
Ahem .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've gotta agree, your profile description sucks! Plus you need to delete or hide a few pics.
Your one of so many on here so you really do need to say and show why all those other single guys should be bypassed in favour of you!
Good luck!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"
Your pics aren't too bad (delete the one with the vodka bottle and p*ssed look) but your profile says absolutely nothing about you. You need to sell yourself, and tell people what you can offer a potential meet and what you are are hoping for from one.
When we look for single blokes to meet, profiles that show a little personality and intelligence are usually the ones that get a reply.
Side Note - Statuses whining about a lack of replies/meets is a MASSIVE turn off.
Juicy x |
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........"If you change your mind, I'm the first in line
Honey I'm still free
Take a chance on me
If you need me, let me know, gonna be around
If you've got no place to go, if you're feeling down
If you're all alone when the pretty birds have flown
Honey I'm still free
Take a chance on me
Gonna do my very best and it ain't no lie
If you put me to the test, if you let me try
Take a chance on me
(That's all I ask of you honey)
Take a chance on me
You're welcome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think you need to ask yourself would you be interested in somebody with a nondescriptive profile ! Write a bit about yourself ! You need to sell yourself on here !
Her x |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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You have a whiny status, look a bit lad on holidayish in your photos and say nothing about what you like or what kind of person you like in your profile. There are probably many more single guys on here than any other group and nobody's going to bother asking you more when there are loads of other people in your demographic that they can easily find out more about from their profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck , " m
I've been on here as a single female ! The verifications didn't bother me as we all start off new at some point ! Patience is the name of the game !! Try going to a few socials or clubs so people get to know you ! Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd me interested in your views on my profile. Not convinced about my profile pic as its aimed at couples. But I hope my profile text isn't too bad"
nice clear face photo and profile which is readable and sounds good..
good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree your profile text needs more work. What about mine, I fear I may have been too wordy in mine"
Yours is pretty good, its not 'too wordy' and it sells you as an articulate and intelligent gent. If you were local to us you would get the courtesy of a reply from us at least xx |
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"I'd me interested in your views on my profile. Not convinced about my profile pic as its aimed at couples. But I hope my profile text isn't too bad"
Mostly, your profile is good. See, OP? Look at this guys profile and compare it to yours. The only thing I'd stress about would be the ...."always smell nice"...because what if you were on the way to a meet and you slipped and fell in a silage pit? I'd add a proviso to that bit, you know, elephant dung accidents etc. |
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All of the above ,
What I suggest is get yourself to clubs and socials get to know ppl and get verified single guys do have to work so much harder to prove u are genuine guys and u get out what effort u put in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ur still interested by the time u get to mine , ur profile says one thing to me, ur a player who don't care who u play with because u will probably be d*unk anyway , I like the fact it's not covered in cock pics but you need to remove the vodka one , write something about what ur looking for and tell us what you have to offer us x happy fabbing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read my profile.
THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend's.
I hate to stroke your ego, but true... great profile " . It made me chuckle too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At leadt you have pics including your face. More than many of the no-hopers on here.
Your 1and a half lines of text however.....leaves so much to be desired.
Basically says shag me....I will shag anything!
May explain the one and only positive reply on this forum.....I mean....would you? I know I wouldn't !
I'm an average looking, nothing particularly special kinda guy......look at how many verifications I have.....now look at my profile compared to yours.
Sort yourself out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If ur still interested by the time u get to mine , ur profile says one thing to me, ur a player who don't care who u play with because u will probably be d*unk anyway , I like the fact it's not covered in cock pics but you need to remove the vodka one , write something about what ur looking for and tell us what you have to offer us x happy fabbing xx"
Yes I agree with what you have put but the trouble with giving good advice is that he may take it. I'd rather know that the fella I've chosen to meet isn't a vodka swiggin player who would shag half the site given the chance. So OP if your profile reflects you do us all a favour and leave it the way it is. |
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"If ur still interested by the time u get to mine , ur profile says one thing to me, ur a player who don't care who u play with because u will probably be d*unk anyway , I like the fact it's not covered in cock pics but you need to remove the vodka one , write something about what ur looking for and tell us what you have to offer us x happy fabbing xx
Yes I agree with what you have put but
the trouble with giving good advice is
that he may take it. I'd rather know that
the fella I've chosen to meet isn't a
vodka swiggin player who would shag
half the site given the chance. So OP if
your profile reflects you do us all a
favour and leave it the way it is. "
Happily, it won't make one iota of difference if he does remove his vodka photo because anyone with a hint of common sense will green arrow him as part of their research. I've had the same problem with trying to deny it being me dressed as a sheep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just do what works for you.
Your profile is your shop window. There is no magic formula I'm afraid as what might attract some people will push others away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"
You mean no one wants to give you the free fuck you are after??
Shame on them!
After all, it only takes a line or so of really bad spelling as a profile and a moaning post to get a fuck, doesn't it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read my profile.
THAT is how you get the bitches and hoes, my friend. "
Credit where its due, your profile write up is mint!! Not sure there's a need for quite so many torso pics though....However nice they are!!
Juicy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck , "
Cack...I was a waddling great 44inch waist and unverified when I had my first meet.....
How does any guy on here get there first veri?
By getting themselves across well in their profile, a bit of patience, contacting the right people and generally having a positive attitude and a bit of respect towards the whole thing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours????? its terrible, would in no way wanna meet ya at all
Honest "
Where's that bloody block button!!!!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?"
Try harder I saw a bloke today with 370 verificationsif he an do it so can you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck ,
Cack...I was a waddling great 44inch waist and unverified when I had my first meet.....
How does any guy on here get there first veri?
By getting themselves across well in their profile, a bit of patience, contacting the right people and generally having a positive attitude and a bit of respect towards the whole thing.... "
totally with this vomment. Sod all to do with numbers or luck. All to do with marketing . .. well padt 200 vetifications and counting. Im a grey haired, balding average guy in real life....but a sexual demon on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours?????
More than adequate. How's mine? "
Just one minor thing missing... You really do need one or two pictures of yourself in various and very compromising positions with a couple specifically from Colchester to be perfectly honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx
Great pics and description x"
Thank you! Had a sneaky perv at yours and think your pics are brilliant, some of them artistic even xxx |
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"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx" . Good pictures and you also explain clearly what you are looking for . It might be even better if you added some hobbies and interests . Overall a good informative well written profile with nice pictures.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry to everyone i have only just seen alot of people have replied i have now changed my profile i have only read a few comment and thankyou to all those who helped me out i am very greatful i hope people do not think i am a time waster or anything cos i am far from it im actually a good lad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we've given our thoughts on a few profiles from this thread we're intrigued to know what people think of ours?? Xx
Great pics and description x
Thank you! Had a sneaky perv at yours and think your pics are brilliant, some of them artistic even xxx"
Wow, really! Thankyou x
I'm not bad with an IPhone lol xx |
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"Nice genuine lad n no1 will reply talk or meet bin stood up n lot my reply is why?" . Maybe avoid text talk and as you are unable to accommodate offer to pay for a hotel room. You will need to add you hobbies and interests and give a lot more information on the type of person that you are .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to everyone i have only just seen alot of people have replied i have now changed my profile i have only read a few comment and thankyou to all those who helped me out i am very greatful i hope people do not think i am a time waster or anything cos i am far from it im actually a good lad"
Better, but your probably going to be roasted for poor punctuation sooner or later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG.....a first on the forums. A guy who read advice and acted on it.
Profile may not be perfect still nut an efgirt has been made.....so come on ladies....give the guy a chance !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OMG.....a first on the forums. A guy who read advice and acted on it.
Profile may not be perfect still nut an efgirt has been made.....so come on ladies....give the guy a chance !!"
What's "efgert" mean? Sounds Dutch?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours?????
More than adequate. How's mine? "
Awesome.
I'm on board the band wagon, how does mine shape up? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Fuck it! We're jumping on this band wagon whilst the wheels are still in motion! How's ours?????
More than adequate. How's mine?
Awesome.
I'm on board the band wagon, how does mine shape up?"
Says it all really. With a touch of humour. Makes me want a cup of tea and to whistle the Hovis music though. And I'm not even Northern. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well ive changed my profile hope now its ok its staying the way it is now thsnk you to all for the good advice i hope now my profile is ok n thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankyou for your comment i sm greatful and finally updated my profile"
I wouldn't put all the comments in about your profile not being very good.
Go straight in to talking about you.
Try paragraphs:
1. Talk about you as a person.
2. Talk about your likes.
3. Talk about your dislikes.
4. State what you are looking for.
5. Close your text, say that you look forward to meet people etc.
Remember to use punctuation and capital letters. Read it back through to ensure it makes sense. |
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"Your a guy on fab lol dosnt really matter what you write there's about 40 to 1 ratio of guys to woman on here so if you ain't model material or been verified some how your stuck , "
That's not strictly true...I've spoken to lots of great men on here...it's really down to the approach and the effort to converse first.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankyou for this i might change it tomorrow changed it alot tonight"
Nice one mate now you have that sorted, start getting out to local socials and clubs and enjoy yourself!
Juicy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OMG.....a first on the forums. A guy who read advice and acted on it.
Profile may not be perfect still nut an efgirt has been made.....so come on ladies....give the guy a chance !!"
There was a chap yesterday too....something in the water? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankyou for this i might change it tomorrow changed it alot tonight"
take your time and treat your profile as a work in progress...you can tweak and adjust it as you change and stuff occurs to you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd me interested in your views on my profile. Not convinced about my profile pic as its aimed at couples. But I hope my profile text isn't too bad"
Start your own thread instead of high jacking someone else's |
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